Have you ever plucked up the courage to confess to a girl on the spot?

Updated on psychology 2024-07-22
29 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    Be brave once, don't let yourself have regrets before leaving, let the other party understand that her heart is always good, if she refuses again this time, then this big brother, you should give up, it's yours will always be yours, not yours won't be yours after all. Wait for the next fate, maybe you will meet a better girl.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    No matter what, be worthy of yourself, be worthy of your heart, and don't let yourself regret it

    It's been so long, can you be sure she's still the same person you saw her again? Figure out what you like and what you need, and then pursue it, not to mention that you have to go to Tianjin for so long! Time can change everything, if you really love her, just wait for you to come back and come up with something that can give her a guarantee of life, material security, I believe that there is no woman who doesn't like this, women are vain, and I'm telling the truth, I'm a woman, too.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    If you like her, keep working hard. But if you really have the chance, give it up.

    She will ask you for help with some things, maybe she treats you as a friend, or depends on you, and gets used to it, but it doesn't mean that she likes you, you know?

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    It's time to give up, but give me a reason to give up before you give up.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Give yourself one last chance, and give up if it doesn't work!!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Love is to love to the end, so that there is no complaint and no regrets!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Agree with LoveTalk-Manager Level 4, he's right, she's just relying on you, be careful.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Nabs. Be brave like a man.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    1) Don't be too sad and don't do extreme acts.

    After confessing to being rejected by the other party, it is inevitable that you will be depressed and fall into a "sad" mood, but you can't be too sad and affect your normal life and work. It is advisable to self-regulate and do what you love, or talk to friends and family to restore your calmness.

    Some were rejected, wanted to die or live, and even used threats: If you don't agree to be my boyfriend, I'll jump from here.

    This kind of behavior is extreme, and it is also very selfish, thinking that if I confess, I can get the other person's heart, in fact, to confess with this kind of thought, it was wrong from the beginning, and I should understand a sentence, "Love is mutual, not unrequited love".

    Correct confession, first of all, is to be confident enough, followed by very distracted, and finally at the right time and place, self-confidence and heart, go with the flow to express your emotions, which is easy to improve the success rate of confession.

    2) Analyze the reasons for failure and gain experience.

    Why did confession fail? Some confessed, never reflected on this problem, and waited until the next confession, and failed, and some were rejected more times, and began to cast nets in a large area and selectively fish.

    I believe that only when people understand that they are wrong can they change their direction. For example, the reason why I was rejected by the other party this time is actually that my image is not good, my clothes are sloppy, my hair is oily, and the upper is dirty.

    Summary: In the confession failure, find the root cause of the problem and prescribe the right medicine, so as to truly solve the problem and gain experience.

    3) Try a second confession.

    After your confession is rejected, will you continue to confess? Some people say, no, they have rejected me, I will confess again, so embarrassing, so faceless, let's give up and change to another confession!

    Failure is the mother of success, and confessing to a failure and choosing to quit is not confident or a sign of not loving enough. The last time you failed to confess, maybe you didn't do enough, maybe you were too nervous, and maybe you were too sudden and scared the other party, why don't you try to confess a second time?

    Don't feel that if you confess again, I will be very cheap, the more you hint at yourself in your heart, the more you dare not confess, only if you have tried and worked hard, you will know the result.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It takes courage to pursue the person you like, and ordinary people will not have it so easily, and only those who can see their feelings thoroughly can get their wish. If you want to investigate the reason, one of the most common is "lack of self-confidence". After you really like someone, you will invisibly become inferior and think that you are not as good as the other person.

    But this is an illusion, as long as he can overcome it, the future will definitely become very bright for the He Yan clan.

    When many people fall in love, they don't dare to confess to their beloved, for fear that they will be rejected by the other party and will not be able to retain their personal face. In the emotional world, only a very small number of people can do it in one step, if you are afraid of being rejected, you must encourage yourself a lot, don't give up casually. After meeting someone you like, you must seize every opportunity to grasp it and make efforts for the relationship between two people.

    In the world of love, different people make different choices, and they should choose a path that suits them according to the actual situation. Sometimes when I meet someone I like, it's not that I don't want to work hard, but because I don't dare to make too many moves for the time being, considering the future development of meditation. When I became an adult, the time when I was desperate for love has passed, and I decided to let go and love someone, and I must have made many struggles in my heart.

    Love is by no means a matter of two people, but involves many related people, and it cannot be simply looked at. The pursuit of one's beloved also has to be agreed by two relatives and friends. In modern society, more and more people have a casual attitude towards marriage and love, and when they meet a person who has a little feeling, they come together desperately.

    In fact, true feelings require many factors, and the most indispensable link is the opinion of relatives.

    Life does get better and better when you have a lover, but no matter what happens, emotions are just an appendage and don't represent everything. In the process of chasing emotions, some people choose to wait in place, do not make any efforts, and do their own things step by step. For these people, emotions are not a necessity, and there is no need to spend too much energy on them.

    I have been single in the world for many years, and I can't find someone to accompany me, so I have to find more reasons from myself, instead of complaining on the sidelines. is not with the person you like, sometimes Zaochai is just because the other party is too good, and you don't have enough confidence to conquer this person. If you want to have a happy ending with the object of your affection, you should work hard to improve your personal quality and prepare for future love before you meet each other.

    Emotional message: The road to courtship is full of ups and downs, but no matter what happens, individuals should keep learning and make their conditions better and better. The courage to pursue love does not come from others, but from one's own abilities.

    If you want to be with the person you like, you have to have the courage to improve your conditions.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Confession is the most important step in determining the relationship between a man and a woman. Because it is generated, it means that one party has made its attitude and demands clear to the other party. It's equivalent to giving a multiple-choice question to the person you like.

    Love has to be said out loud, if you just have a crush and hold it in your heart, who knows what you want to do. As long as you say it, you have a 50% chance, and you don't even have a 1% chance.

    But confession needs to be foreshadowed. If you confess from the sky, you will be mistaken by the other party for being a hooligan. In other words, there has to be a process for everything.

    You have to first find opportunities to meet in work or life by getting to know each other, understanding and getting along. Let the other party recognize you, appreciate you, and win her favor with repentance. In this way, choose the right time and place to take the front palace, and confess to her in the right way.

    In this way, the probability of success can be greatly increased. With the strategy of accumulation and natural development, it naturally does not require much courage. Maybe the other party has been waiting for your words for a long time.

    But one thing to note, the confession needs to be at least if she doesn't hate you. Otherwise, you will surely die. In this era when there are many people and few people, if you really like her, be bold to confess, don't let you miss what you shouldn't miss, once you miss it, you will regret it for the rest of your life.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Confession is most afraid of the menstrual period, and the best is the ovulation period.

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Please confess with the belief that you are the only one in your life.

    Congratulations on your success.

    Fail, please comfort yourself.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I had the experience of confessing on the spot, and seeing him at that time made me fall in love at first sight, and I felt familiar, and I felt that if I didn't confess on the spot, I might not have a chance in the future.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    There must be this experience of having the courage to confess to a girl.,If you like a girl.,Then you'll definitely let yourself confess to her.,If you don't have this courage.,Then you can't talk about real like.。

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I had the courage to confess to a girl, it was the first time I confessed to a girl, and it took a lot of courage to do it that time, but he agreed at the time. So it's not that hard.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Yes When I was in college, I used balloons downstairs to confess to girls. At that time, she accepted my confession, which was also very good.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Yes, there was a meeting 2 times, no more than 50 sentences, a female colleague in the branch, I liked it the first time I saw it, and I confessed the second time, but I was rejected, but it didn't affect it at all, and then I didn't confess, but slowly we were together.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    I also had the experience of having the courage to confess to a girl on the spot, and I tried to tell the other party that I liked her very much and hoped that she would give me a chance to be with her.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Hello, I had the experience of plucking up the courage to confess to a girl on the spot, I remember asking her for dinner at the time, and then I couldn't help but confess, and it turned out to be successful.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    I haven't had this experience because I'm a girl, but I think when you muster up the courage to confess to a girl on the spot, there's a good chance you're already in the spirit.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Of course there is, because of the couples who are together.

    There must be someone who wants to confess first, otherwise how will the other party know that you like him.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    I didn't have this experience, and I didn't have the courage to do so. On the contrary, I admire the boys who have the courage to confess to the girls on the spot, and praise them for their courage!

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    I haven't been, because I grew up with my lover as a childhood sweetheart, and the development of our love is also very smooth, just a look, a movement, a small gift, will make him happy, and naturally become lovers.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Yes, I also had the experience of having the courage to confess to the girl I liked, and this experience was very memorable for me. I think if you love someone, you have to say it out loud.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Yes, because I like a girl very much, and I confessed successfully at that time, so it was very cool.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Yes, pluck up the courage to confess to the girl you like, and then get together.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    This really happened.,At that time, I especially liked a girl.,I think she's very beautiful.,It's the lover of your dreams.,Originally, I didn't dare.,But then I felt that if I didn't say it.,And some regrets.,So I found a suitable opportunity.,Muster up the courage to confess to others.,But the result was still rejected by others.,But I don't regret it.。

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    If that person really has you in his heart, you may succeed, if she has not promised your confession, it proves that she may not love you so much, and she does not like you so much, you have to think clearly why you are together, because you really love each other, or think that two people can be together to make do with each other, there are many forms of love, maybe it is a moment, maybe it is a love at first sight, and you want to stay together for a lifetime, now love starts very quickly, and the end will be fasterI believe everyone likes to meet the right person.

    But if this person has been rejecting you, you have to figure out why he rejected you, is it because he already has a partner, or that she doesn't have a place for you at all, or that she just wants to continue to be single, someone may have really missed the person who wants to be together for the rest of his life, even if you are excellent, you can't continue to stay with him, and some love is always a little regrettable.

    There are too many ways to love, some people may meet the person who is worth being together for a lifetime, and some people want to be single, and they can live their lives well by themselves, maybe some people have been pursuing a better object, and then expect themselves to meet a better person, maybe in the process of chasing, we slowly feel that love is just like this, and other people's confessions, we also begin to feel that if there is nothing, it is no longer important, and we no longer look forward to it.

    There is also a kind of maybe I have never met love, I just want to wait for myself to become better, meet the right person, we start again, but how can there be so many suitable people in this world, if we can meet soon, it would be good, we will have more time together, I will also love you very much, but unfortunately we are still looking for you in the sea of people, if one day I am lucky, I met you, I want to say to you for a long time, do you want to be with me? Do you smile and say to me that you haven't seen me for a long time?

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