There are so many bad men, how can you identify them?

The bad man here should refer to the emotional **.

In love, women are always afraid that they are not trusting a good person, and if they meet a bad man, they may be ruined in their lives, so what are the characteristics of a bad man in the relationship?

One, promises are rarely kept.

A bad guy is always a big deal, he will promise you to get married in a year or buy a house in two years, so that you can believe that he is planning your future. It will make you mistakenly think that he is a very capable man.

However, when the time comes, he will make all kinds of excuses that things have gone wrong and have not fulfilled them, and may apologize to you, make a look of chagrin, and use your love for him to easily get your forgiveness.

Then, he will make another promise to you, or he will not keep it, make excuses, etc., and so on, when the promise is never kept.

A high-ranking bad man will give you some small favors to let you taste some sweetness, otherwise, how can you believe him with all your heart.

Second, after dating, he will not take you to participate in his life.

After a bad man has a relationship with you, and you talk about meeting your parents, he will make all kinds of excuses to shirk it. If he doesn't take you to meet his friends, even if he does, he will be some inconsequential friends, and he won't let you see friends who can really be called brothers, because he thinks you're not qualified.

Bad men will make you on call, but you can't know his whereabouts at all, either hang you **, or ask you not to disturb him after what time it is, on the grounds that he is busy with work or has rested. If you don't listen and break up with you, he will be angry and say that you are too pestering for people to stand and break up with you.

Three, I asked you to borrow money.

Bad men will use women as ATMs.

I won't ask you to borrow money at first. After dating for a while, he will make excuses (investment, buying a car, illness of relatives, etc.) to ask you to lend him money, and if you ask two questions, he will say that you don't trust, don't love him, and kidnap you by taking advantage of your love for him.

The small amount of money borrowed will be repaid to you after a while, and when you borrow more and more, it will eventually disappear, and you will find that even his identity information is fake.

When you are in love, the man who asks you to borrow money must not love you, and if he asks you to borrow money, leave him quickly.

Fourth, it's lazy to do or idle.

If a man is lazy or idle, the chances of him correcting him are slim, and unless something major happens and he is reborn overnight, this probability is even slimmer.

Don't think you can change a man. It is difficult for people to correct their own shortcomings, not to mention that the other party is not controlled at all, so don't gamble on your happiness to see the future.

Identifying whether a person is good or bad needs to be evaluated through several aspects, such as:

1.His words and deeds: A good person will show positive qualities such as honesty, kindness, tolerance, and friendliness, while a bad person may show negative qualities such as selfishness, hypocrisy, narrow-mindedness, and meanness.

2.The results of his actions: The results of a good person's actions are usually positive, beneficial, and popular, while the results of a bad person's actions are usually negative, harmful, and offensive.

3.His relationships: A good person will build good relationships with others, while a bad person may destroy relationships with others, or even put his own interests above the interests of others.

4.His values: A good person usually has positive values such as morality, justice, etc., while a bad person may have negative values such as egoism, etc.

Therefore, identifying whether a person is good or bad needs to be evaluated through multiple aspects of the liquid hopper.

First, a good man thinks that when he is married, a man should be good to a woman; The bad man said, "Why should I be nice to you?"

The man's family conditions are not good, and in order to live, the man has been working outside, and he has hardly taken care of the affairs at home. After a long time, he felt that as long as he returned home, the woman should take care of herself.

Women are pregnant, give birth to children, raise children, and take care of housework, almost all of which are taken care of by themselves. Over the years, I fell ill all over my body. Sometimes, when I squat on the ground, I can't stand up.

Once when a man was at home, the woman squatted on the ground and wiped the floor, and she couldn't stand up with back pain. So, he said to the man who was playing with his mobile phone: "I have back pain, you come and help me." ”

As a result, the man said, "Why are you so hypocritical, can't you get up if I'm not at home?" Why should I lift you up? I'm so tired from working outside, and I haven't seen you tired for me. ”

Why? He married you, had children, and wanted to spend his life with you with the best wishes. With the meals she cooks for you, the clothes she washes, and the "wretched" chores she bothers to deal with.

With her leaving her parents, coming to your home, and living with you wholeheartedly.

Second, if a good man feels that there is something outside, he should resist; Bad men feel that women should not resist.

An older sister once told me about their family buying a house.

There is a difference of 60,000 yuan, and the man has not been able to find a way. The woman was in a hurry, so she said to the man, "Hurry up and think of a way." ”

As a result, the man said: "Why should I think of a way, you can't force me to find a way if you can't do it yourself, why!" You have to think for yourself, don't look for me. ”

In the end, the woman borrowed 30,000 yuan from her parents and 30,000 yuan from her colleagues. The man has always ignored it.

When the house is down, the woman lets the man take care of the renovations. As a result, the man said again: "Why don't you care, I should take care of it, shouldn't you take care of it?" Why should the matter of decorating the house be a man's business. I just don't care. ”

So, all the things about that house were done by this sister herself. She said with emotion at that time: "Some men will not shield women from the wind and rain in this life."

He felt that women owe him, women should do everything, and he is right to do nothing. ”

Third, when a good man gets married, he wants to live a good life with you; Bad men are married, and you can't love them.

After a woman marries a man, she wants to live with the man wholeheartedly.

But a man's heart is never in this small family, his heart is full of his parents' home. As long as there is something in their family, a man can completely ignore his wife and children.

He gave all the money he earned a year to his parents and paid all the tuition fees of his younger brothers, without any regard for the situation of his wife and children. She said that when she gave birth, the man was working outside, and her mother-in-law didn't want to care about her, so she was hungry for a day, so she had to call the man back. As a result, the man came back and went directly to his mother-in-law.

When he came back, he scolded her: "You can't love it, you look for trouble all day long, do you want my mother to take care of you." You can't live without someone to take care of, don't you! ”