Is it really predestined for a person to marry whom?

It's not that you're going to marry someone, it's that you're going to marry someone. Because your conditions, habits, and hobbies will lead you to like a certain person, and this kind of person can just accept you.

He said: "Every corner of the world will be divided into things for fourteen years. The second reincarnation, grateful to God, will inevitably be lonely and boring in my life, and I will take a glimpse of the sky as a vision in my heart. I believe that there is a white head in the world, and if there is a destiny, you are fate. ”

I believe in fate, since the first meeting with my husband, we have not been together and have not been in touch, and after a year we were still together because of a coincidence, and soon got married. Everything is to meet the person you love the most at the best time, of course, you have to rely on your own knowledge to fight for it, and the person who is worthy of love must let him know that you love him. The previous relationship experiences were all about turning each other into better and more suitable people.

When you grow up, you feel loved, and you get married if you need to, but all marriages don't have to be smooth sailing. Childhood (love marriage) is a fairy tale, adult (economic marriage) is a grave. I used to think that as long as it was a man who loved me, I would never feel tired no matter how bitter I was, but I was wrong, men just borrowed your belly to give birth to a child.

In the past, I felt that my marriage with him would not be happy before I got married, and the disagreement of my family caused me to have no way back. There are no ifs in life, I'd rather be alone.

I guess so! There are a lot of first lovers, and the people around them think they are very suitable, but it is difficult to combine, and the destined person will always meet unexpectedly.

There is a fate to meet thousands of miles, and it is difficult to hold hands without a fate. There are good fates and bad fates.

Yes and no, fate is only destined for one trait, and man has the ability to change many of his own qualities. And the second marriage, the ability to change is generally not enough.

Maybe it's arranged by God, or maybe it's the unremitting pursuit of both sides, in short, please cherish it, don't panic if you don't meet it, there is always someone waiting for you, and as a result, your heart will tell you the answer, may the person you love also love you.

Half and half, God is destined, and it also needs people's efforts, if you don't support each other, you are destined to become strangers.

Yes, it should be, I believe it is more comfortable and more at ease, and it is destined to be the most reasonable explanation!

The family has a good understanding of the worldview, outlook on life, values, and educational background.

No, it's completely up to you, and there's no fate. Life is just a reason to give yourself an excuse.

It should be, although there is a fate, but there is no lock of anyone, there should be several people to choose from, depending on who you choose.

I think it should be, is fate destined so many people in the world to be able to live a lifetime together must have a special fate.

Don't deceive yourself all day long, a man has a fortune with anyone, a woman is beautiful, and everyone has a fate.

I have always thought that who can become a family with whom is predestined, even if there is no fate, even if it reaches the point of marriage, it will break up, and the destined fate will be met by chance even if it is thousands of miles away

Destiny! Meet the right person at the right time!

It's not good, sometimes it's really impossible to control.

It's not predestined, but it's deliberately limited! 、、

It seems that the arrangement of chances is fate, but it is you who determines whether you can meet these coincidences, remember that fate is in your own hands.

Everything is predestined.

Is it predestined for a person to marry someone who is matched? This question is actually very difficult to prove or falsify, and there is no 100% certainty answer. We often say:

A thousand miles of marriage are tied by a thread. This is to say that there seems to be something in the dark that is pulling people in marriage, that is, the so-called destiny.

According to my observations, whether it is a happy marriage or an unhappy marriage, many of them are the result of chance or even misfortune. Some people's spouses are their classmates or old acquaintances, but more people meet each other after adulthood or by chance or through introductions, in short, the process of acquaintance and marriage is full of uncertainty, and a small change in the original harmony faction may lead to two people not knowing each other at all. On the other hand, many friends may have an experience, obviously they are the people they like very much, but they miss it because of various mistakes and inexplicable ways, which makes people can't help but sigh:

It's not mine, and I can't keep it after all. Maybe they got along for three years before getting married, and they broke up when they broke up, but if they separated again half a year after receiving the license, many people didn't think that they were separated like before they got the license. In fact, it's just half a year longer, just the same as in the past, but modern people still feel different.

Therefore, the marriage certificate of modern people is like a layer of window paper, sometimes it is not broken. Marriage is not the same as love, and in most cases, it is predestined. This kind of destination is not the guidance of metaphysics, but the voice of one's own heart.

Love, difference and friendship, different from family affection, is a special emotion between people. The love between two people, perhaps only needs the fit of Hoerpei Peng Chunmeng, which is a matter of two people. But getting married and forming a family is a joint decision of both families.

Compared with the unknown of love, marriage often has a lot of "sense of destiny". In life, there are actually many people who are attracted to each other, but there are few people who can really enter the marriage hall. It's not because of love, a lot of the time, it's because it's not suitable.

Falling in love is a kind of fate, but what you want to get married is fate. As the saying goes: things gather by like, and people are grouped.

This is the reason why it is said that among the many choices, the question of who people marry is predestined. "Half a catty to eight taels", whoever you are, you will meet. People often say that the best husband and wife are the right match, which tells us that husband and wife are the two ends of the scale, although the appearance and body shape are different, but the mental outlook is the same, the mental state is almost the same, and the attitude towards people and things is almost the same.

If you want to meet better people, then you must constantly improve your life level and keep going higher.

Don't ignore the harm of the family of origin to a person, and don't deny the importance of the development environment, because this is harmful to a certain extent, and even determines your vision. Fan Shengmei in the TV series "Ode to Joy" has an extremely embarrassing original family, so that when she arrives in the metropolis, she has a huge income, but her vision is still narrow. She tries to attract a man with her looks and crosses classes through him, not knowing that in each other's eyes, she is nothing more than a toy.

The other party does not easily respect her, he does not learn to respect himself.

If you think that boys really value the appearance of women, then you are naïve. Really good love or married life must be equal, you are not excellent, it is useless to know how good people are, because you have a big gap, so compared to pleasing and please, you should first improve yourself.

Some sociologists emphasize that by summing the income of the five closest friends around a person, and then averaging the number, we can know how much income the person has. That calculation method is not unfounded, and this is a warning to us about the necessity of circles. What kind of person you are, what kind of social circle you will come into contact with, and most of your good friends are people like you, which is the main reason why many people desperately want to cross the class.

However, it is really difficult, it may take two years, ten years or even decades of hard work, after all, if you go to Rome desperately, some people are born in Rome. The same is true when it comes to marriage and dating, you want to marry a rich man, but you don't even have the qualifications to get in touch with a rich man, because you don't have an entrance fee to high society, and that's where married life actually is.

If you don't have a good background, is the circle you are in fixed? Not really. Another important factor that affects your marriage and dating is your own ability and cultivation.

If you have bright spots, have the correct three views or strong ability, and become a leader in a certain industry, then rely on yourself to change the life of Zen Qingku, and naturally attract many excellent people.

When you get his attention, they will naturally look up at you and try to get closer to you. Isn't this exactly the case with Guo Jingjing, who married into a wealthy family? As the champion of the Olympic Hedong Association, no matter what kind of family background she has, she is enough to match the other party, because he is already excellent, and it is not surprising that he has married many excellent people.

The most important thing is that your knowledge determines what kind of person you will meet, your social circle, and your character, which will also determine whether you will meet like-minded people.

It has a lot to do with personality, temper and appearance, and these places determine what kind of person you marry.

whether the other party is accommodating enough; whether the other party is able to respect themselves; Whether the other party dares to struggle has a certain ability.