When registering, the parents handed the teacher a bottle of water, and the parents took pictures of

I think the parents who take pictures are too sensitive and suspicious, which will have a very negative impact on other people, and how big can a bottle of water be?

I think it's normal. We sometimes see people working the side of the road, and they will give them a bottle of water. Why can't you give it to the teacher?

I think it's just a bottle of water, it's not a big problem, I think the teacher is very hard, the parents hand the teacher a bottle of water, I think it's harmless, and the average sensible parent will understand.

Generally, it is not allowed, one is to violate the privacy of students, and the other is to easily cause psychological pressure on students, you can upload the results to the quick check results, so that students can only check their grades according to their student number and name, and a mobile phone can only query one person's results, which effectively avoids the above problems, and also achieves the purpose of announcing the results.

The teacher's original intention is understandable. But I beg to differ.

Students who do not write well in their homework and have poor grades also have self-esteem.

Once ** is posted to the group, the hail faction will cause it to be looked down upon by classmates and their parents. It seriously hit the self-esteem of those students, and then there was no information about learning. The consequences could be even more severe.

This practice by teachers can be referred to as grade discrimination. Such a teacher is no longer qualified as a teacher.

In this case, the teacher is angry and can't solve any problems, no matter how fierce the quarrel is, the problem is still there, isn't it still not solved? So in order not to cause trouble to other parents who don't know the truth,Teachers must contact parents individually to communicateMake an appointment with the parents, invite the parents to come to the school, and check the situation between the two parties in personto restore the truthNeither wronged a good person nor missed a bad person. Only in this way can the problem be truly solved.

The class teacher acts as the manager of the class groupBe sure to keep an eye on maintaining the parental remarks of the class group at all timesTell everyone that you can speak freely, but you can't be weird and complain at every turn, because no one wants to see others put on a face for themselves. What's more, everyone's children are in the same class, and they will inevitably compete with each otherIf parents are allowed to make irresponsible remarks in the group,The end result will be embarrassing and difficult to manage.

Although the head teacher needs to pay attention to managing the parents' speech, it is not that he can fly freely, if he is a teacherAnd in the group, he has no scruples to make some negative comments about some children who are not performing wellIt's unacceptable to any parent. Because of the child, he has been disgraced in front of other parents, who can be embarrassed to listen to the teacher's fate in silence like this?

I can't help but go back, it's probably an instinctive reaction, which is understandable, and the teacher shouldn't be too depressed, the problem is out,The solution has to be resolved, and it cannot be delayed.

No one wants to see such a thing happen. The teacher himself may wish to reflect on whether his remarks are inadequateIt is necessary to carefully recall the causes and consequences of the teacher who caused the accusation, and after confirming that it is correct, contact the parents separately for a private chat, and do not continue to disturb other unrelated people in the class group.

After contacting the parents, the class teacher needs to communicate with the parents in a good mannerTake the initiative to apologize to the parents, affirming that they have not done their job well and made the parents worriedThen the conversation changed, please parents to correct you how to do the next step, how to educate the child, if there is a problem, please parents and you alone private chat, no longer in the group to cause other parents to watch, people are mixed, maybe to spread falsehood, and finally I don't know what it has become.

I believe that after such communication,Turn hostility into jadeIt's just a matter of time.

Teachers should ignore it. Then you can have a private chat with this parent, you can talk to this parent with your heart, and there must be no conflict between the two sides.

Teachers should communicate with parents, should have private chats with students' parents, and then should adjust the problem in a timely manner, and teachers must change their bad behavior after that.

Teachers should work hard to solve this problem, and they should also give parents a guarantee and guarantee. will solve this matter well.

My opinion is:

1. You can't blame your child.

If the child is in a hurry, he will be more rebellious, and if he is a particularly sensitive child, he will feel that because of this, he will hurt his self-esteem and lose his confidence in learning.

Second, do not protect the child and bear the consequences together.

Although the teacher's approach is a bit radical, as a parent, it is more about guiding the child to look at this matter from a positive perspective. Instead of looking for reasons to give the child too much protection. Doing homework itself is a natural thing for children, and if it is not completed, it is necessary to find problems from children, not from objective reasons.

3. Affirm the teacher's approach.

Professor Ju Qiang also said earlier that there is no right or wrong in everything, and it is just a matter of looking at it from different angles, so adults should affirm the teacher's approach. Let the child not resist this matter. In this way, we can accept this matter happily, and we will also recognize the teacher in our hearts and cooperate with the teacher.

The teacher's original intention is understandable. But I beg to differ.

Students who can't write their homework well and have poor grades also have self-esteem, and once the version is sent to the group, it will cause them to be looked down upon by their classmates and their parents. It seriously hit the self-esteem of those students, and then there was no information about learning. The consequences could be even more severe.

This practice by teachers can be referred to as grade discrimination. Such a teacher is no longer qualified as a teacher.

Teachers send a list of students who do not complete their homework to the parent group, which is a method that teachers often use in their work. Such a teacher is at least a responsible teacher, and if the teacher does not care about the students who do not complete the homework, that is what parents should worry about the most.

It is inappropriate for the teacher to put the names of students who are not finished copying into homework, and it is inappropriate for each small public group to do so, which can easily cause disgust among parents, and will hurt children's self-esteem, even if the parents of children who have completed their homework will get this effect, to make fun of other people's children, and even use other people's children to satirize and improve their children's self-confidence.

As a parent, you should respect responsible teachers, and as for the problem of losing face, you have earned it yourself, not someone else. If parents want to save face, maybe the list of criticisms will only appear once, and the child has made great progress, which is also a way to earn back face.

These BAI situations are not allowed to happen, as a teacher.

du should. Be a law-abiding person

This is also a very helpless choice, which reflects the conflict between parents and the school, and at the same time reflects some of the teacher's handling skills, and most of the responsibility should be the teacher's. There are too many such cases. Now it's basically gone, because of complaints from parents.

In real life, not only is it common for teachers to send a list of students who have not completed their homework, but also the situation of homework completion and the children's ** rights.

Send it to the group, and the child will feel embarrassed when he is photographed on the podium, and he will be more attentive when doing his homework next time, and will not have the psychology of "it doesn't matter if the homework is not completed".

The white homework assigned by the teacher to the students, yes.

DU needs parental supervision.

Zhi promotes and cooperates. If their child's DAO homework is not completed, the parents do not know about it, and the teacher does not say it, the parents will think that the child is doing well in learning. As a parent, you should be able to calmly accept the teacher's criticism of the children who have not completed their homework in the group, is it difficult for the teacher to communicate with the parents one by one for the sake of the parents' face?

Regarding the phenomenon of teachers posting a list of unfinished students to the group, it feels like it is just a way for the teacher to communicate with parents, not a deliberate target of anyone. If parents feel that they have no face and are particularly embarrassed, then they should pay more attention to their children's learning, and if their children perform outstandingly, then they will often be praised by teachers in the parent group, and parents will feel particularly proud at that time.

The teacher puts a list of students who do not complete their homework.

Du in, every kind of small fan zhi around the public group.

I don't think that's appropriate! The Ministry of Education has repeatedly asked for the burden to be reduced, has the burden on children been reduced? If you can't learn well in six hours at school, can parents spend another six hours making up for it at home?

I don't think it's realistic! There is nothing wrong with the class teachers in pursuing the grades, and they all want their students to learn well, and there is nothing wrong with them. However, the student's academic performance, the teacher can solve it with the parents in a private message, send it to the group, all the parents are watching, and all the students are also making comparisons, so that the children who do not do well in the exam will be under great pressure, and their self-esteem will also be greatly hit.

On the contrary, it has a counterproductive effect on children's education, and when it comes to studying and exams, they are afraid, and this kind of learning is under great pressure from teachers, students, parents, etc.

I don't approve of this approach myself, and I think it's a bit disrespectful to the students themselves. Although the good and bad of the test are caused by themselves, they must also bear the results. This doesn't mean that students don't have self-esteem, they know that their grades are poor, but they can't post it in the group for so many students' parents to watch together.

If the students are made aware of it, or if some parents make a joke about it, the damage to the students is huge.

As a teacher, if you want to talk to parents about your students' grades, you can choose to send a private message. But this can also be discussed on a case-by-case basis, if the age of the student is relatively young, I think it doesn't matter if the parent ** news, then the child is not sensible. However, junior high school students and high school students are absolutely not allowed to post their grades to the group, which will have the opposite effect and make students even less interested in learning.

The teacher thinks that for the good of the students, they send the students' grades to the parent group, and they think that those with poor academic performance can learn more from others, so that parents can understand what their children's student grades are in the class. The teacher's original intention is good, and he cares about the student's grades.

However, students are not measured by their academic performance, and teachers should pay attention to all-round development, as well as mental health development. Teachers can communicate with parents in a different way, which not only protects students' privacy and self-esteem, but also curbs the trend of comparison between parents.

While caring about grades, we should give the most important care to students with poor grades, there are no students in the world who can't teach well, and more about whether students have troubles in life.

What's wrong! It should not be the teacher's responsibility to educate the children unilaterally, nor can the teacher supervise the students 24 hours a day. Sending the report card to the parent group helps parents fulfill their responsibilities as parents.

Not appropriate, because students still have self-esteem, and if you are in the same class as your best friend, you may not be able to avoid criticism every time you score a test.

First of all, if you don't do as well as your friends, your mother will say that you are all studying in the same class, you look at who it is, and then you look at yourself, what's the matter? Are you on a business trip for class?

Obviously, the two of you scored about the same last time, why are you so far behind this time? The two of you play together every day, and the gap is so big?

Don't ask me how I know, that's what my mom said about me, my good friend and I were classmates in junior high school, high school, not classmates in college, I scored four points lower than him in the college entrance examination, and my mom almost didn't talk about my whole college because of this.

Therefore, putting the grades in the group, on the one hand, it will cause pressure on the children, on the other hand, it will cause pressure on the parents, every time other people's children have been improving, their own children are always wandering in the middle, parents must be anxious, and it is easy to put pressure on the children when they are in a hurry, and no one is good in the end.

I don't think it's appropriate to send students' test scores to the parent group, I remember when I was in school, the school had a rule that teachers couldn't post the report card, and our criteria for dividing the grades were excellent, good and qualified, etc., at that time, we thought that maybe the school took into account the students' self-esteem, but there were still students who would be curious about their grades and rankings, and if they went to the teacher, they could also see the ranking.

In fact, students also have self-esteem, and classmates will also compare with each other, not to mention our parents, and parents talk about things related to their children the most. I think it would be better for teachers to talk privately to the parents of students with poor grades, so that they can not only tell the parents the information, but also not make the parents embarrassed in front of the parents of other students.

There are pros and cons to everything. In this case, although the privacy of students is exposed and the self-esteem of some students is harmed, after all, students are students and are in the stage of receiving education, and this approach is generally appropriate. As long as the guidance is appropriate, let the parents and teachers of the students create a good learning environment for the students, you catch up with me, and constantly surpass, why not!

The important thing is to have a good mentality!