How do you deal with someone who has hurt you?

How to deal with the people who have hurt me, it depends on the score.

If economic interests are involved, they should keep in touch and ask for their legitimate rights and interests. Hurting others is an extremely irresponsible and immoral act, and the Buddha said: Be lenient with others, be strict with yourself, and be able to forgive others, so that you can be detached.

In fact, this kind of Buddhist statement is not very correct, because people are too kind, they will be bullied as fools, they should not be blindly kind to others, they should be targeted, kindness should be targeted kindness, not the kindness of the broad spectrum of the world, should be reserved, so as not to be hurt, since they have been hurt, they should eat a trench and grow wise, don't be like a stupid hat anymore, a person can still be hurt a few times! One time is enough, let's have a long memory, why forgive if there is no need to forgive? What should be forgiven and what can never be forgiven, you should be clear in your heart.

If the person who has hurt you apologizes very sincerely and finds a way to make up for you, in this case, we must also be forgiving and forgiving, after all, whether it is life or work, it is very cruel to everyone, so why bother others.

When you don't know whether to forgive someone who has hurt you, it's best to empathize with yourself, treat this matter calmly, try to find the cause of the injury, and then decide what you should do according to the reason.

If the original injury was intentional by the other party, and it was completely a blow or suppression to himself, then there is no way to forgive him, don't see each other if you can, and for people who have no character, it is best not to deal with them, so as not to repeat the mistakes of the past in the future.

If it hurts himself a lot, and it has also caused a very bad impact on himself, and he has been unable to let go, then when facing the other party, talk about it straightforwardly, if his attitude is still unforgivable, it is best to give him a certain degree of revenge, let him also taste it, and reflect on his behavior.

If the person who has hurt himself has been a lot of friends, then try to let go, after all, it is rare to have fate to be friends, and friends must have given you a lot of help, regardless of whether it has reached the level of merit, with a generous heart to be able to tolerate the small fights in life, so as to have a better interpersonal relationship.

If the relationship between the two parties is just average, then it doesn't matter how to deal with it, just let it be, there is no need to force yourself to do anything, after all, you don't owe anything to the other party, just have peace of mind.

In the face of the person who hurt you, you can ignore him, or you can forget the past.

Learn to treat things not people, cultivate your own belly, whether a person can control his emotions often determines whether he can control his life, so in the face of those who have hurt us, we must try to forgive them. Therefore, it is very important to learn to be right about things and not to people, don't beat others to death with a stick, maybe he is wrong in this matter, but don't be full of opinions about others, only learn to forgive others for a certain mistake, so that our interpersonal circle will accept more people, and only in this way will we have the stomach to be a person. Restrain the bad emotions of being hurt Many people do impulsive things often in a moment, but most people regret their actions extremely afterwards, so in order to avoid this situation, we must learn to restrain our bad emotions.

For example, we and our friends are unhappy because of some things, then at this time we don't think about it, we can try to think of some happy things, completely restrain these bad emotions, don't regret it because of impulsiveness, all troubles will eventually pass, when they pass, it is not troubles, only people who hold on to the past and do not let go, will be hurt forever. Maintain a peaceful mind in this world, we must understand a truth, that is, I am fortunate to gain, lose my life, do not dwell on the gains and losses, what is yours will always be yours, no one can take it away, even if you rack your brains, then you can't get it. Therefore, we must maintain a peaceful mind in everything, and the same is true for others, learning to let others go, in fact, to a large extent, it is also letting go of ourselves.

Learn to transform contradictions, strengthen yourself Why are you hurt, in fact, there is only one reason, that is, you are not strong enough, so when you are hurt, you should not complain, learn to transform contradictions, do not put the fault on others, maybe your weakness is the root cause of your bullying, so you must learn to be strong when you are hurt, only in this way, you will not be hurt. In everyone's life, there will always be a lot of hurt, but there is a time when the hurt will make you fall into endless grievances, but it will also make you understand a lot of truth, it depends on how you look at those who have hurt you, but if you can deal with these injuries in a way with high emotional intelligence, then you will live a happier life.

Don't be soft-hearted to those who have hurt you. Maybe they do make you see the reality and cruelty of this world clearly, but they are not worthy of respectable teachers, and their appearance brings you hurt and pain.

People need to maintain the goodness of their hearts, but they must not choose to forgive without a bottom line or principle.

If you are ruthless, you can better protect yourself and see the true face of the people around you.

Don't be hopeful and don't be overly merciful to those who hurt you for the sake of profit. To be merciful to them is to condone them another harm.

When interacting with people, sometimes you have to learn to be "ruthless".

In life, it is not uncommon to encounter harm, the key is how to deal with these regrets and badness, whether it is hatred or forget it, whether it is tolerance and understanding or respect and understanding, in fact, people have their own aspirations, you have your reason, he has his thoughts, maybe she has another thoughts and thoughts, in short, not the same, but each has its own reasons and helplessness.

In the face of people who have hurt you, it is recommended that you do not have to continue to be soft-hearted, it is enough to have an experience, and the rest of your life can only get along with general friends, just maintain a balance on the whole picture, there is no need to be too deep and familiar, you have your thoughts, the other party also has each other's thoughts, there is no need to converge, you can still remember the past stories and regrets, and you can still remember the sadness and sadness of the past.

Soft-hearted people are destined to have more than one pain and regret, people with too fragile hearts, there must be countless baptisms and sorrows, the love-hate entanglement of these things, you can't face it directly, but you want to remember it again and again, but later the relief and soft-heartedness will make you repeat the mistakes of the past, but where others easily hurt you, probably saw your opportunity, just because you were too easy to bully, there was no ruthlessness to fight back.

Being a man can not be cruel to others, but can not lose the instinct and subconscious of self-preservation, even if you are familiar with people, you should always leave a bottom line and principles, love yourself is a lifelong romantic thing Sun Chaxun, learn self-love, know how to protect yourself, and be able to grow into senior and excellent, which is the luck and stability of a lifetime.