Do you have quiet people around you?

When I was studying, there was a very quiet classmate in my class, who never said a lot, and felt very powerful, doing things silently by himself, and not disturbing him with anything. It simply turned my worldview upside down, I couldn't believe that there was such a god-like person, and I felt as if he was the only one in his world.

Looking at her serious eyes, I myself was a little impressed, and after a few hours, he was still doing one thing. On weekends, I go to the classroom every time to practice. Every time I practice, everyone thinks I'm very noisy, but he never says a word, I don't seem to have much communication with him, I just look at him, I write and draw every day, I always look at books, unless someone else calls him, otherwise he will keep doing it, and his movements will not change much.

He spoke very little in class, and even I, a person who likes to be silent, would say a few words when I was bored to attract the attention of others and prove my existence. He especially likes to study, his grades are very good, and he is simply a top student in our class, and he can do anything. I think he was able to achieve such good results, giving too much more than us, and I feel that he doesn't have time for his own enjoyment, or that the happiest thing for him is to study.

I feel that I should learn from him, calm my heart, concentrate on one thing, don't always think about other things, do one thing and think about another. You should stick to it, do one thing every day consistently, like ten years a day, and I feel like he did it, he can do something like this, I'm really a little scared.

I should also work hard, I feel that I have been decadent for so long, I should struggle, youth is used to struggle, and I can't waste my youth in vain. You can take him as the goal and keep approaching him, work hard to learn his strengths, make up for his shortcomings, and make yourself excellent, you should work hard now, otherwise you will really have no time in the future.

Yes I think anyone is going to have a very quiet person around them. This kind of person may have different feelings about outsiders and people he likes. Although her personality is relatively quiet, it does not mean that she does not have a relatively fiery heart.

If you have met a quieter friend. Then if the two of you have been together for a long time, you may discover another side to it. It is possible that this friend of yours is a very quiet person who does not like to express his emotions and feelings to outsiders.

He likes to be silent alone, and he also likes to listen to people who should be quiet, but in fact, their hearts may be stronger than we think. <>

There is one of them, my tablemate in junior high school, who usually doesn't like to talk much, and often listens to our conversations, but she also has her own unique ideas.

In fact, I don't have much contact with my former classmates, even if she is one of them, our family lives quite close, sometimes I go out for a walk and talk about my heart, but usually I talk a lot on the side, and she rarely speaks. In fact, she wasn't like this before, she used to be very cheerful, and she was the most active in class and after class, but I didn't have such a lively situation at that time, I was either reading a book in my seat, or on the way to the toilet. When I was out of school, she also took me to the small store next door to buy new stationery.

Since when did she start to be so quiet, after finishing junior high school, her parents told her that the family can't afford the expenses, there are younger siblings to take care of, and they will need money in the future, so they should not waste that money to go to school, anyway, sooner or later they have to come out to work. I persuaded her for a long time, but she couldn't do anything, after all, all her parents' thoughts were on that younger brother, just to save that little money and give him a better education in the future. When I think about it now, I still think I was filming a rural TV series.

Later, when I was studying, she worked in an electronics factory near her home. I got home at 6 o'clock, she got off work at 10 o'clock, and when she was in a bad mood, she passed by my house and came in to sit, and I always entertained her with good food and drink. Sometimes she quarrels endlessly with her family, and her mother confiscates her salary card and argues if she doesn't give it, 10 yuan a day, 300 yuan a month for living expenses.

When I think about it, it was too difficult for me as a student, but I was lucky enough to have my living expenses several times every month.

A cheerful girl, with the pressure of life and the social environment, becomes more and more quiet, not so much quiet, but not like to talk. Sometimes she will also say that she feels inferior and can't speak, so it is better to remain silent, and I usually can't help anything, I can only take her out to meet new friends, new environments, and change her mind.

I've been thinking about this question before, can being quiet for too long become unresponsive? If I don't speak for a long time, will my language function be weakened?

From a scientific point of view, I think it will, the less you say it, the more afraid you are to say it, the quieter ......

What do you think of a quiet person? From my experience, quietness is there a reason, and it manifests itself in many ways....

First of all, in my opinion, some people have been affected by the surrounding environment since childhood, and their personality is quiet, so I won't talk about this, but my focus is from extroverted to introverted quiet...For some reason, I have a unique feeling for such people, and I think such people make me feel like they have a story, such a person has an experience background....

This society is a social society, and closing oneself is equivalent to closing oneself, in fact, quiet people are very lonely, because there is a lack of smooth communication and understanding between people in his world....In fact, such a quiet person also wants to integrate into the group, but an inexplicable inferiority complex and hesitation will stop his pace...Have you ever wondered if you don't understand such a quiet person?

On the contrary, I think this kind of person is very special, he has thoughts, he has a lot of room for independent thinking, he is not good at words, but he has the ability to think...

Yes, my husband is a very quiet person, he only talks when he has the right words, he doesn't talk at all if he doesn't have the right words, and sometimes he can not say a word at home for a day, it's completely like air!

1. I like to be alone, quiet and comfortable alone.

There is a saying that people who are quiet in their hearts must have mountains and rivers in their hearts.

People who like to be quiet mostly enjoy being alone and don't want to be disturbed or disturbed by others. He is not good at socializing and socializing, and he does not like to be the center of attention of others, and would rather stay at home comfortably than go to a crowded party.

They will separate life from work, preferring to immerse themselves in their own little world and enjoy a quiet and comfortable life by themselves rather than the hustle and bustle of a group of people.

Sometimes, quietly looking out the window in a daze, my thoughts fly away, and I empty myself, but I enjoy it.

Sometimes, sitting in a sunny place, a book, a quiet heart, doing what you want to do, simple and beautiful. Alone, pure and leisurely, never envious of anyone, nor dependent on anyone. Although it seems to be cold and slow, and a little lonely, he just listens to his heart and lives as he likes.

Second, do not show your face, and have a transparent heart.

People who like to be quiet, firm and intelligent, although they talk little, they are often like a mirror, and people are as light as chrysanthemums.

It is precisely because they know the wisdom of silence and the truth that if they say too much, they will lose it, so most of the time, they will choose to listen quietly and will not express their thoughts hastily.

The mind is mature, the heart is very strong, even if it encounters things, it will be quiet in the mood, and the mind will not be revealed in words.

Moreover, most of them have a compassionate and friendly heart, and they are more able to appreciate the spirituality of all things and feel the joys, sorrows, and sorrows of others.

He will consider his words and deeds, and will not be open-mouthed, say some hurtful things, and will not beat around the bush and gossip behind people's backs.

Do things without impetuousness, calm and calm, never force anything, and are not afraid of losing anything, everything goes naturally.

Such a person, although he is usually silent, Buddhist and casual, can see more clearly than anyone else and live more clearly than anyone else.

3. Focus on doing things and don't follow the crowd.

Yishu once said: "Be quiet in everything: come quietly, go quietly, work hard quietly, harvest quietly, and avoid noise." ”

Quiet people are usually more independent in their thinking, have their own ideas, and will not easily follow the trend, nor will they let themselves go with the flow.

Introverted contains strength, has a tenacious backbone, and has a loving attitude towards life, even in the face of flashy hustle and bustle, he can still stick to his original intention.

They are focused and persistent, and sometimes they even forget themselves completely, forget the time, and do it for a long time.

In their opinion, talking less and doing more will not only improve efficiency, but also help them clear their minds and concentrate.

And quiet solitude is a process of talking to oneself and purifying one's soul, so that you can quietly listen to your heart and make yourself better.

Quiet people are usually introverted, contemplative people. They tend to be silent, prefer to be alone, and like to think and observe. They may prefer to communicate with close friends or small groups rather than express their opinions in crowded settings.

Quiet people may also be more detail-oriented, think deeply, and don't like to act impulsively. In addition, some people may choose to be quiet in certain situations, such as in the presence of a recluse, under pressure, or when they need to listen and observe. In conclusion, quiet people have a variety of different personality traits and reasons that make them inclined to be quiet.

Introverted, socially phobic people, the quietest, it does not find topics on its own, preferring to listen.

This is a comfortable state of life, just want to smell the fragrance of flowers, don't want those things in the world that make people happy and sad, just want to be close to beauty, close to nature, but don't want to pay attention to the troubles in the world, everything is light. This is the life I have always wanted, only smell the fragrance of flowers, do not talk about joys and sorrows, drink tea and read, do not fight for the day, and let time flow slowly!

The sun is a little warmer, a little warmer, and the days are slower, slower.

Time is short, and the end of the world is far away. In the future, every mountain and river, overnight, will be completed quietly.

A truly wise person is often mellow and does not show the dew;

A person with real taste is often natural and not pretentious;

A person who is truly cultivated is often quiet and does not rush to be the first.

The color that suits you best is the most beautiful color in the world.

The best friend for you is someone who can sit quietly in silence without being embarrassed.

The Buddha said: Life is created by oneself, the phase is born from the heart, everything in the world is the phase, the heart does not move, everything does not move, the heart does not change, everything does not change.