Why did I end up on one of the leftover women s ranks?

Terrible savages.

The circle of life is too fixed and lacks the ability and impulse to change.

The hectic 9-to-5 job seems to bind you to a fixed circle. Every morning when you open your eyes, you will think about what kind of fun activities you will do in the evening, but every time you get off work, when you drag your tired body home, you will cancel your morning plans with various excuses.

Watching TV dramas at home and surfing the Internet with coffee has become a must for you. Laziness is the biggest reason why you become a leftover woman, and it will be a good choice for you to expand your circle of friends. Very deep mountain streams.

Caring about what a man has is more than the man himself.

You demand more from the material than from the spiritual level. That is, you demand more from the man's hardware than from the software. <>

In your opinion, soft power is not a manifestation of strength at all before it is realized, famous universities and senior backgrounds represent the glory of the past, and the so-called heroes do not ask about their background. Don't want potential stocks, it's really hard to find a ready-made excellent single man. So the years go by in your constant search for a good man.

You are very good, highly educated, high income, high IQ, but I don't know why, when you sent your girlfriends out one by one as a bridesmaid, you were helpless to find that you were left ......Looking back, I don't have high requirements for my other half, why can't I always meet someone I like.

This is a road to the Peach Blossom Spring, winding paths are secluded, few people usually know, even fewer people walk, what obstacles do you think you will encounter along the way?

Probably used to walking alone.

I'm ugly or picky, what do you say?

Leftover women are actually more of a single call from the bottom of their hearts, and it seems that society has become a kind of self-deprecation for singleness, and the tide, whether it is social ridicule or self-deprecation, actually has a kind of helplessness.

Leftover women mostly refer to the girls who are picked up, they have no lovers, no nourishment of love, the leftover word is actually a cheap contempt for these girls who have not yet had a boyfriend, leftover women, there are always such and such reasons left.

But in fact, in this society, there are not many singles, leftover women also have their own world, and in this era, men are not short of sex, women are not short of money, and even for a person's life is happy, not that there is no love can not live, the increasingly rich world cultural life, leftover women will not even feel lonely, they are very satisfied with their own life.

Many people will ask, there are more boys than girls in the country, why is this happening, yes, there are many people in love, there are many couples who abuse dogs, the fragrance of single dogs is enough to diffuse, but there are many excellent people who are still single, we are all chasing our own personality, we are all very individual, we are all hoping to chase self-people, we don't want to be bound, don't want to be far-fetched. We follow the call of our hearts, and you and I in this era are more public, so we also need to be more tolerant and understanding.

Marriage and love are actually a kind of mutual thing, although there is more reliance and sweetness, but there is also sorrow, the necessities of oil, salt, sauce and vinegar, we may not be too bad alone, we are independent and self-reliant, we can not only go upstairs to fight against white noodles, but also be able to fight in the workplace. These trifles also teach us to be stronger.

The leftover girl may feel sad that I don't have a person to rely on, but I can also have a strong heart to face the challenges in life alone, we are constantly growing, and we continue to respect our own hearts.

Most of the leftover girls should be in a similar situation to me, when they went to college, their personalities were relatively quiet and mediocre, and their studies were not particularly outstanding. So in a group of classmates, it is not inconspicuous, and the chance of a campus romance is zero in the end. After graduation, I will devote myself to my feelings, and finally I don't know how to operate and end up without a problem, and after being sad and sad, I put all my energy into the work, and gradually the work gives more and more security, and I am more and more independent, and I have more and more responsibilities at work.

I have seen more and my eyes have been opened. Everything at work can be compromised in disguise, but the relationship is becoming more and more uncompromising, and it is better to lack than to abuse. <>

At present, although the family does not urge on the surface, it is understandable to say that it is understandable, but my parents must be anxious, and to be honest, I feel uncomfortable. There is no shortage of suitors around, but we didn't get together in the end, I think it has something to do with the fact that I'm used to being single, and I don't want to accommodate one person anymore, and a person can be responsible for his own life. After my relatives and friends really knew my thoughts, they all tried to persuade me, but to be honest, I was indifferent.

I also wondered if I had a problem with my heart.

Sometimes in the dead of night, I ask myself, is this life really going to be lonely and old? As a woman, if I don't get married and have children in my life, will I regret it?

Therefore, leftover women are not only caused by the social status quo and vision, but also because of their own personality.

Sometimes I also think that if I go back to my college days, I must be brave, have a good relationship, we are the same age, study together and go into society, and it is best to establish the same values and outlook on life. How good that should have been then.

Less malicious! I don't want to be understanding! But many married men and women, young, happy and unhappy marriages. I can't understand it