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Look at your own conditions and then think about those things.
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Why are you asking this question?
Do you think you'll be happy with someone else's?
Do you think there's something wrong with your idea?
You can say that again! I'll also add a few words (I'm not anonymous. If you want to scold, come and scold) Why do you want to find a tall, handsome and good boyfriend?
Do you think you'll want to find a short, ugly, and bad boyfriend?
Do you think there's something wrong with your brain?
Do you think that the relationship between people has a lot to do with looks?
Judging people by their appearance, taking their meaning out of context...
But inside is cunning, treacherous, or the exact opposite, like a benzene.
Then I can guarantee that no one will ignore you!
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When people encounter beautiful things, they want to pursue them, and they want to be pursued by beautiful things.
This shows that you are a normal person with aesthetic taste, which is good!
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People like to strive for perfection! You are also a manifestation of the pursuit of perfection!
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Because you've watched a lot of TV series, I don't know if you're not, but I hate those dinosaurs who want handsome guys the most.
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Because you want to have a tall, handsome person, and a good boyfriend to take care of you
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Men also want to find a girlfriend who is beautiful and good.
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Because I'm not pretty enough.
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In people's emotional world, the phenomenon of "Mu Qiang" is very common. The so-called "Mu Qiang" refers to the fact that in a relationship, one or both parties hope to find a better object than themselves in terms of social status and economic strength as their love object driven by their own desires and vanity. However, whether "Mu Qiang" can really become a long-term and happy love still requires us to do further thinking and understanding.
Below I will explain in detail how to look at "Mu Qiang" in love.
First of all, we need to have a clear understanding of the nature and essence of love. Love is a pure feeling, which is mainly based on mutual trust, understanding, and respect, and should not be limited by material conditions and social status. When one party attaches too much importance to the material and social status of the lover, it may become suspicious of the true feelings of the other party, thus weakening the emotional foundation between the two people.
In this case, love can easily become an exchange of interests and trade-offs, rather than a pure expression of feelings.
Secondly, we also need to see the problems brought about by "Muqiang" itself. First of all, the behavior of "Muqiang" is often a sign of selfishness and insecurity. Such people tend to put their personal interests first, ignoring the spiritual foundation that the love relationship itself needs to be based on mutual trust and tolerance.
Secondly, when there is no deep affection and intimate psychological connection between the two, the love relationship is easy to suffer from external interference or various setbacks and tests. For a long time, this kind of romantic relationship based on material conditions and social status may break down, and even eventually lead to a breakup or divorce.
However, even if the negative problems brought about by "Muqiang" are very obvious, we cannot dismiss it because of this. For certain situations, the differences or experiences between the two parties will inevitably have a big impact. For example, in couples who have been together for a long time, one of them is too dependent on economic income and the reality of social status, which may also produce a certain degree of "admiration".
At this time, we should respect each person's independent personality and values, rather than interfering in the growth and development process of the other.
Finally, we also need to recognize that a pure love needs to be based on mutual respect and understanding. When we have more or less unspeakable psychological needs for the other party's quality, economic strength or social status, we must clearly examine our emotional core and seriously think about the existing problems and contradictions that need to be resolved. For young people, they also need patience and time to weave their own dreamweavers as a basis for choosing between marriage and love, rather than simply being controlled by material and social status.
To sum up, "Mu Qiang" itself is just a phenomenon in love, it has no essential advantages and inferiorities, everything depends on what kind of carrying capacity your heart and pressure hope to bear. We should allow everyone to find their ideal love relationship, and make a more informed and deliberate choice between "yes" and "no".
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At the very least, going out together can make other girls envious and jealous. Satisfy your own vanity.
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Summary. If you want to find a man who will accompany you for a lifetime, it doesn't matter if he is handsome or not now, because he will eventually grow old, just like a woman will age no matter how she maintains her appearance; If you want to find a current boyfriend, whether you are handsome or not depends on your own point of view, and whatever others say can only be a guess about you, because you don't understand your psychology. Out of a friend's concern, I think that good men are not necessarily handsome, so handsome men are not necessarily good men.
What kind of boyfriend you are looking for, do you know now?
What do the two conditions for finding a boyfriend and finding a handsome man mean.
Now girls like handsome guys, especially in school, why is the success rate of falling in love in school so small, it's because of this Appearance is innate, I don't like girls who love to dress up, because they are too deliberate to pursue fashion, and what they lose is their natural beauty, then I can't talk about liking because I like girls with natural beauty
If you take this as a standard, then one day both parties are old, whether to abandon each other, love someone, his heart, his character is the most important, appearance is natural, everyone wants to be beautiful, handsome, but, everyone is an ordinary person, we can't be absolutely perfect, love someone, you have to accept everything about him, deliberately chosen love, the final way out, must be scarred.
If you want to find a man who will accompany you for a lifetime, it doesn't matter if he is handsome or not now, because he will eventually grow old, just like a woman will age no matter how she maintains her appearance; If you want to find a current boyfriend, whether you are handsome or not depends on your own point of view, and whatever others say can only be a guess about you, because you don't understand your psychology. Out of a friend's concern, I think that good men are not necessarily handsome, so handsome men are not necessarily good men. What kind of boyfriend you are looking for, do you know now?
I feel that you should choose someone who is self-motivated and has potential, because before he succeeds, he will know what is hard-won, what should be cherished, and what he needs most, so that he will love you well when he succeeds. However, in today's society, there are more choices for being rich and handsome, because a woman's good times are only a few years, which cannot be wasted, and many people are unwilling to wait for the person who should wait, they only see the present, but not the future, so there is a higher divorce rate.
The one above is not kind, how can he teach people to become bad and hurt the feelings of others.
Then find a large matchmaking company and don't be afraid. Red line matchmaking is good.
Love may not develop as we envision, don't envy the love of the people next to you, maybe you just see the surface, and the potential things may not be seen by us. As long as you keep a happy mood every day and be your true self, the one you are destined to be waiting for you in the near future!
For students who have just entered the university gate, at this time, if someone can help you solve some initial difficulties. You will be very grateful to this person and be impressed with him. No one will forget handsome things, just like the love of beauty, everyone has it, and everyone will remember beautiful things. >>>More