Is it true that kindness can t be a big deal? Is it a good thing to be too kind?

Kindness is right, it can achieve great things, but you have to understand a truth"Help"The skill of helping people with kindness is only valuable to strangers, if you are in a group, your kindness helps people more times in the group, then it becomes used by people and used as a punching bag, you have to understand the shortcomings of human nature.

You can be kind, yes, you can feel like I am that everyone in the world is good. But don't forget that there is a kind of person in the world called a person who will take advantage of people, you can be kind, but don't take advantage of your kindness, when you are dealing with people, you directly find that something bad may happen to this thing, please give up your kindness in time.

Could it be that you are kind in order to achieve great things? The great wealth of the career depends on the numerological pattern, and it is mostly the cause of charity in previous lives. In fact, there are various types of people who have a successful career and a large amount of wealth, so there is no characteristic that can be said to be necessary or harmful, it is the aggregation of various causes and conditions.

Kindness should be very auspicious, and achieving great things is not necessarily auspicious at home.

Kindness is not abuse, you can believe that the world is beautiful, but you still have to have a trace of defense, a trace of vigilance against the world, after all, no one will be endlessly good to people for no reason, you can be kind all the time, but others may not be 100% kind?

Capable goodness, not stupidity (not the kind of fake good old man), without hidden aggression, can achieve a person's heart. This angle is the biggest thing.

Kindness is one's own choice, not an excuse for one's own incompetence and cowardice. Every time you choose kindness, you must know that your bottom line is in **, it is enough.

Keep yourself, I'm kind and I'm proud. Even if it can't be a big thing, what does it have to do with being kind or not being kind if you can't make a big thing? If you want to achieve great things, work hard, study more, and exercise more.

Kindness is really just a personal choice, and you can hold on to the flame within yourself when everyone is "doing that."

Smart people use goodness where it should be used"You can't have the heart to hurt others, and you can't have the heart to defend people"

Please refer to Wang Yangming's psychology, in fact, it is more difficult to be a good person than to be a bad person.

Yes, I will continue to be kind.

A good heart is the most basic moral code we call human. In this world, not everyone is ungrateful, and not everyone is indifferent. In this world, except for a few malice, the rest are all kindness, and maybe some people will not appreciate your kindness, but will only get more inches.

But the kindness of your heart is commendable to the world and to others.

Kindness is actually very simple, maybe it's just your unintentional help, it solves the things that most people urgently need to solve and some can't do anything, because of people's gregariousness and unique human emotions, so there will be people who need help anytime and anywhere, maybe a few simple words of comfort, or maybe something that can be solved with help, so your kindness is not useless. We should be kind people, but our kindness needs to be selective.

Some people take the kindness of others as weak, unscrupulous bullying; Treat other people's kindness as garbage, and hurt with bad intentions!

Kindness is given to the right person, the achievement of others, and the happiness of oneself; Kindness is given to the wrong person, and it is calculated by others, and it hurts oneself!

In this world, not everyone knows gratitude, it is a snake, destined to hurt people; It's a wolf, doomed to be insidious!

If you are too kind, you will agree to whatever others say, and your contribution will seem cheap.

There is nothing wrong with kindness per se, it is those who have bad intentions who are wrong.

Don't be kind to everyone, some people don't deserve it;

Don't help everyone, there are people he doesn't deserve.

Sincerity is hard to find, don't be humble, kindness is expensive, don't waste it, angular kindness is true kindness;

Kindness with a bottom line is great wisdom!

If you think about it, kindness is for yourself, not for others. So I will continue to be kind.

Many people will encounter some things that make them particularly distressed and helpless in real life, for example, they are obviously doing good deeds with good intentions, but they will be misunderstood by the other party, and even scolded by the other party, so in this case, as far as I am concerned, I will continue to choose to stick to kindness.

First of all, we should realize that everyone's cultivation and level cannot be the same, many times, when we do good things, but do not get the approval of the other party, but are responded to by the other party with a bad attitude, then, in this case, we should not change our minds, give up our own kindness, should not punish ourselves for the mistakes of others, real kindness is from the bottom of our hearts, is not affected by anyone or anything, And as long as our kindness is our own continuous persistence, then we will inevitably find people who truly recognize us, which will give us a certain sense of satisfaction and achievement.

On the other hand, when they have done a good deed and are misunderstood by the other party, after being scolded by the other party, if the other party can understand the original situation, they will often take the initiative to find themselves to apologize, after all, I believe that the vast majority of people are kind and know how to be grateful, so in this case, we should not be too entangled and distressed by such a thing, as long as it is explained clearly to the other party, then the misunderstanding between the two people will be quickly eliminated, even if the other party can not understand themselvesIn this case, there is no need for us to persist and persevere, as long as we do our best and stick to our kindness, then we will also make our hearts more calm and down-to-earth.