Why don t you have to be nice to everyone?

It is rare to have so many bosom friends in life.

I agree with the saying that there is no need to be good friends with everyone.

We can't be good friends with everyone, and the reasons are very simple: first, we don't have that time; the second is that I don't have that energy; The third is that there is no need for that.

First, it is impossible in terms of time. The time of a person's life is limited, and there are so many things you need to do in a limited time. In this life, you may meet a lot of people, all kinds of people, some you admire, some you don't like, and some you dislike.

You like others, but they don't necessarily like you, and it takes time to become a real good friend. So it's impossible to be good friends with everyone in a limited amount of time.

Second, it is not possible in terms of energy. A person's life energy is also limited, you have to go to school, work, get married, have children, raise children, take care of the elderly, etc., you have to revolve around these things all your life, and there is very little energy for socializing. Do you calculate, with this limited energy, you can communicate with everyone and become good friends?

Obviously unrealistic, you really don't have that energy.

Three, it's really not necessary. You will meet a lot of people in your life, from all over the world, from all over the world, including hair children, classmates, colleagues, superiors and subordinates, neighbors, acquaintances, etc. Among these people, each person plays a different role, and some people can only be acquaintances, and when they meet, they just say hello, and they can't see each other a few times in their lives.

There is this person who can only be an ordinary friend.,It's okay.,Meet and talk.,Leave each other a ** on 0k.,Next time you meet.,Shake hands.,It's okay to even have a meal.。 Even if you are a friend, you have to admire it, look at it, and if you don't like it, you don't like it. There's no need to say that you don't like it, you must be friends.

There are a few in the end, and even a few.

Only one or two people can become their good friends, bosom friends, and there are only a handful of real friends.

A real good friend, that must be something you know well, you and he may not have many common hobbies, but they can communicate with each other, and even dig out their hearts and lungs. A good friend can appear in front of you when you encounter difficulties and need help, solve problems for you, talk to you when your heart is empty and boring, comfort you, encourage you, give you direction, and give you the strength to move forward.

Positive Words Derogatory Words The derogatory act is the act of being unkind.

Summary. Always believe in the inherent goodness of human nature!

In order to be treated kindly, you must first be kind to others. If you don't get kind treatment, then first reflect on whether you have done something wrong; If you're right, then you have a little confidence, you really can't get along, it's good to be polite to each other, there's no need to interfere with yourself for the sake of unworthy people!

Socialist Core Values: Personal level: love, dedication, integrity, and friendliness.

Why be kind to others.

Always believe in the inherent goodness of human nature! In order to be treated kindly, you must first be kind to others. If you don't get friendly treatment in the mountain bureau, then first reflect on whether you have done something wrong; If you're right, then it's a bit of a remorse, you really can't get along, it's good to be polite to each other, there's no need to interfere with yourself for unworthy people!

Socialist Core Values: Personal level: love, dedication, integrity, friendliness.

There's really no why, it's whether you want to. Being kind to others doesn't necessarily lead to the same kind results. It's good that we can do it without harming, because when you are a little old, even if you are friendly, you will be misunderstood by some people.

There is a huge gap of understanding between people, and if you are not afraid of how your actions will be misinterpreted, then you win.

If you are kind to lawbreakers and enemies, you are irresponsible to yourself, to your family, and to society.

Being kind to others and being kind to others is what we say to our own comrades and is for them.

If a person wants everyone to say that he is good, it is very difficult, around you, in your world, there will always be people who are not happy with you.

Especially during the war years, would you please your enemies?

So, we don't have to be nice to everyone, to whom, but according to the situation, to see if this person deserves to be kind to you, if it's a bad person, a bandit, are you also kind to him?

aqui te amo。

There's nothing wrong with being a friendly person, but there's no need to be kind to everyone. When you encounter a snarky and domineering person, your friendliness can only be exchanged for his gains and intensification, so there is no need to be kind to everyone.

Because not everyone is kind, not everyone will accept your kindness, so there is no need to be nice to everyone.

That's not right, you're not kind to everyone, do you want to treat everyone as enemies? Even when we meet someone we don't like, we have to laugh, even if we hide a knife in our smile, we can't let others see it on the surface, this is the most basic thing to be a human being, no matter how much you hate this person.

Most of them have a conscience and follow the traditional Chinese virtues. But there are already individual beings, like"Trashman"。

Because there are people who are not worthy of you to be good to them.

Doing good is on the slope, but some people take advantage of the goodness of others. Therefore, such a person cannot have any surname on him.

Do what you can.

When you don't hesitate to be good to someone, then they will think that it is all right.

If you are too good to a person, you will not be taken seriously. They will feel that you can't live without them, and they will think that you are willing.

No matter what, I will agree to you;

No matter what the object is, I will give it directly to you;

No matter what mistakes you make, you can easily forgive;

Whatever happens to you, you accept it;

Some people only know how to take, but don't know what it means to give;

will only blindly blame others and ignore their own shortcomings;

He only knows the endless needs, but he never knows the contentment;

I only care about my own mood, but I forget the joys, sorrows and sorrows of others.

There is no end to human desires, and human needs are constantly increasing.

When you are too nice to a person, you end up finding that it all is taken for granted. Your excessively good is worthless to some deputies.

The last thing you should pay is to give to the wrong person.

People always like to pursue things that cannot be obtained, and the beauty that can be easily obtained will not be taken to heart.

It's so easy to get, who would desperately cherish it.

Be good to people, you have to look at people, don't be good to everyone. You are not the sun, and you don't need to shine on everyone.

Do you think that if you show your sincerity, you can exchange it for sincerity? In the end, you may end up with a chill.

Why not count the returns? When have others been kind to you, when have you been free?

Don't think of everyone as kind as you are, those who stab you in the heart with a knife in the back are the ones you think are the best.

Don't think too much about it, the higher the expectations, the greater the disappointment.

Don't show all your sincerity to a person, leave a little leeway, and don't let yourself have no way out.

Those who should come will always come, and you can't keep those who should go.

People who don't like you, even if you give up the whole of your life, still don't like you.

People who care too much must be miserable if they lose.

No one will be the whole of your life, you need the right person, that is, yourself!

Why don't you be kind to everyone who is hungry for the sake of accompanying your grandson, because not all people are worthy of being kind to him, and sometimes if you are kind to bad people, he will take revenge.

1.Because not everyone is a friend.

2.Because there are people who need love.

3.Not every effort has a reward for spikes, so don't force yourself to become a "huque** air conditioner". Guess what to do.

You're not an air conditioner!

Because there are people who are not worthy of you to be kind to them.

I think we should be kind to everyone.

When you first meet a person, you don't know, of course, there will be a lot to say, and you can't finish talking, sometimes you will feel that some of the other party's views are very fresh and attractive, and after being together for a long time, gradually what should be said will become dull, at this time you don't have to feel very strange, let alone wonder if the other party doesn't want to be friends with you anymore, you think about it, two unfamiliar people walking together without saying anything will be very embarrassing, but you walk on the road with your mother without saying anything you never feel embarrassed, The same is true with good friends, this is called "thick and thin", people who don't know look like two people are not familiar with each other, in fact, you already have a heart.

There is also a very important point, everything is like this, you get along with a person for a certain time, like now you feel that there are fewer and fewer words, and there are small contradictions, this is the problem of distance, you have been too close to her, girls are easy to make this kind of mistake. Why do you see some people around you mentioning their good friends and saying how many years they have been together, it is because they will get along, they will not stick together all day long, they will not always be in touch, after a period of time, everyone is coming together to play or something, talk about the current situation, so that there will be no words, this is the way to get along for a long time.

As for the people in the dormitory and the classmates, it may be necessary to be together a lot for a few years, and that's okay, even so, you don't have to get too close, you can feel that when you are too close to you personally, you will also have a burden on your own psyche. If you feel that the atmosphere is wrong, improve the distance problem, and finally tell you a story, I hope you can understand a little bit of how to get along with friends!

Between people. There is a philosophy called "porcupine philosophy" that says that there is a kind of porcupine, and they are covered with sharp thorns. Every winter, the porcupines lean close to each other to keep warm, but if they get too close, they will be stabbed by their companions, and if they are too far away, they will not play a role in heating, so they finally keep a just right distance after repeated attempts, so that they will not be stabbed by their companions, but they can also keep warm.

People should know how to maintain this appropriate distance in the process of getting along, which is a kind of golden mean.

You're kind to people, and people are naturally kind to you, and very few people are going to slap other people's hot faces, and of course there are a few outliers.

It depends on whether you really want to have this friendship for the rest of your life.

When there is a conflict of interest, you don't think about it

Everybody thinks differently.