Are you getting married because you re old enough?

No. Marriage and family is a form of social formation, and no one forces or forces you. Most people feel that they are forced to go on a blind date and then make do with marriage, but in fact, there is still a little bit of luck in their hearts:

What if he meets Wang Sicong on a blind date, what if he becomes Ma Yun after getting married! If there is no luck at all and there is nothing to ask for, then it is impossible for a person to sleep with a person who does not like it at all, not for a day. The so-called willing, improvised, marriage you see is only a part of the marriage, when the family of two, or a family of three is sweet, you may ignore it with colored glasses.

The last point is that whether you will compromise or not depends on your inner ruler, yes, the external environment will eventually be converted into an inner ruler, and you will have an unconscious quantitative score for yourself, such as 85 points, then you must be eager to find a person of the opposite sex who has a score of more than 90 points to marry. With the ups and downs of various conditions, the standards of your heart will also change. <>

Personally, I don't agree with the statement that late marriage is better than will. In fact, late marriage has little to do with the general, and it is also common for some people to meet the right person when they are older. Although human growth is not entirely proportional to age, it does require a process.

Many times, being too young has nothing to do with getting married early or getting married late. The important thing is whether you meet the right person for you. If you do, it doesn't matter if you marry late, it's not a compromise.

At that time, I didn't fully recognize myself, people are often like this, different ages, different visions, and different ideas. I always have to go through a lot and see a lot before I can slowly recognize my heart, and I can know what kind of person I am with, so that I can be happier. Therefore, when you get married a little later, wait until you recognize yourself and know how to distinguish others, so that you will not be deceived by a person's appearance, then the person you choose will really be more suitable for you.

With such a person, after getting married, you will not be so different because of your growth later, and then you always regret it, feeling that you were too young and didn't choose the right person at all. Both are more mature and the quality of the marriage is higher.

Different people feel completely different in marriage. When you are not mature enough, your personality is still very unstable, and the personality of the person you choose is also very unstable, it is difficult for you to really be what you want each other, and it is difficult to be tolerant and accommodating to each other. It's not just your temperament, it's more likely that your economic conditions at that time will also be unstable.

In this way, when you are married and together, your life may not be as warm and happy as you imagined, and often only because of a little thing, because of a little money, and then you quarrel.

For late marriage, when you are mature enough, the other party is mature enough, and you already have a certain strength, your choice of the other half will be more accurate, and you will know how to get along with each other better. Mature enough and financially sufficient, it is natural to think about getting married. In fact, marriage is not a forced thing, it should be better to go with the flow.

Therefore, the issue of de-control should be viewed correctly, but it should be taken seriously anyway.

Your personal choice is no, you have forgotten what delicious pineapple rice tastes like, but you will not regret it in retrospect, and you are still happy. Because you've got what you want, that's what you've waited for, and because you know what you're waiting for, you're going to wait.

1. You have to find the person you want the most to marry, but complain that you haven't met the right person.

It's not that there isn't someone you want in the sea of people, but the perspective you want, and things that are reflected in each person are different. If you have a good impression of someone and are willing to slowly contact him, you will have the opportunity to meet the right person.

2. Never pay attention to it, you can get married when you are old, just for your family.

This should be the current situation of many people, some people get married for their parents, some people get married for the sake of age, some people get married for their children, and so on. The person who gets married is not what he wants, he just wants to be together.

3.Waiting is a good period of value-added.

In this world, love will not be like pineapple rice, waiting for you to find it, you must know what you are waiting for, so that you will wait with peace of mind, because you know what you want, you will wait for the result.

Summary: You don't have to panic and wait for a long time, there is time to make yourself better, someone met love at the age of 18, that is the early stage of the budding of love; Someone meets love at the age of 25, and that is a good age; Someone only met love at the age of 50, that is also a good age, you have lived for half your life, you can experience a heartbeat, passionate love, that is interesting!

At what age you are, you should do something. Since you have reached the age when you should get married, if there is someone who is married, you should get married. This is good for the next step in life. Don't delay getting married and make your family anxious.

Marriage is your own business, do you want to get married? When to get married? You need to make your own ideas.

I don't blindly choose to get married just because everyone around me is married. Besides, I am different from the people around me, others have reached the age when they should get married, and I feel that I am still young, so I will not let other people's choices affect my judgment.

Marriage to choose a suitable person, it depends on fate, some people get married late, because they have not met the right person for themselves, because marriage can not be improvised, marriage to choose the right person. Some people choose to enter marriage at a very young age because their ideas are not very mature, and after getting married, they find that the two parties do not know each other very well, so that there are many contradictions, and finally they have to choose divorce.

So I will not be led by others on the issue of marriage, I have my own certain rules, I think that when I reach the age when I should get married, I will choose a suitable marriage partner for me, and then after two people get along for more than a year, both parties feel happier and happier together, and they will consider getting married.

Would you choose to get married because everyone around you is married? Most likely, yes. Because the people who play together or are in constant contact with each other are married, and there is no common language with others. At this time, I will really choose to get married.

But you can't get married if you want to. You have to have a significant other. If you don't have a significant other, you may lower the bar. Find one that pretty much suits you. will choose to get married.

Men, in particular, are more flexible than women in this regard. When it comes to choosing a mate, everyone has their own criteria. But as you get older, or as you have more social experience, the standards will gradually change.

The yearning for marriage is the same for everyone. I feel that I can find a suitable two people who have a common language. Live together, and then you can live happily.

But everyone sets the standard. They all look for their other half according to their own standards.

But in this world, no one is perfect. There may be unsatisfactory in one way or another. For example, you set ten criteria.

In the process of choosing a mate, the person selected can have eight compounds, that is, a perfect person. Even if there are more than six of them, it will be fine. The rest is not quite suitable for personal problems.

Then, through acquaintance and acquaintance, through getting along together, gradually run-in, and gradually adapt. As long as the three views are the same. It shouldn't be a big problem.

After a period of running-in, both sides were able to tolerate each other. Then the problem is solved. Of course, if the problem cannot be solved, it will have to be re-chosen.

In reality, there are many people who always hold on to their own standards and don't let go. No matter what the circumstances, we will not lower our standards. Over time, I can't find a suitable one.

Slowly turned himself into an older leftover man or an older leftover woman. When I want to lower the standard again. There are fewer and fewer people who look back and find the right one.

Therefore. At what age should people do what they should do? Can't be dragged over.

It's like when a child reaches the age of six or seven. It's the best age to go to school and study, so if you choose to go to school in your teens. Then his ability to accept and understand knowledge will be relatively much worse.

So. The same is true of marriage. Young men and women should be in love when they reach the age of 20.

Find the object. Because this age group is the most suitable. So at the time of choosing.

It will also be based on your actual situation. to change their own standards. At this time, young people are also more broad-minded.

Or rather, more active. And as I get older, I become more and more rigid. How about always deliberately pursuing each other?

I don't know myself. Probably not so good in some ways. In short, when you reach the age, you have to get married.

It's almost a good fit. Can't, you can't be all-encompassing, all aspects must be suitable for your own standards and requirements, then you will never find your other half in this world.