I have a girlfriend and I m planning to marry her, but his parents say it s too far! Strongly disagr

Updated on society 2024-07-09
6 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Do whatever it takes to get your girlfriend out of the way.

    Then go outside by yourself and make your own way out of the world in the fastest time.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Do you love her Do you believe it It's not a problem to have a child first.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    The girlfriend's parents resolutely disagreed, and the main reason was that they were not at ease and insecure about marrying far away.

    I am afraid that when there are conflicts and problems between the two of you in the future, you will bully your daughter, who is in a strange city, has no friends, no development opportunities, and may be carried away by feelings at first, but she is very happy. But if there is no way to solve these problems in the future, it will be very painful.

    You have a good personality and a reasonable plan to convince your girlfriend's parents, so that everyone can be happy.

    You can tell my girlfriend's parents that now the information traffic is very developed, and they call at least twice a week, and once a month they go home to visit their parents. If your girlfriend's parents are coming to your city, you're especially welcome.

    My daughter not only has a good job, can display her talents, realize her social value, has friends, a social circle, and a future for development, and she will definitely work hard to make her girlfriend's life better.

    Your girlfriend's parents are naturally happy and relieved to hear these assurances from you.

    In fact, fate is in your own hands, it depends on how you do it, how you coordinate the interests and needs of all parties.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Summary. Hello, it's understandable that the family doesn't agree, after all, it's not a year or two older, and if you don't agree, your parents are reluctant to take the bride price.

    My girlfriend is more than me, and everyone disagrees with me, what should I do, I am 23, my girlfriend is 27, and she will be 28 soon, and my dad said that she will definitely urge her to get married in two more years, after all, the age is up. He said that I am now working and going to graduate school at the same time, and I also rent a house to live. If you want to buy a house in Suzhou, you have to buy a house for at least four or five years.

    He also said that even if he wanted to get married, he would have to save time for the bride price and down payment on the house, and he didn't want me to get married too early. So very much against. I would like to ask if there are any good ways to communicate with the family.

    Hello, it's understandable that the family doesn't agree, after all, it's not a year or two older, and if you don't agree, your parents are reluctant to take the bride price.

    Yes, especially my mother, who cried and made trouble, scolded me in various ways, and disagreed.

    If you're four years older than your girlfriend, your mom won't have anything to say.

    Yes, yes, my parents said the same. Now it's that after all, I'm older than me, and then I should be not very satisfied with my girlfriend, and then I don't agree with all kinds of dissatisfaction. And then the side of her house means that if my side agrees, her side of her house can do it.

    Marriages that are not blessed by their parents are usually not happy.

    yes, so I would like to ask the teacher if there is any good advice.

    I'm afraid that if you don't go along with your parents, you won't be happy in the future.

    I was also worried about this, and it didn't work to communicate with my family a few times, so I wanted to consult a counselor to see if there was a good way.

    This, really can't do it, raw rice is cooked and cooked.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Summary. Hello dear, glad to answer for you. The girlfriend said your conditions, and he estimated that his parents would not agree to it because:

    Your girlfriend's family will think that your family conditions are not very good, so your girlfriend's parents will not agree. You can reply, and I will show my determination to love you with action. Since your girlfriend has already said this, it means that the conditions at his home will be very demanding.

    So don't give everything to this girlfriend, because the relationship is for two people, and two people need to work together, and he can't veto everything you have in one sentence. No one is born with a golden key. Most need to go through acquired efforts.

    Hope mine can help you.

    My girlfriend said my conditions, she estimated that her parents would not agree, hello dear, I am happy to answer for you. When your girlfriend says your conditions, he estimates that his parents will not agree to it, because his girlfriend's family will think that your family conditions are not very good, so his girlfriend's parents will not agree.

    You can reply, and I will show my determination to love you with action. Since your girlfriend has already said this, it means that the conditions at his home will be very demanding. So don't give everything to this girlfriend, because the relationship is for two people, and two people need to work together, and he can't veto everything you have in one sentence.

    No one is born with a golden key. Most need to go through acquired efforts. Hope mine can help you.

    Is this a test of what I mean?

    Dear, this sentence has the meaning of testing you, and it also means telling you the facts.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    My parents have always opposed me and my girlfriend together, now it has been nine months, when we were first together, my girlfriend didn't know, she wanted to get married early, and then I promised him, now my parents still don't agree, because she has a small skeleton, 160 height, weight 96, girlfriend also suffered a lot of grievances during the period, because of the parents' opposition level, now girlfriend, and her family want to get engaged at the end of the year or the beginning of 23, I can accept it, but how to persuade my parents, how do I talk to them, the engagement plan.

    Hello dear<> first, listen carefully to your parents' ideas, why don't you agree? This is the most critical. Once you know why, you can make a targeted decision on what to do next.

    2. If your parents have convinced you and the reasons for disagreeing are reasonable, you should follow your parents' advice and give up your intention to get married. 3. If you disagree with the reasons your parents say, you should talk about your situation and opinions, and communicate patiently with your parents. When reasoning, we should not only stand on our own standpoint, but also consider purely from our own interests.

    More importantly, from the parents' perspective, what benefits can your marriage bring to them, and what can you do for your parents? What commitments can you make? 4. Report to your parents your plans and plans to get married and start a family.

    How to live your life, income and expenses, how to honor your parents, the prospect of career development, the time to have children, etc., let your parents know that you have thought about how to live your married life and can live well. You have gained the trust of your parents, and your marriage will definitely be blessed by your parents.

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