The feelings promised with life turned out to be so vulnerable

This kind of friend for 4 years is nothing. But it depends on your attitude towards that guy. Don't tell that guy that my sister likes you.

There's no way I'm going to be with you. In that case, the man will only think that you are ignoring him because of your sister. He will turn to your friend.

If your friend has a conscience. At first, he said something about breaking the relationship or something, maybe he was angry. If she comes back, give her a second chance.

But see why she's back to you.

Then it depends on how you do it. Say no to your boyfriend sensibly, keep a proper distance, and be loyal to your friend's happiness or develop a relationship with your boyfriend regardless of his feelings, or even take the initiative to cause his boyfriend to like you. If it's the former, you should make it clear to your friend.

If it's the latter, you're not in a position to be fair.

There is nothing impossible in the world, many seemingly simple things are actually very complicated, and seemingly complex things are very simple

It's not worth it!We went from rivals to friends, but from friends to rivals in love, we shouldn't go back to the past!Besides, you're innocent.

The world is already very unfair, just get used to it.

Ask for a deeper insider, after your good friend found out that his boyfriend liked you, did he break it off with you directly, or what?If it is cut off directly, then I can only say that your friend is too unrighteous!

You're saying very well, "Forget but remember, Lose and fight for what you regret Regret it before you are sad What you have but don't know how to grasp it" In fact, you know it yourself, just do it, let yourself not remember when you forget Don't wait for it to lose before you work hard Don't wait for regret to know that you are sad alone Don't know how to hold it when you have it Actually, what you are talking about is a common problem for most of us Not only love Everything is like this We always feel that the most precious thing is not what we have, but what we have not gained and what has been lost Maybe this is people's greed, everyone, almost everyone will take this kind of life lesson, we rarely treat it normally, it is difficult to be content, now that we know our shortcomings, then why not try to change it, even if it doesn't work, at least we don't just talk about it, when you are wandering between the existing relationship and the new relationship, what you need to do is to analyze the pros and cons, make a choice as soon as possible, instead of swinging between the two, so it is equivalent to you are not concentrating on any relationship, existing or planning to start a new beginning, just imagine, not concentrate, not showing 100% sincerity How is it possible to get the desired result for one thing? If you are inclined to the current relationship, if there is no major conflict between you, but you don't feel new, then try to change the way you do things, inject something new into love as much as possible, try to save it, instead of letting it develop, so sooner or later there will be problems, and if you have no feelings between you, you feel that no matter how hard you work, you won't feel close to each other, then there is no need to be a dead horse and a live horse doctor, that is a waste of each other, in fact, listen to you, I feel that you are a very reasonable person, what is lacking is only decisive decisions As for the big problems that are extended from feelings to life, don't think about it, everything has similar places, and if this matter is dealt with, it will increase your understanding of the great principles of life Hehe, first of all, you must calmly analyze the pros and cons and then go to action There is no action Only reason Only emotion In the end, the problem is still a problem Come on, we encourage 1 to adopt.

Yes, feelings are really vulnerable in the face of reality! Because fragile!

Yes, just because I don't want to do that, he's going to break up

It's not vulnerable, it's fake!

Not really. If you have deep feelings, even if God strikes you, it's not easy to do it.

Of course not, the fragile ones are not real feelings!

True feelings are unbreakable.

The times have changed, and the previous feelings were like a sea of mountains, and now the feelings are like paper, and money is important

People are going to change, keep your eyes open and look for it.

In society, feelings are indeed fragile and material is the foundation.

Feelings are fragile, but they are also very strong. Feelings need to be tested, it's just about people.

Vulnerable to material conditions.

Well, after all, we have too many secrets in our hearts!

Remember to adopt it.

It is impossible to love someone with all your heart and soul for him.

Feelings are very fragile There is a story like this: Someone once did an experiment, put one of the most ferocious sharks and a group of tropical fish in the same pool, and then separated them with tempered glass, at first, the shark kept hitting the invisible glass every day, but it was just in vain, it could never go to the opposite side, and the experimenters put some crucian carp in the pool every day, so the shark did not lack prey, but it still wanted to go to the opposite side, wanted to try the beautiful taste, and still kept hitting the glass every dayIt tried every corner, and each time it tried its best, but each time it was always scarred, and several times it broke and bleeds, and lasted for several days, and whenever the glass cracked, the experimenter immediately added a thicker piece of glass. Later, the shark no longer collided with the glass, and no longer cared about those colorful tropical fish, as if they were just a moving mural on the wall, it began to wait for the crucian carp that would appear every day, and then hunted with his agile instinct, as if returning to the sea to be unstoppable, but all this is just an illusion, the experiment reached the final stage, the experimenter took the glass away, but the shark did not react, and it still swam in a fixed area every day not only to ignore those tropical fish, Even when the crucian carp fled to that side, he immediately gave up the pursuit, saying that he would not go any further, and when the experiment was over, the experimenters ridiculed it as the most cowardly fish in the sea.

But anyone who has ever fallen out of love knows why, it's afraid of pain.