In modern society, is it important for two people to be in marriage?

Marriage is not a matter of two people, it is a matter of two families.

If there is a big gap between you and your significant other, then your family will not be able to hold their heads up.

You marry far away, there is no familiar person, there is no familiar environment, he is your only one. Of course, you don't feel that there is any difference when you are in love, but if you get married, please consider this issue carefully.

When you live together, when love slowly turns into affection, this difference will come to the fore. Two people living in the same environment will have contradictions, not to mention that everything is different? The way of life is different, the circle is different, the material life is different, and the spiritual pursuit is even more different.

These are all problems and troubles that are difficult to solve.

Only when two people are equal, can we better communicate and communicate, everyone's life background is different, and the people in contact are different, you can't let people who have been eating Western food go to the street with you. A common language is important.

If the two of them are not in the right household, they can't talk about going together, right? He's participating in the upper class queue, you're bargaining with others for a dime, this kind of love is at the beginning of everyone is enduring each other and understanding each other, but after a long time, this is the root of the quarrel.

For example, a girl has a very good family since she was a child, and every time there is a new big-name bag, she will buy it home, and later she married a technical man who is not very rich, and the two of them began to struggle for life. The girl can't buy the bag and starts complaining, and the boy is very motivated, although the family is not rich, but he likes to specialize, and he will be happy to say to the girl what he has the results, but the girl only cares about making money? That's the difference in values.

Problems arise and quarrels arise, and there is instability in the marriage.

Therefore, you need to be cautious when marrying, he is not purely spiritual, but also material.

Whether the two people really love each other. Love is the foundation of marriage. People who love each other deeply have a head run for anything! This is what a good friend of mine told me. I couldn't agree more.

Personally, I think it is better to choose the door-to-door comparison.

To put it bluntly, the spiritual door to the door in marriage is actually the common language of two people, two people can speak together, they can understand each other, know each other's personalities and hobbies, and be able to communicate better, so that the marriage has a stable and sustainable development.

The spiritual door hedge skin is more about two people with the same three views, the same ideas, and an unswerving attitude towards certain goals, this kind of door to door is not the same as the door to door on the material background that we usually say, but in the final analysis, it is still to find a balance.

It is the balance of cognition between two people, you understand me, I understand you, you understand me, I understand you, when we consider the problem from the other party's point of view, we will know why the other party will do this, which is also the spiritual match.

The spiritual family in marriage is a very important part of maintaining this marriage, only two people chat, understand each other, respect each other, can make the marriage more happy.

This is quite similar to the background we usually talk about academic qualifications, and the two can be together, and there is a certain similarity.

But in many cases, this kind of spiritual pair has little to do with academic qualifications and background, but everyone's cognition of the world, everyone's cognition of the living environment, and everyone's attitude towards the future.

It is very important, important enough to affect the marital status of two people, whether two people are suitable or not, and this kind of spiritual relationship plays a key role.

Some people say that the right match is an important indicator to judge whether two people can be together.

But too many examples in reality also prove that the so-called family relationship is not only about family background and money, but also depends on whether two people have the same views on the problem, and whether they have common topics such as interests and hobbies.

The door is right, and now people still pay attention to the door, right?

Most of the answers are to find the right one.

Many people will mistakenly understand that they dislike the poor and love the rich, and protect their own interests, but this is not the case.

The phrase "the right door" actually contains a lot of content.

Needless to say, in ancient times, the concept of the family was very heavy, and it was almost impossible to cross between classes.

Up to now, although freedom of love and freedom of marriage has been advocated, marriage is not only a matter of two people, but also a matter of two families.

So, more or less, there will still be the concept of being the right person, so I'm going to tell you clearly:

In marriage, it is very important to be a good match! Nowadays, both men and women want to find a spouse who is on the same level, so that life is not easy to add to the blockage, and everyone can communicate smoothly.

Fewer and fewer people are willing to find a person who is far from them in all aspects to live their lives.

Door to door to door or right?

In a sense, it's still important. Success is fate, it's a matter of probability.

But the right family, although there is no guarantee that the children from good original families will continue to live a good life in the future, the probability of meeting people with no bottom line will be much less.

If you don't finish talking about finding a person with no bottom line in this life, at least it will hurt your vitality.

Things gather by like, people by groups, and the best love is nothing more than the equal strength of two people.

What is love?

Love is nothing more than falling in love with another self, which is on the same level as oneself, and it can last for a long time by paying attention to balance.

Why do the old people emphasize the right door?

In fact, they know each other's details, and they also know how to play and what rules to play, which must have been exposed to it since childhood.

When we look at our family background, we don't dislike the poor and love the rich, let alone blindly pay attention to the right people, but hope that the two people will be more cautious before deciding to enter the palace of marriage.

The difference in family background brings about a gap not only material, but also spiritual.

The difference in the social circle, three views, and vision of two people is the most difficult gap to cross.

And people who are willing to see their family background represent the importance she attaches to this relationship, marriage is not child's play, finding someone to spend the second half of her life with is not just talking, and it is not too late to get married after thinking clearly.

Falling in love can be impulsive, but marriage must be sane.

In marriage, many people pay attention to the status of the same or similar family conditions, thinking that in this way they can be the right match. ......But in fact, the spiritual door-to-door pair is more important. The reason why this is so is that the concept of husband and wife is fast and the attitude and goals of life are the same, and there is a common language between each other, and the marriage will be happier.

1. The spirit of the door-to-door pair of omission imitation of the couple's concept is the same.

The concept of husband and wife has a very important impact on how they get along with each other. ......If the husband and wife do not have the same ideas, it is easy to have conflicts. ......And the husband and wife who are in the right place can achieve the same concept, so that the husband and wife can live in harmony and have a happy marriage.

2. The attitude of the husband and wife who are spiritually at home is the same as the life goal.

Everyone has their own attitude to life and goals in life. If there is a difference with this aspect, two people will not be able to interact normally. ......Couples who are spiritually paired can be consistent in their attitudes towards life and life goals, so that two people can maintain a state of harmony in daily life, so that their married life is stable and happy.

3. Couples who are spiritually home-to-door have a common language.

Couples who are spiritually paired have more common language with each other, have more topics between two people, have the same point of view, and can get along well and have harmonious feelings. Such a husband and wife can be affectionate and lovely, and be happy. ......Therefore, the spiritual relationship between husband and wife has a very important impact on the relationship between husband and wife, and is a key factor in ensuring marital happiness.