How to deal with love, family, friends

It's incomparable, and you're not right on any of your deviations. But in fact, there are more people who value love a little more.

Let me tell you about these three feelings of people.

There are three kinds of affection in people's hearts: love, friendship, and family affection

Everyone's love is also related to these three things

First of all, let's talk about the love that everyone yearns for the most, in the world of love, it will have an inexplicable feeling, when you think it is happy, it will naturally become happiness, when you think he is painful, then it will naturally become pain True love requires two people to rise and fall unconditionally When unrequited love, some people think that it is happy, while some people think that it is miserable Originally, many people think that love is built with lies, but in fact it is not, the magic of love is not simple and can be understood There is a kind of selflessness in its infinity That kind of selflessness cannot be understood as everything is inclusive but the right accommodation, no matter when, no matter the situation, you always want the other person to be happy Instead of wanting the person you love to be with you, you can give her happiness Remember, happiness is not something that anyone can give, you choose for yourself As long as he is eternal in your heart, as long as you often pray for him in your heart, you are happy, then, you can say that you are already in love Don't be reluctant to love, as long as you have her in your heart, Even if two people are not together, it is a kind of selfless love

Then there's friendship, and its love lies in loyalty, understanding, and care. He always keeps his friend's things in mind But sometimes the things of friends are not something we can help him do, some things are even more terrible, if you help him, you just push him into the fire Therefore, doing things for friends depends on things The love in the world cannot say right or wrong, right and wrong are put in the way of doing things By the way, for friends, you need to understand them more and give them more tolerance As long as it is good for him, you can do it for him. But before you do it, you have to make it clear to him, otherwise, sometimes some people will think that you are wrong, do what you think you should do, don't do what you don't want to do

Finally, let's talk about the family affection that everyone has, in the position of family affection, everyone enjoys different happiness, and some people are also accepting different sadness at the same time Family affection is selfish and selfish, however, some people think that their parents do not respect their choices, it is for their own interests Let me tell you Parents have too high requirements for their children, because they hope that their children can be strong; Parents blame their children for their behavior because they do not want their children to go the wrong way and do wrong things. Parents don't respect their children's choices, they hope to avoid some bad things for their children Many parents will oppose their children's marriage, and the children can't understand, but they leave their parents and their lovers No matter how much you love him, it's wrong for you to leave your parents Although your lover wants to live with you for the rest of your life, but your parents have brought you into this world, you can understand who is the most kind to you If you still don't understand, then what are you

In fact, it's useless to say more, everyone's growth environment is different, maybe you value friendship more, or I value relatives more. This is all closely related to one's own growth, just like some words cannot be understood even if they are spoken, and the experiences of some people cannot be imagined even if they are written into a book.

Just remember that whether it is friendship or love, it all comes down to family affection in the end.

Because life is always nothing more than firewood, rice, or oil and salt.

To make the simplest analogy, your parents are like thumbs, your index finger is like your relatives, then friends, then lovers, and finally children, if you want to cut off one finger, you will choose to cut that one.

Friendship makes people tolerant, family makes people warm, and love makes people happy. When you falter, family affection is the most important.

Because at this time, it doesn't matter about love and friendship.

When your green spots are exposed.

Friendship is the most important thing.

It can even be used with its two-ribbed fork knife, and then it will never stop. At this time, the importance of family affection is often forgotten. And love is confusing.

When you stand.

Love will naturally occupy most of your heart. And family affection becomes natural, and it will not be noticed often. Friendship seems to have passed its shelf life, and it has become less pure.

Family affection is the starting point of the marathon of life. Friendship is teammates around you, supporting each other and sprinting towards the finish line. Love is the prize of the competition.

Money is like dung.

Family, family [A home full of affection can be called home] career, friendship, love, and money. [If there is no career in life, it will be very empty, as for friendship and love (it's hard to say, in my heart they are actually the same, in the same place).

If you have money, you have a career, are you afraid that you won't have money?..

Is this your sort order?

It depends on how important your love is, and your family will generally forgive you.

This kind of thing happens and always makes the person concerned feel very distressed and does not know what choice to make.

If you have a good relationship and your parents are against it, you can communicate more with your parents and do more ideological work to make your family accept him.