What should I do when a bear child makes trouble?

Don't be anxious about dealing with bear children, children, many things don't understand, he can't understand the world of adults, some children, he is not really troublemaker, so don't care about 3721 is a beating, violence can not really solve the problem, the more you beat him, the more rebellious he is.

So be patient, first try to use some language that the child can understand, to slowly explain some reasoning to him, you tell him why he can't make trouble, what the consequences of making trouble, let him realize that his behavior is wrong, if you don't let him really realize from the bottom of his heart that he is wrong, he will continue to make trouble in the future.

And sometimes the child's troublemaking is just fun for them, maybe because you usually have too little time to play with him, in the child, don't be too anxious, try to understand his behavior from the child's point of view, patiently accompany, don't hurt the child because of a moment of anger, and cause irreparable psychological shadows to the child.

I don't think you can take indulgent measures when dealing with bear children, you must make them realize that they have made mistakes, they must learn to take responsibility for themselves, even if they are still children, education must start from the baby, and it will be even more difficult to discipline when they grow up. If the bear child is left alone now, he may endanger society when he grows up.

When disciplining bear children, there are parents who will come to such a sentence "what to worry about with children", which makes no sense, and if you make mistakes, you must realize that whether it is a child or an adult, we are also in the beating and scolding of our parents when we are young, and now many parents cover up and connive at the mistakes made by their children, which is the worst education.

I had a relative's child playing in our house, and I played my favorite little goldfish to death, and when I saw it, he had already trampled the goldfish under his feet, and I was angry at that time, and I slapped him on the head, and I admit that my approach may be improper, but the various behaviors of the bear child must be stopped.

First: Set rules for your child from an early age and strictly follow them. As the saying goes, there are no rules.

Set rules for children to follow, and let them implement them clearly, and do not slack off. For example, when it comes to the child's eating, the child is naughty, running around with a meal, running here and playing with a bite of food, and playing with a bite of food. It takes a few hours to eat.

This will make it a habit. So at this time you say to your child, "Why don't you sit down and finish your meal at once, but your mother will put away the bowl and save it for the next meal."

The rules that are said must be enforced, of course, the premise is to communicate well with the grandparents, and the grandparents can't take the food away because of this, and the grandparents are distressed and bring out the food, which will cause the child to feel that his mother is lying to him, so he won't care.

Second: Establish someone else's bottom line for your child. In this way, when children are young and read oranges, they will always like to brush the "sense of presence", such as:

For example, when some children eat breakfast, they are asked to drink milk and eat eggs, and the child spits into the milk when he takes a sip, and eats half of the eggs and throws half of them. At this time, my mother needs to warn me verbally, saying that if I do this again, it will provoke my bottom line, and I will be angry later. If the child still continues to make mistakes, then you can get angry, and next time you don't give breakfast, let the child know that the mother's bottom line is in the **, and in the future, after the child is warned by the mother, he will know to touch the bottom line of others and not cross it.

The Chinese New Year is a good thing, but for people who have more relatives at home, it is very entangled. There are many relatives, and there are all kinds ......of people, and you have to deal with them head-on, and sometimes I really feel that it is not as easy as going back to work overtime

Especially parents who pretend to have children, they are most worried about having "bear relatives" to tease their children, the following 10 kinds are the most complained about in the parent group, see if you have such relatives or acquaintances around you.

The most hated type of relative by parents is the first type of indiscriminate feeding.

For the Chinese New Year, food is the standard. All kinds of big fish and meat, mountain and sea delicacies on the dinner table; All kinds of melon seeds, peanuts, candied fruit jelly and other snacks on the tea table.

However, you say that you can eat it yourself, and there are always some relatives who owe it to our children, like little monkeys in the zoo, and feed them all kinds of snacks.

Although, some relatives may be out of kindness and love for their children, but they are too ignorant, and not all of these New Year's snacks can be eaten by children, such as our common jelly and peanuts, which must not be eaten by children who are too young, and it is easy to suffocate.

There is even more annoying, let a child of a few years old drink, don't let it drink, he will say that you are "really boring", "children should develop guts" ......

Cultivate you as a ghost! When you encounter this kind of person, don't politely refuse it directly!

"Bear" index: Solution: Parents should always pay attention to their children, and when they find that someone is feeding inappropriate snacks, they should stop it in time, and patiently explain the danger and the reason why they can't eat it to each other, so that ordinary people can understand and resolve each other's embarrassment.

P.S. Food not suitable for children:

Alcohol or alcoholic beverages (can cause alcohol poisoning and liver damage).

Nuts (children who do not chew well may choke with laughter).

Jelly (too many additives and easy to choke).

Rice cake dumplings (glutinous rice is not easy to digest and may also cause suffocation).

Preserves (salt, sugar, and various additives).

Pickled foods (sub-high nitrite is unhealthy).

Honey products (forbidden for infants under 1 year of age, may cause botulism).

The second type of relative that parents hate the most: hands-on feet.

Some relatives, regardless of whether the parents agree or not, go over to pinch other people's children with both hands, and some even hug them and kiss them. If the child blindly hides, these people will also say that the child is "afraid of people" and "timid".

Many parents get angry when they see this kind of relative, and they are in their hearts: Don't kiss my child with your dirty mouth!

This is definitely not alarmist, and it is not appropriate for adults to kiss and move children around. There have been children who were infected with the herpes virus because they were kissed mouth-to-mouth by their mothers, and it turned out that they had mouth sores ...... their mothers

This is still his own mother, if he is an outsider, who knows if he has herpes virus, Helicobacter pylori or the like? Not to mention that there are still flu viruses, encephalitis, etc., parents must not be embarrassed to refuse for the sake of face, stop it when it is time to stop, and keep a polite distance.

"Bear" index: Solution: If parents are worried about having a bear relative, the first thing to do is to encircle the child around themselves and not give others a chance. Also, we were when the children were very young.