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What doesn't belong to you, even if you force it, there is no point in getting it, so sometimes you have to learn to give up, believe it, every day no matter how we live, we will get better and better.
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Time, time, time, time, you're going to get through this time and you're going to be fine, and then you're going to be mature, and I'm for you
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After a short time, you will understand that people don't want you anymore, and it's useless for you to still miss them.
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Don't forget it. Time will wear away all traces, there is no special advice for you, and that's how I came out.
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It would be nice to have a little longer, and that's just a kind of tolerance for yourself.
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Tell yourself that it's not mine, that he doesn't deserve to love himself, that he doesn't have to live happier without him.
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Love someone can't let go of the solution: if it is worthy of love, be brave to grasp it, if it is love but can't, then go with the flow, love is good, not necessarily accompanied to old age.
1. If it is worthy of love, be brave enough to grasp it
In all unsuccessful relationships, there is a person who does not work hard or works in the wrong direction, if the relationship is not smooth, stop and see if it is a deviation. Feelings are the game of the brave, not the game of the inferior, all people with low self-esteem, who want to try to improve their self-confidence by others love themselves, will eventually fail.
Self-confidence comes from within oneself, and only from the inside to the outside self-confidence can make oneself truly happy, and all unsatisfactory can be solved by returning to the level of hard work.
2. If you can't love it, then let it be
Love is a long process, enjoy the happiness that love brings you, you don't need to deliberately suppress your feelings, and let love develop slowly over time. Now you have this kind of thought, but you are just immersed in love, and you don't know how to treat it yet, just let it be, all your uneasiness, will slowly get used to it, and slowly adapt.
Love is not only dry firewood, but also firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea. You can never wake up a person who pretends to be asleep, you can never touch a person who doesn't love you, and you can't keep a heart that is destined to go.
3. It's good to have loved, not necessarily to be with you until you get old
"Letting go is never the price of growth, letting go is growth itself. "As the saying goes, if you can afford it, you can put it down. Many people often only "can afford it", but ignore "can put it down".
In fact, letting go is a kind of bearing, but also a kind of courage. Before a person puts it down, he will always feel that what he holds in his hand is the best. You can't even imagine what you're missing out on when a person puts it down.
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Summary. Dear to someone, as long as you give your sincerity and hand over your true feelings, you will be unable to extricate yourself and will not be able to control yourself; For the sake of one person, one can let go of everything and let go of everything; For the sake of true love, I will not cherish my life if I give up my life; But sometimes no matter how deep the love is, it is meaningless; Because not being able to be with your loved ones is the most painful thing in life; The love in the heart is entangled in oneself, and the heart will not be able to let go;
Dear to someone, as long as you give your sincerity and hand over your true feelings, Xingqing will be unable to extricate yourself and will not be able to control yourself; For the sake of one person, one can let go of everything and let go of everything; For the sake of true love, I will not cherish my life if I give up my life; But sometimes no matter how deep the love is, it is meaningless; Because not being able to burn with your beloved is the most painful thing in life; The love in the heart is entangled in oneself, and the heart will not be able to let go;
Dear, can I, what can't let go of her the most?
I want to know if it's because I can't let go of love, or because I can't let go of it willingly.
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01. When you don't sell the next person, you must first learn to give up and let go of it is not only a way to talk about macro things, but also as a long-term state of life.
02. Trying to divert attention is an effective way for people to get busy, because when they are busy, they will forget the sad past, and those who can't let go forget about the spring. When you can't let go of someone in your heart, try to do other things to divert your attention, you don't have to deliberately forget, the more you deliberately forget it, the more you can't make trouble, the more you think about it.
03. Strive to improve ourselves, dig out more beautiful past, never go back, no matter how much memories are in vain, we should let go of the past to start a new life and pursue a new life. What individuals should do if they can't let go of the difficulties is to work hard to improve themselves, so that they have the ability to hold on tightly when they meet the next relationship, and to improve themselves is also to give themselves the courage to face the future life, no matter who they are, what age, chasing a better self is the most meaningful thing in life.
What is the relationship? If it is a relationship and you want to let go, it is recommended that you stay away from him and clean up all his things, while touching things. If it is a relative, you are worried about your relatives and can't send him, then you have the opportunity to see him, if it is inconvenient to see, then make a ** greeting.
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