I was going to get engaged, but now I m going to break up, what should I do?

If it were me, I wouldn't give up.

I would buy things and go to her house to visit their parents.

Show your determination, tell you how much you love her, you will give her happiness, I think as long as you are sincere, their family will agree again.

Tell her how much you love her, and hope to love her for a lifetime, and touch her with true feelings.

If you really want to impress someone, do it hard.

You can take the postgraduate entrance examination, and once you give up your feelings, you may never belong.

Don't leave regrets in your life, just try to do it.

Finally, I wish the landlord happiness!

Forget it. In the future, there will be obstruction from parents, which is not necessarily a happy event.

What is your primary purpose now to work? Learn? Tie the knot? There has to be an important point.

It is impossible for you to take all the good things in the world. If there is "gain", there must be "giving".

You have to think through the priorities of things before you do it.

Disorderly. People living in today's society, if they want to have a happy marriage, they can't let the two families have conflicts because of money. It's a contradiction before this is a day, hehe, I wish you good luck

This... Hey, what's there to worry about, find a better one. You are in such good condition.

In this case, two people should not choose to break up, but sit down and communicate well. Since the two are getting engaged, it means that the two have gotten along to a certain extent. Therefore, it is necessary to directly talk about the problems existing in the other party, and both sides must seriously correct themselves.

Since the breakup between you was caused by a little conflict, this can be explained clearly.

You have reached the point where you are talking about marriage, so the relationship is still relatively deep, so the other party may just say an angry word.

You should work hard to fight for it, and the other party can't break up with you easily.

Personally, I think that because of a little contradiction, I can only say that he is relatively naïve. is not very mature, or sit down to explain the contradiction clearly, solve the contradiction, so that the relationship between the two people will get better and better, after all, it has reached the point of talking about marriage, and you break up like this, which makes it very difficult for the parents of both parties.

Since the relationship between you is already engaged, it means that you have been together for a long time, and the relationship has reached a certain level, just because of a little contradiction, he is going to break up with you, if you care about this marriage, you should solve these contradictions, let him see your sincerity, if this does not make him forgive you, you should accept this reality.

Just because of 1 point of contradiction, you have to break up, then you can talk to him about the bits and pieces you have experienced together over the years, after all, it is easy to fall in love, it is difficult to stay together, it is not easy to get engaged, everyone should cherish it.

If you have a conflict with you a month before you get engaged and want to break up with you, then I think the probability of you getting married is very low, because he probably just didn't want to marry you in the first place.

I think what you should do is to explain this matter clearly, and then solve all these contradictions and misunderstandings for him, and then solve this matter calmly.

Then it's good to break up, a little bit of contradiction and still pick at such a critical time, what do you want him to do, and you won't only meet one person in your life.

Hello, try to talk to him about the conflict, if necessary, you can ask his friends to be an intermediary to persuade him, or ask his parents to help persuade him.

You should leave the other party, indicating that the other party is still not suitable for you, and it is also very good to end the relationship at this time.

If you are about to get engaged and have a conflict, you can ask the other party's parents for help, and you can use your parents-in-law to support you at this time.

Then break up. Since he has already said such a result, there is no need to make amends.

No matter what the reason is, what time, as long as you propose to break up, it proves that there is a gap between you, and there are contradictions that need to be communicated, and you can resolve the contradictions, don't you have to break up?

For the month before he said he was going to get engaged, he was going to break up with me because of a little conflict. At this time, first of all, you can have a good talk with him, and know what is the source of your conflict?

This thing will often happen in reality, some people have a good relationship with two people, because they are going to get married, involving a lot of money and economic problems, so that the families of both sides are under a lot of pressure, and they propose to break up in a fit of anger, which is understandable, but it is really hard to say whether they can get back together, and there are many actual situations because of these things that are finally separated.

It's already going to be engaged, and it's your engagement day in another month, because of a little contradiction he proposed to break up with you, I think it's better to solve the contradiction as soon as possible, so as not to affect big things because of this little contradiction.

If it's just a small contradiction, let's just talk about it. It mainly depends on what the contradiction is.

I think it should be returned, and it's not a cheating marriage, what do you want someone to do with that money, it can be spent for a lifetime, and the things outside the body are lighter, and life does not bring death to bring it. My colleague's daughter broke up after seven years of love, and after the breakup, my colleague's daughter returned the ** necklace, platinum bracelet, etc. that her boyfriend's mother bought, and moved her boyfriend's mother to cry bitterly, saying don't do anything, you see, how good this is.

If you break up after getting engaged, whether the bride price should be refunded. There is no explicit provision. As usual, I think whoever repents of marriage will be responsible.

Reasonable. If the husband withdraws from the marriage, he cannot make any request to the woman. If the woman takes the initiative to return the bride price, that is another matter.

If the woman requests to withdraw from the marriage, the bride price received shall be refunded in full. It is also okay if the man does not return the bride price. There is also a kind of inertia, whose fault is it and who is responsible.

Example; If the man is at fault, the woman may request to withdraw from the marriage, and the bride price may not be refunded. If the woman is at fault, the man can not only ask for a withdrawal from the marriage, but also ask for a refund of the bride price.

Because the engagement is not legally binding, and the engagement is broken up after the engagement, the bride price should be canceled. It's like buying a plane ticket, because you can't travel because of something, you can refund the ticket. However, in practice, it still depends on whether the cancellation of the engagement is proposed by the woman or the man.

If the woman proposes to break up after getting engaged, the bride price will be refunded in full. If the man proposes to break up after getting engaged, there is a difference. Some women will return the full amount even if the man proposes to break up after getting engaged.

Some women will refund some of them, and some women will not refund any of them, as punishment for the man's betrayal of the "engagement agreement". And I think that after the engagement broke up, the bride price was still refunded. People's hearts have changed, the bride price is meaningless, and the woman will be uncomfortable holding the bride price.

Our people at that time were that the man proposed to break up, but he didn't retreat, and the woman proposed to break up. Basically, it's all back. There are only a few unreasonable people, and the woman is unwilling, but she does not retreat.

I think as long as the woman is unwilling, the money spent by others should definitely be refunded. There is no contradiction in this way. Separate well.

Some women themselves are unwilling. I don't want to quit completely. It's a lot of noise.

The man was unwilling, and basically he did not propose to let the woman retreat.

The woman should take the initiative to return the bride price to the man, so as not to leave regrets for herself. Refund the bride price and keep the nobility to yourself. There will be a bride price, let the person who cares about you the most give the best bride price, and you must also enjoy the happiness given to you by your lover.

The woman should return the bride price that does not belong to you, and do not let it block your heart. However, there are really women who give the man a divorce without returning the bride price. There is a family in our village, and the daughter of this family has already received the man's bride price and is ready to get married, but suddenly announced that she can't look down on other young men anymore, and said that the marriage is free, and the parents can't be the master, and the daughter really doesn't want to marry.

If you return the bride price to someone else, the family will not return it, but will use it for his son to marry a daughter-in-law.

After getting engaged and breaking up, the customs and habits are different in each place. After our hometown got engaged, if the man proposed to break up, then the bride price would not be given. If the woman proposes to break up, you have to pay for a glass of water in the south. That's the rule we have there.

According to the law, it should be returned, just engaged, no license, no marriage, the bride price should be returned to the man, but this is actually a harm to both parties, no matter who is the reason to break up, engaged, have passed the bride price, I believe that relatives and friends know, both elders must be busy, just waiting for marriage, the result is due to the willfulness of young people and scattered, and finally have to fight over the bride price. Now the society is free to open the party, many women are unmarried and have children, if the man regrets the marriage, this is really a proper harm and blow to the woman, physical, psychological, economic and reputation, especially in the more feudal places in the countryside, the entertainment of the seven aunts and eight aunts for a day is gossip, saliva and eyes can drown people, young people don't care, but they have to think about it for their parents.