How can you cultivate good manners in your child?

Introduction: Parents need to cultivate politeness and etiquette in their children when they are younger, so that they can have good respect for others. Because it is more important to cultivate children's etiquette, this is also a reflection of the child's quality.

Therefore, parents should also pay good attention to this situation, otherwise it will lead to the child becoming a person with no quality. Children's etiquette also represents the image of parents, so parents should also educate their children well. If parents do not pay attention to their children's etiquette education when they are young, then it will lead to their children becoming people who do not know how to be polite.

There are many people who also think that it is very bad for children who do not know how to be polite, and this will not be deeply respected by others. A person's etiquette is also a mirror, which is also a better representation of a person's image. Therefore, parents must first learn to educate their children well, so that they can make their children become a better person.

Therefore, it is also very important that parents cannot ignore this phenomenon. Parents should also pay attention to their behavior in life, so that they can also bring a good example to their children. Parents should also teach their children to be generous and decent in public, and never to be a mischievous person.

When you meet your elders, you should also learn to greet them, so that they can also make them feel that their children are very polite. Therefore, children's words and deeds are also very important, which also determines the child's future growth and development. Therefore, parents also need to start from small things when raising their children, and they should also let their children watch more cartoons about politeness and etiquette.

This is also a better way to influence the child, which can also be remembered by the child. Therefore, parents should also learn to be a polite person in life, so that they can better teach their children by words and deeds. Parents are also the most important teachers for children, so the education of parents is very critical and important.

Parents can play a leading role, and then cultivate children's politeness and etiquette, and then the child will do a good job of corresponding politeness and etiquette, and parents should remind their children how to do it every time, after a long time, children will know what to do when they see each other, which is considered polite.

Children should be shown some information about politeness and etiquette, and some polite knowledge should be taught to children, and children should also establish habits in life. Children should also be given the right sense of morality. Let children be able to deal with people better.

To create a good growth environment for the baby, we must teach the baby politeness and etiquette in the process of life, so that it can be well cultivated.

Parents must set an example, strictly regulate their children's words and deeds, and strengthen education and management after their children have incorrect behavior.

It is necessary to strictly regulate children's words and deeds, set an example for children, and create a good environment for children.

According to Agence France-Presse, many parents want their children"Internationalization", willing to spend ** to send them to a Western-style etiquette course, the course includes table manners, manners, social etiquette training, a total of 4 hours, the registration fee is 2688 yuan. Although etiquette is an external manifestation of inner cultivation, it is by no means something that can be learned at once by taking any courses, and it needs to be paid attention to in daily behavior to be cultivated. Therefore, even if you can't take the best etiquette class, parents should let their children learn basic etiquette in their daily life first, so that their children can be educated.

Children usually dress at home as long as they are clean and tidy, but when they are guests with their parents or in public, they should be asked to change into clean and decent clothes, not to wear strange clothes that do not match their age, and girls should also dress up according to their age, such as neat nails and combing hair. Every parent wants their child to automatically and spontaneously know how to politely say "please " and thank you . However, the behavior of parents is often reflected in their children, some children are easily able to accept the norms of etiquette, while others are not able to teach them.

Learning the basics of manners from an early age will help your child develop good behaviour. Good manners and manners are absolutely necessary for children to grow up, and they can also make them caring and considerate people.

In order for children to learn etiquette, parents should set a good example for their children, formulate rules, educate their children, and parents should set an example and implement them conscientiously, such as: dining etiquette, three meals at a regular time; No snacks before meals; not watching TV and playing with mobile phones during meals; Don't put your child's favorite dishes in front of your child and don't let other family members eat them; Wait a minute.

Then explain the reason for each behavior, such as learning to share, know what to do, know how to help others, be grateful, and so on. In this way, the child is deeply impressed by behavior and words, and these etiquette qualities are accumulated from an early age.

First of all, parents should tell their children what kind of behavior is polite, and after the child has made polite behavior, they should encourage it, and they should also read more picture books and storybooks about polite behavior, and also lead their children to more crowded places, so that children can communicate with other children, and parents should also set an example and show polite behavior.

Usually you have to start from the habit, and correct him in time if he does the wrong etiquette, and then let him read a book on etiquette.

Children should be told something polite, and parents should also be very polite to people, and you can take your child to learn some polite cartoons.

In daily life, we should be strict with the child, correct the child's bad behavior, let the child understand what to do, let the child develop a good habit, let the child learn some etiquette.

Parents should educate their children about politeness and etiquette through words and deeds, so that children can learn to respect others and let children learn to respect the old and love the young.

Parents must have a courtesy appearance, parents treat everyone politely, and secondly, they can report a training class for their children, and then in this class, they will teach their children when to say how to pick up what to say, so that the children will be polite.

Parents should teach their children some polite questions in daily life, so that children can take the initiative to say hello when they see others, so that they can become particularly polite.

First and foremost, parents should lead by exampleDon't make loud noises in public places, don't litter, and don't act disgusted with others, so that you can pass on politeness to your child and pass on your cultivation to him.

Secondly, you can make an appointment with the child in advanceWhen we go to public places, many children will have the idea of buying things and want to make loud noises, so parents can regret the agreement with their children in advance, and give positive encouragement after doing it, and if the child does not do it, he can remind him kindly.

As a child, his psychological expectation is that I have made an agreement with my parents, and it is easier for him to be polite.

If we have made some agreement with our child about how to do it in a public place, we must keep the principles. For example, if we say that we don't buy a certain toy for our child, and the child can't help crying after he goes, then as a parent, it is more important to maintain principles at this time than to maintain the so-called politeness. It is more important to be able to carry this principle gently but firmly than to be polite to your child.

Because to put it bluntly, a person's so-called politeness is just an external presentation, but people with conventions and rules are more likely to remain polite.

We need to keep repeating and telling our children how to behave in publicAfter constantly emphasizing, this child will also implant some principles and methods in his heart, and the child is more likely to become a civilized and polite person.

On TV, some parents send their children to learn etiquette, wear Hanfu, and give big gifts to their parents; Let the children learn filial piety and rub the feet of their parents with a footbath. This line of performance may make children understand etiquette, but after going through the motions, how much will it leave in the child's heart?

Some parents have told their children the story of "Kong Rong Dividing Pears", and they should be humble to each other with their children; There is a lot of preaching in books, and children only remember the stories, but they still don't apply them in life.

Children's learning needs to be learned in real scenes, especially when parents practice it themselves and demonstrate it directly to their children.

When crossing the street and encountering a red light, parents take the initiative to stop on the side of the road, and children will naturally learn the etiquette of crossing the road; If parents see that there are not many cars on the road and cross the road at a red light, then it is difficult for children to develop the etiquette of crossing the road.

Parents never queue up, whether they pay at the supermarket, wait for the subway or order food at KFC, they can squeeze as much as they can, so their children will naturally not queue up.

Children have read a lot of etiquette knowledge in books and on TV, and parents have also read and talked about it with their children, but if they are not linked to daily life, these are just beautiful "stories" and have nothing to do with real education.

If the parents themselves do not care about etiquette, then it is difficult for the child to become a nurturing person.

Because children's family etiquette is generally developed before the age of 3; Children's social etiquette is generally developed before the age of 6; At this stage, children's etiquette mainly comes from learning from their parents.

When they reach primary school, parents originally think that school can teach their children well, but in fact, at this age, children's etiquette habits are basically stereotyped, and it is very difficult to change.

Cultivate children's etiquette with patience and take it one step at a time.

The four basic principles of etiquette: respect, observance, self-discipline, and moderation.

Respect. The premise of etiquette is respect, and only one's own heartfelt body and verbal expression can truly show the respect of the other party, and at the same time, it is also the respect for one's own culture. With this premise in mind, we can begin to move on to the next step.

Abide by. Do not do to others what you do not want to do to yourself, Wang Lu's truth, everyone has heard it. When etiquette is institutionalized, subdividing the different etiquette required for multiple occasions, and both parties consciously abide by the etiquette derived from the culture, it is believed that many things will become different.

Self-discipline. Consciously abide by the conventions and etiquette.

In life, what we call upbringing, age, what we have seen and heard, has not been long, and in the precipitation of the years, it has evolved into a special noun called temperament. The cultivation of good habits, the restraint of desires, the good accumulation of things that are not used to but help the growth of goals, and the transformation of body and consciousness in self-discipline may be able to create a better self.

Moderation. It's not just about etiquette, it's not just about etiquette, it's too much to apply to most things. Everything needs to be measured, and nitpicking is definitely a minus.

Moderate etiquette can show a person's temperament, upbringing, and spiritual level. But if you are careful about everything, the effect may be just the opposite.

The so-called basic etiquette is to understand politeness, children understand politeness is the embodiment of good tutoring, which needs to be carefully educated from the baby when he is a child, starting from the bits and pieces of daily life, because the child's progress is extended from the bits and pieces, and these social etiquette and good habits of life do cultivate more effective from actual life. Parents must do their homework in this regard, only in this way can they raise a healthy, intelligent and polite child.

1. Cultivate children's generous temperament.

In addition to contact with the family, Aunt Ajan will be shy to greet other uncles, this is because children now live in high-rise buildings, although the material conditions are good, but the scope of contact is much smaller, parents are busy with work and ignore the language communication with their children, and rarely take to broaden their horizons and contact with the new environment, so it will have a certain impact on the cultivation of children's personality.

Parents should take their children out more so that they can have more opportunities for language exercises, and they should affirm the children's good things in a timely manner, such as the children greet their uncles and aunts, and parents should also echo them in time, affirming the child's behavior, this positive response is the best and greatest encouragement for the child, and the parents are the best first teacher for the child.

2. Listen carefully to your child's demands.

When the child is young, the idea is very eccentric, what will be said when he thinks of something, but out of the cultivation of polite habits, it is also not able to blindly indulge, tell the baby when others talk can not interject This is an impolite behavior, to listen carefully when others speak, and then explain their own point of view, if there is indeed something, you can pull the corner of the parents' clothes, and the parents secretly, so that the child can understand that the conversation is carried out under the premise of respecting each other, Don't yell at your child.

3. Cultivate children's hospitality and politeness.

When the family comes to the guests, we are not to be a rude and cold little princess or a little prince, parents can use this opportunity to teach children to understand politeness, when the guests enter the door can say hello to them, if there are other babies also come together, then also know how to greet, remind the baby to take the initiative to take out their own snacks, toys and children to share, generous little baby will get a lot of appreciation, children need education and guidance most, Therefore, the education of parents always comes first.

Parents should pay great attention to it from now on, and it is important to pay attention to their words and deeds.

If the child is trained to understand politeness, parents in the process of cultivating children to understand politeness, parents should give their children more opportunities to exercise, and at the same time give children a good example, because children's learning role models are parents, if parents can do it, then children must be able to do it, and children will also be positively affected in these subtle ways. There are some babies born to search for no skin spots, but it does not mean that the child is a bad child, naughty is the child's nature, parents must do positive guidance, only in this way the child will develop in a positive way.