Parents always quarrel over some small things, and the quarrel is very serious.

You don't need to call the police, you can play the role of a referee in the middle, you can add it and say, "Dad, you're wrong, Mom is a woman, it's very hard, she cooks and does the laundry for you every day." It's that she is wrong about this, you should also give way, if your mother is angry, you will suffer, and we children will also blame you, don't quarrel loudly with your mother. In turn, let's talk about my mother, "You and Dad have lived a lifetime, you should understand his temper, he speaks loudly and in a heavy tone, but he has a good heart, and he usually loves you very much, so forgive Dad!"

Rub it slowly, my parents are like that.

It is difficult for a clean official to cut off family affairs.

The noisy past of parents is over.

If you really can't get through, then persuasion is useless.

Because a relationship breakdown doesn't happen in a matter of days, it takes a long time to erupt.

Obviously, your parents haven't gotten to that point yet, so you can rest assured!

Spend more time with them, listen to their nagging, and make them feel less lonely.

This kind of thing to call the police, at best, is to mediate, but it doesn't feel so good to the neighbors.

What's more, it will embarrass parents and don't mind doing it.

It's okay, often bickering is also a spice for life. You say it's a small thing, and it will be okay soon, but it's not good if your children are too involved.

Let it be, every family has a difficult scripture to read, and persuade more.

Summary. Hello dear, in fact, their quarrel is also a method of communication, if the small quarrel is nothing, the big quarrel is not wanted, find their own hobbies, eat and sleep at home, usually go out to have fun. My former colleague also said that his parents were noisy every day, and he advised his parents not to do this, but his parents said that we were communicating, communicating.

There may be couples like this, especially the older ones, who are not used to communicating in this way.

Mom and Dad quarreled over a trivial matter.

Hello dear, in fact, their quarrel is also a method of communication, if the small quarrel is nothing, the big quarrel is not wanted, find their own hobbies, eat and sleep at home, usually go out to have fun. My former colleague also said that his parents were noisy every day, and he advised his parents not to do this, but his parents said that we were communicating, communicating. There may be couples like this, especially the older ones, who are not used to communicating in this way.

If you're always arguing, you should find a way to stop them. Parents are encouraged to communicate with neighbors and friends outside to find their own interests and hobbies. For example, when you join a club, dance team, or choir, you leave home to go out for activities when the time comes, and people are often polite when they communicate with others outside, and they lose their temper with people close to them, and they are not polite.

As a child, you can be by your side more, and it is not easy to quarrel in front of your children. Loud noises must be stopped, and it is easy to increase blood pressure when you are older, and your heart can't stand it. From a health point of view, couples should also avoid making big noises.

Ah! Generally speaking, men (who love face very much) do their own things, and there is also the man who is the head of the family; Some men think that their face is his. Women are generally born to say "eight hangings" and want to talk about everything; The average woman is more likely to think about family expenses, which can save money for the family.

It is normal for two husbands and wives to quarrel; It's rare for a husband and wife not to blush together!

But if you "have friends who are coming to your house, you tell your parents early and ask them to think about you, which will give you face and give your family face." Your friends will also say that your family is good ...

Your parents should have been noisy for a long time, and it is absolutely impossible for you to keep them from arguing for a while. You have to communicate more with your parents, talk about it, talk about what you have to say. When they quarrel, you quietly walk away; If they fight, you have to stop them from fighting.

Don't talk to them, let them finish arguing, and you comfort your parents.

The reason why some people hate something is because they themselves have suffered from it, and it is normal for husband and wife to quarrel, but it is not good to fight. As a child, you need to observe and understand why they are arguing or even fighting, find out where they are and where they can't back down, find the crux of the problem, and then persuade and comfort them with a peaceful mind. You can get used to them arguing, but don't allow your dad to hit mom, your dad is a man after all.

You have to make him understand that men should be generous, and being too stingy will make you and the people around you tired. Don't let your mother worry about it, she's not so young anymore, so why care so much? It is not easy for two people to go through more than 20 years, and it is important for them to cherish it.

They are your parents, you are not only your children, but also their friends and confidants, and they are used to having a listener in their hearts, and you are the best person to listen to them. They are the parents who gave birth to you and raised you, don't leave them alone, okay? Responsibility is one of those conditions that you won't be like your dad.

e……Because they haven't learned to cherish it, it may be more intense when the mother and her old people reach menopause, but when people reach old age, they will find that their children and money are "floating clouds", and their wives are really old companions

As a member of the family, and already twenty-three years old, it is time to face this fact and put an appropriate stop to them when they quarrel, instead of standing aside or hiding and turning a deaf ear.

If it is the eldest son in the family, then it is even more important to gather family members, talk openly and honestly about this matter with each other, and make parents realize that they cherish each other's life together out of a good position for the family...

Until then, as a man, you must first have the courage to take responsibility, not to escape, let your parents know that you are no longer a child...

Didn't my parents quarrel too? Sometimes they talk about divorce, and after a few days, they will be fine. But my dad's temper didn't get any better during the process, so I hated him a lot.

My way of doing it is that as soon as he comes home, I hide in my room and pretend to sleep. Sometimes when they're at home, I run out to play with my friends. If you really can't hide from it, just do it quietly at home, don't say anything, you can just answer what they say, don't talk about what they don't have.

Even if they don't know what is right, don't talk about it, it will make them even more involved with you, anyway, you are older, and you will have to go out and live by yourself after you get married, and you will not have to endure their destruction during this period. But anyway, they are parents, it's not easy to live together, sometimes you can endure it, if you can't bear it, just avoid it for a while, and wait for the limelight to pass before it appears, if you want to make a move, you should help on the side, anyway, try to stop it. As for your girlfriend, you should tell him about it, and you can't hide it because of this issue, as the so-called can't hide it for a while.

If you really have the will to continue, this is something you must know, after all, the relationship between in-laws and daughters-in-law can also directly affect marriage. This is how many tragedies have been caused. If she doesn't know until you get married and can't accept it, won't it be another tragedy?

Whether you want to listen to it or not, there are still some things to say.

I don't know if you have one.

You are 23 years old, you should say that you are a mature man, if your girlfriend knows that your parents often quarrel and you don't do anything, I personally think that she should be worried that you will beat her like your father in the future.

If you are mature and courageous enough, it is advisable to have a small meeting with your parents to clearly state your thoughts and hope that they will maintain a good parental demeanor in front of your girlfriend. If you are nothing in front of your parents, the effect of your speech will be greatly reduced, if you can be the pillar of the family, then I believe that with you in the middle of your parents, they will get along well in the future.

You have to get used to this kind of quarrel, which will affect the handling of your future relationship between husband and wife, which is subtle, not that you can control it without learning.

My parents didn't quarrel when they were young, but now they are old and often angry about small things, we are usually who has reason to help whom, but most of the time it is persuasion, not to help who scolds, this is the responsibility of children. I hope the landlord can do his part.

Especially when you were young, if anything, are you often irritable now, you will lose your temper when you encounter a little thing, or do you often involuntarily be afraid, nervous, and your limbs will be very stiff, then these may come from the influence of your original family on you. From a psychological point of view, when a child is young, if the parents quarrel for a long time, it can have these serious effects on the child.

The first is that parents always quarrel, in fact, the child will be very angry in his heart, he will think that you are annoyed to death, can you stop arguing, you are not finished, can you stop for a while? But because you're a child, you don't dare and can't fully express your anger, so what happens to that anger? He's going to keep it in your heart, and when you grow up, he's been angry for so long, and he's always going to be angry.

It will explode and make you emotionally upset and emotionally out of control.

The second situation is that the parents quarrel too much, not only noisy, but sometimes even copy things, use knives, and even hurt the child. So if you think about how your child will feel at this time, he must be very nervous and very scared. Many children tell me that when their parents quarrel, they only dare to huddle in a small corner, and they don't even dare to get out of the air.

If this is the case, then your nervousness and fear will continue to accumulate until now, resulting in your body will not be very soft, very stiff, and even when you talk to others, others may stare at each other and raise their voices, and your body will involuntarily tense up all of a sudden.

The third situation is that the parents have quarreled all their lives, and it doesn't matter what they do, but after the child witnesses the failed marriage of his parents, he already has a dangerous prediction about marriage, and he will feel that he is talking about marriage. It must not be happy, so if he has such thoughts, when he grows up, he may be afraid of marriage, because he feels that marriage is the beginning of burying her happiness in life. So I've only listed some of the above, so if you're a parent, be sure to learn how to manage your marriage, and a good relationship between us and husband is the best gift you can give to your children.

If you are a child who grew up in such an environment, then you may have to learn some psychological knowledge to heal the wounds of your own family of origin. Don't be afraid, trust me, these can be done.

may be because their three views do not agree, their temper is also relatively short-tempered, they can't tolerate each other, they can't communicate when they have something, they care about each other, and they don't know how to back down.

The economy is the main aspect, and the two are often super over money, and there are serious communication problems between the two. I've been tired of watching it for so many years, and when I was a child, I stayed next to them when I watched them arguing, and I didn't care whether I was holding a knife or throwing something, and I wouldn't persuade them to fight. When they grow up, when they quarrel, they say that they want to quarrel and go out to quarrel.

Parents who often quarrel may be due to incompatible personalities, poor economic foundation, and different ideas. At this time, the child should act as a peacemaker, help the parents reconcile, and wish your family harmony, happiness and health.