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I envy your straightforwardness, just say something, don't hold it in your heart, and you won't have a chance to say it until it's rotten.
Although sometimes straightforwardness can hurt others, advice is against the ear.
Doing things without thinking about the consequences, everyone has a time of enthusiasm.
But brain, that means you're simpler, and your life is easier
It's harder to change things without regard to the consequences, and I used to do the same. Impulse.
Later, I changed it because I endured several serious consequences.
You can always think about the consequences of doing this. Don't be reckless, or you will be the one who suffers, and you will be the one who has an accident. Wait a moment before every action and think again.
You have to set a goal and don't live in a mess. Your goals can be small, like taking a language course for three months. Do something you love to do and make sense.
If you explore your interests, you will know what you want to do. You'll have goals. For example, if you like German, and after you have learned a lot, you may want to study in Germany or work as a translator.
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I used to be like you. Later, I forced myself to learn to observe everyone around me, to feel everything around me with my heart, to get to the bottom of everything, whether it was related to me or not, to think about what I would do if I was the protagonist. It's much better now.
You might as well try it!
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Summary. How to change the simple-minded personality.
Changing a simple-minded personality can do this: the method is changed from three points, and the mind must be quiet, and the mind must be quiet in order to keep the brain awake. You can practice calligraphy and fishing to cultivate your mind.
Second, knowing that potatoes are rich in reading and selling a few feet, so they can think more. You can read more books, travel, and learn about history. Third, the mental state must be full of sleepy thoughts in order to have time to think.
Rest on time and stay up late.
The system thinks carefully and shouts and examines it. It makes thinking more comprehensive and multi-dimensional. In this regard, we can refer to some books that infiltrate orthodoxy, or "Systems Thinking". Structured thinking. It makes thinking organized and wide-tracked.
My dear, I've been in such a state of depression all the time, but I believe it is possible to come out of it. Can you tell the teacher about the time when you feel uncomfortable?
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1.Take the initiative to get along with everyone enthusiastically, integrate into the big environment, take the initiative to care for others, and help others as much as you can.
2.Be positive and optimistic, not driven by low moods;
3.Be open-minded, be careless, and think about the good in case of trouble;
4.Learn to be humble, reflect on yourself from time to time, do not do well, and actively correct it;
5.Build confidence that you can make a difference;
6.Establish ideals and look farther.
7.Study hard to improve your business ability and self-cultivation;
The above points are for your reference. I hope you continue to make progress and get your wish!
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I used to be like this, after I went to college, I participated in various activities, and after giving a speech in front of many people, I would slowly become extroverted, I had to dare to jump out of my comfort zone, dare to do what I was not good at, honesty and simplicity were advantages, I could give myself a goal every day, the goal was not too big, the kind that was easier to complete, such as how many people I want to speak in front of many people today, these are all slowly exercised Come on
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In my past experience, you are not confident in your performance, brother introversion is not wrong, first of all, you have to accept yourself, smile in the mirror every day, you will find that it is different from before, indicating that you have changed a little. Believe that you can change
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Can it really change? We are all wastes living in this world, I am really tired of living, I have been living in a world of escape, selfishness
Self-interested waste. Kindness in this society is foolishness, I really think that my parents beat me up, this society only has people and people deceive. I'm so tired.
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Try to change yourself, I think you should first try to talk to others more, you shouldn't say that you are stupid, even you deny yourself, there is really no way, so you have to try more to change yourself.
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Deal with cheerful, optimistic, and outgoing people and make yourself humorous, and slowly change.
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When happiness comes, please accept it with an open mind, and then manage it well, fall in love with the purest feelings, as if you were never hurt, and don't let the next person make up for the damage left behind by leaving and lose happiness.
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The world is big.
There are no surprises. this world.
Anyone will have it.
You feel that you have a bad personality and do things sloppily.
Without thinking twice, you can see that you are not stupid.
It's not your personality that needs to be changed, it's your attitude towards people and things.
Observant. Caution.
Assertive. Ability is very important, just ask, how many people are really stupid in the world?
It's just getting along with people.
Deal with things.
Everyone's approach is different.
Therefore, there is no need to worry about your character, instead of this, it is better to think about how you should do it and how to do it, in order to achieve twice the result with half the effort.
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Hello. I can actually imagine your feelings. Because I'm a sloppy person myself.
How to change such a character?
I think:1. It's a collection of bits and pieces of life. For example, you are always lost. You can ask students to review what you've done to see if there's anything wrong.
In this way, it will get better slowly.
2。The thing that doesn't have to be brainless is that you don't know the darkness of this society, but you have really been deceived, and you will have a memory when it hurts to the bone. Isn't it?
Of course, each person has his own way. I don't know which one you think is good. But I believe that sloppiness is short-lived
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Do things that require patience, such as planting flowers and plants and raising small animals.
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Force yourself to think about it for 5 minutes before doing it.
If it were me, I would "turn the big things into small ones" for the things I insisted on, divide them into small goals, and urge myself to complete these small goals every day, so as to keep getting closer to the big goals, just like Morton Hunt said, "take one step, take another step", and when you look back after a long time, you will find that you are constantly breaking through yourself, and you have unconsciously walked a long way.
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