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I've got your confusion too! I also graduated this year, an undergraduate. The counterpart job should be in the education industry!
But in fact, the schools that want to hire me are either private or primary and secondary schools, and my parents don't want to see me as a girl working so hard in such a school, they feel that there is no security. However, good jobs and difficult employment require at least a master's degree or doctorate! I have a headache too
Reading your article, I can understand your feelings. I also went out and did it while I was in school"Full-time"I have experienced the great pressure of work in society. Girls are outside, and I really feel that people say that finding a good job is a very bad feeling.
Unless their own conditions are very good and superior. Otherwise, it's hard work.
I think you should listen to your parents, and I am the same now, they must be from the past, and they must know what is better and better for you! They are all their own parents, and they all want their children to be good!
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Don't be discouraged, if you can't do it, you can upgrade the cost, and the current career mouth is still very strict about the academic card
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1.Be firm in your own determination: Be cautious about the decisions you want, and be willing to take responsibility for whatever your choices bring.
2.Say goodbye to societal stereotypes about age: Age is not the whole of a person and should not be defined by this label.
3.Recognize your strengths and weaknesses: Seeing your strengths can help you feel more confident and firm in your choices. Recognizing your own shortcomings can help you keep improving yourself to get better opportunities.
5.Take responsibility: If you don't have a satisfying career or family situation when you're older, learn to take responsibility for your choices and keep working to make a difference.
6.Build good relationships: Recognizing that spiritual companionship and support are equally important, building and maintaining good relationships can give you strength and help in the face of difficulties and setbacks.
7.Change your thinking and relax your mindset: Don't see the conventional route out of society as a very painful and arduous thing, but as another opportunity to explore and challenge yourself, relax your mind and adjust your thinking moderately.
Summary: Life needs to try, explore and practice by itself. Although stress and anxiety are unavoidable, believe in yourself, think carefully and work hard, take responsibility for your choices, and believe that there is a better future waiting for you.
Let's not see marriage and career planning as a mandatory thing, but stick to self-centeredness and make what we think is the best choice.
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It is recommended that you think in the following directions:
1. What are your interests? What kind of person did you ever want to be? What kind of knowledge do you feel good about and can be further developed? If you don't know your interests, you can take the Holland Career Aptitude Assessment to get a general idea of your interests.
2. What is your personality suitable for? Different jobs are suitable for people with different personalities to do. Recognizing your personality is a very important step. Understand your personality traits before making a decision.
3. What are your strengths and strengths? What are some of the skills that can be used? What should I do about what I lack?
4. What weaknesses do you have in your personality that need to be overcome? Don't let weaknesses get in the way of your growth.
5. The first chapter of the book "Workplace Redemption - Written for the Confused Grassroots" also provides a more detailed and specific method, which is very helpful to you, and you can also go to the book to find the answer.
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Re: Self-choice of employment mainly refers to students who are about to graduate or those who are about to change jobs in the army.
Employment mainly refers to a person's imminent entry into the workforce and society.
The key to choosing your own career and employment is to see how you correctly choose or face your future life path. If you choose to choose your own career, you should consider how to make full use of your expertise, adapt to your new job and position as soon as possible, and cultivate new interpersonal relationships, so as to broaden your future development space.
When choosing employment, you should combine your own reality and try your best to engage in the work you like; And adjust yourself in a timely manner, and reasonably plan your own development and future.
Confusion is something that every one of us faces.
However, as long as you grasp yourself correctly, seize the opportunity, face the difficulties, work hard, and constantly practice self-summary, I believe that you will surpass the people around you in the shortest time.
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