What is the biggest hurt that divorce has done you?

I haven't experienced this, but as someone who has witnessed it happen, I'm here to give me one of my truest feelings.

First, such you, one pair of changes in your relationship, there is a very big gap in your heart, such a gap is something you have to accept in a short period of time, and you are not willing to accept it, from the previous nothing to talk about to the current word is difficult to open your mouth, such a change, is a little bit of your heart broken, knowing that the last bit of glass slag has fallen to the ground, such a heartbreak process, too tormenting, tormented to the point that there is no way to let yourself bear such a process alone, If you want to find a confidant to help you express your inner pain, you need to numb your heart with the help of cups of wine.

Second, it is the embarrassment of your own relationship, after you get married, you must be very familiar with each other's friends, your friends have long been familiar with your relationship, in the face of you after the divorce, when you face each other's friends again, you don't know how to introduce each other like this, at this time the heart is too difficult, in the face of this moment, you will be extremely thoughtful, you and his previous scenes will continue to appear in your mind, Your mind is full of the beauty you used to be together, just like the song sings, the lost beauty is my most precious miss, so that we can go back to the past!

Third, it is a great degree of damage to your children's hearts, you may not be able to directly tell your children about the changes in your relationship, you are worried about how your children's hearts will be tortured, and such torture must be inevitable, if you say it later, it will still bring a big blow to your children, such a blow is something that both of you as parents are unwilling to face.

I think divorce is a very common phenomenon in today's society. Because divorce is not a shameful thing, it is nothing but the breakdown of a relationship and the beginning of a new one. But divorce does bring some harm to oneself to a greater or lesser extent.

Now that two people have gone to the palace of marriage, it is not easy. It is really a rare thing for two people to meet, get acquainted, get to know each other, and walk towards the palace of marriage together in love. I think that if two people choose the path of marriage, then they have to take responsibility for their own decisions.

You can't be a person who is not responsible and irresponsible. After all, getting married is a big deal, and you can't just say that you can just find someone to get married! <>

Therefore, I think that divorce after marriage is a difficult and thankless trouble. After all, divorce will also have some impact on yourself and the other party, if you already have children, then divorce will have a huge impact on your children. It will also hurt the feelings of both of your families, after all, your marriage failed, and your parents will feel sad and sad because of it.

Because all parents in the world have their own children, and their married lives are happy. Your divorce will also cause them some troubles and sorrows.

Of course, the biggest damage caused by divorce is the relationship between you and your husband and wife in the future. Because you've broken your heart once, you've had a failed marriage. Then you become timid and cautious about love, and you dare not fall in love with others easily, let alone accept the love of others.

Fear of repeating the tragedy of my past and being hurt again.

Therefore, you need to consider the matter of divorce clearly, and do not make hasty decisions, which will affect your happiness in your life. That's my answer, I hope it helps you, I wish you happiness.

As a person who has experienced, both happy for the new life, but also worried about the future, unwilling, regret their own pay, especially money, because any man wants you to go out of the house, in the end you will find that in addition to money, nothing can be relied on, fortunately I have a little money, I can afford to support a job of my own, and I also have the courage to leave the house, as long as I don't fill the bottomless pit of his family, I save money quickly, youth is priceless, not good for me, I don't have to compromise, now I meet an unmarried, dating for half a year is very good to me, family background, talent, The height and personality are more suitable than the previous person, divorce is not a big deal, and the worst outcome is to live alone for a lifetime, which is also good.

What is the biggest harm of divorce, there is really no conclusion, if you don't love and become a familiar stranger, what harm is there! If you have a child, maybe the child will be sad at the beginning, but as long as the later half is sincere, the child will feel it, so there is really no conclusion about what the harm of divorce is.

It's still relatively large.

Divorce is due to various reasons, and they are not happy in life. Life after divorce may be better, and the chances of happiness are greater.

Here's why:

First, after the divorce, the economy is independent, and there will be no more conflicts over economic issues.

There are many reasons for divorce, and some of them may be due to financial problems. When the economy is independent, the financial power will be theirs. You can use your money however you want, and you can buy whatever you want.

Second, after the divorce, my personality can be brought into full play, and my habits of life are free.

I will no longer be angry because of the difference in my three views. You can do whatever you want with your lifestyle and habits, and you don't have to look at other people's eyes. Eat as much as you want, drink as much as you want, and take a journey that you can take as soon as you go, and you can achieve it immediately.

Third, after the divorce, if you want to love, you will love, and your feelings may have a good home.

Because I once loved, because I once hated, after all, it has passed, and there is no good ending. Now is your chance, take advantage of it! When you meet someone who is destined, love boldly! Enjoy life!

In short, after the divorce, there are many opportunities, and happiness may come to you!

If the relationship between the two people is not good, the woman wants to leave but the man does not want to leave, in this case it is a relief for the woman. If a woman really wants to keep the family, but the man is bent on divorcing her, then this kind of divorce will of course hurt the woman a lot.

Legal basis: Civil Code of the People's Republic of China

Article 1058:Husbands and wives equally enjoy the right to raise, educate, and protect their minor children, and jointly bear the obligation to raise, educate, and protect their adult children.

Article 1084:The relationship between parents and children is not extinguished by the divorce of the parents. After divorce, the children are still the children of both parents, regardless of whether they are raised directly by the father or mother.

After divorce, parents still have the right and obligation to raise, educate and protect their children.

In the event of a divorce, children under the age of two shall be raised directly by their mothers. For children who have reached the age of two, and the parents fail to reach an agreement on the issue of child support, the people's court is to make a judgment based on the specific circumstances of both parties and in accordance with the principle of the best interests of the minor child. Where children have reached the age of 8, their true wishes shall be respected.

Interpretation of the Supreme People's Court on the Application of the Civil Code of the People's Republic of China on Marriage and Family (1).

Article 55:After a divorce, where one of the parents requests a change in the relationship between the children and the family, or the children request an increase in child support, a separate lawsuit shall be filed.

Article 56:In any of the following circumstances, where one of the parents requests a change in the child support relationship, the people's court shall support it:

1) The parent living with the child is unable to continue to raise the child due to serious illness or disability;

2) The party living with the child does not fulfill the obligation to support the child or abuses the child, or the living with the child has a truly adverse impact on the child's physical and mental health;

3) A child who has reached the age of 8 and is willing to live with another parent who has the ability to support him;

4) Bu Suisheng has other legitimate reasons to change.

I have a cousin who met her husband on the Internet and got married after almost 1 year because she had a child. When I met, the two were in the same city, but they were far apart, and they were only free to come over on weekends.

After getting married, my cousin-in-law's temper and habits began to be exposed, he was hot-tempered and unreasonable, always thinking that he was right, and he would beat people when he got angry. Because my cousin-in-law's father had died when he was very young, and only an elderly mother remained, my cousin could only be taken care of by my cousin-in-law during confinement.

However, when there was a lot of trivial work, he would get angry, and he would often quarrel and even ask my cousin to pack up and leave. After we knew these circumstances, we decisively persuaded my cousin to divorce, while I was still young, it would always be fine in the future, better than arguing and fighting every day.

But my cousin felt that she would be disliked if she divorced and remarried, so she has been living a life of forbearance.

Now that we have been married for 8 years, we are still noisy and noisy, and we often complain to us, and we can't help anything except feel distressed.

Another example is my elementary school classmates, who grew up together in the same village.

Her husband also met her by working part-time, got married to Hunan, gave birth to two sons, and then divorced and returned to her parents' home. Because her in-laws felt that she had given birth to two sons and added a lot of financial burden to her family, they often talked about her and treated her badly.

Therefore, she divorced decisively, packed up her baggage and returned to her parents' house, and her mother was also very supportive of her approach and did not want her daughter to be angry.

Although she was also talked about by some people when she first came back, she didn't care, and when others asked, she generously admitted and explained.

At the end of this year, after a blind date, I heard that she found a husband who was very good to her, and gave birth to a son, and she has become younger, without the vicissitudes of life.

One is silently reluctant to divorce in order not to be talked about. Although I am not divorced, I live a life similar to divorce, I may live alone, although it is hard, but no one often quarrels and fights with you, I think it is better than two Hu Zhengren.

One felt that his future life would not be happy, and he endured the discussion and bravely divorced. Although it will be more difficult for her to be alone, she chooses the life she wants, and I think it is happiness.

If the marriage is unhappy and the hard work is still an unperfect ending, I think it is better to divorce. Whether you are alone or remarried, it is better than torturing each other in the previous marriage, and it is better to let go in a chic way.

The child was hurt the most, a friend of mine, whose parents were divorced, was a single-parent family since she was a child, and her classmates when she was a child were looking forward to finishing the exam early and returning to their warm home early. She doesn't like to go home, since she knew that her parents divorced, the home that had brought her infinite happiness and joy was just an empty house in her heart.

Ask who would be hurt the most if a child was born and divorced.

Divorced just after getting married, the children are still young, and they don't know what harm is, compared to the shadow brought by the children growing up in the quarrels of their parents, this is fine.

Think more about yourself, children need a happy mother, not a complaining woman.

But divorce is best thought through, the child is really pitiful. We need a warm home, not a place to live, and we need the sustenance of the soul. Today's parents are very irresponsible, and they know why they bother today. Why do you want to have children, why do you want to get married.

The question is now about to give birth, the man doesn't admit his mistake, the woman is now at her mother's house, and the man doesn't care what to do if he doesn't ask.

Are you going to get a divorce or whatever.

The man can ask him without asking.

Question: No food, no drink, no money, no nutrition.

If there is evidence, you can go to the prosecution.

No photographs were taken to prove the question.

What does that mean.

Explain it in detail.

Question: Noodles every day, I eat noodles as if I haven't eaten, ask him to cook something else, he says he likes to eat noodles, and he doesn't give me money to buy vegetables and cook.

This behavior of the other party may be morally flawed.

But there is no legal provision, that is, it is legal.

Question: I want to divorce, but I'm pregnant now and I don't have the economy, so I can't stay at my parents' house all the time, and the man doesn't care about it until now.

Answer: Article 1082 of the Civil Code stipulates that the man shall not file for divorce during the woman's pregnancy, within one year after childbirth, or within six months after the termination of pregnancy; However, this is not the case where the woman files for divorce or the people's court finds it truly necessary to accept the husband's request for divorce.

Then you won't be able to pay compensation.