Blind date has moved towards a younger age, what should we do as college students?

I sympathize with you when I see this problem, but I have to say a cruel reality, because only when we know the truth can we have a chance to advance or retreat. The fact is this: no matter how cold a girl is, as long as she loves, she is like a kitten who loves to ignore (to the person she doesn't love) on the surface, but likes to rub it in her arms (to the person she loves).

The truth is that she doesn't like you and has no feelings for you. From your description, you said that you have known each other for three months and had six movie dates, and three months is enough time to become a couple, so what's the problem? I'll help you analyze it:

First of all, from the perspective of common sense, three months is not a long time, plus the familiarity of the way you interact with dating is shallow. Early dating is to quickly increase your familiarity and get to know each other better, movie dating will only make you waste more time, an hour and a half of a movie for me, for me an hour and a half is enough for me to talk and laugh with girls, instead of wasting time on this kind of poor interaction, a large part of the focus is on the movie plot rather than each other in such movie dates (your interaction will affect others), so try to choose interactive scenes in the early dates, Even pressing the road is much better than watching a movie. Of course, dating and the choice of date location should follow a principle, from light to severe.

The first date is not familiar with the situation, try to choose a dating method that is easier for the other party to accept, such as one day you go out to do things brother's mausoleum, happen to pass by her company or near home, take advantage of their lunch break or have nothing to do at home, meet her to drink a cold drink or a cup of coffee nearby to chat for a while, and then go to continue to do your business, because the time is very short half an hour and an hour at the same time you still have something to do, This kind of dating is relatively light, it will not cause her too much pressure, and it is easy to accept. As your familiarity and relationship warms up, you can choose to go to a friend's party together, an amusement park that increases physical contact, or a travel date that is a little heavier.

Secondly, you've slowed down a lot in the way you date, so you'll have to make up for it with the previous point. The verbal and physical interactions in dating should also be deepened, and as familiarity and affection heat up, your relationship should also be promoted in an ambiguous direction.

Furthermore, even if your interaction goes well, it doesn't necessarily become a couple, and as your familiarity deepens, it depends on whether your personalities are compatible. At least the kind that likes each other.

In short, it's not that the girl is too cold, it's that she can't get hot. Finally, I hope my answer can help you.

Personally, I think that if young people want to solve their personal problems, they must improve their overall strength and make themselves more capable.

I think that at this time, these young people still need to be able to change their views in time, and it is easier for two people to survive in this society.

First, young people should expand their social circle, take the initiative to go out and make new friends; Second, young people should open their hearts, not close themselves too much, and change their singleness.

Nowadays, many young people only know how to play mobile phones, play games and play computers, I think this should not be the case, but should go out and walk more, communicate with other people, exercise their eloquence, and meet more people.

You should expand your circle of friends and make more new friends. And in life, you should pay more attention to the people who are suitable for you.

Try to still need everyone to take the initiative, try to find a way to understand each other more, and find a way to solve the problems of both sides.

When facing personal problems, you don't need to pay too much attention, you should go with the flow and not take it too seriously.