What should I do if someone wants to harm me? What should I do if someone harms me?

1. Speak cautiously and greet politely.

The villain is in the dark, and I am in the light. The villain usually does things with a purpose, such as deliberately saying something that leads you to reveal your secrets, deliberately saying something that angers you, so as to make you angry, and he can grab your sore feet and target you, and the goal has been achieved.

Therefore, in the face of the questioning of the villain in the workplace, what we have to do is: speak cautiously and greet politely.

Be cautious in your words, that is, don't know everything and say everything, the other party is not your friend, he just wants to take advantage of your words. If you can't say something, don't say it, and if you can, don't participate in some topics, so as not to get into trouble.

Greetings and politeness, that is, at the beginning, for the villain in the workplace, we should not take the initiative to provoke them, if you show a domineering state when you first contact him, it is easy to anger them. You know, you don't know when the villain will add salt and vinegar to the back, so avoid making it like poking a hornet's nest.

As a risky behavior, we can keep a low profile, just say polite greetings, and don't provoke them.

Stretch out your hand and don't hit the smiling person, so as to give the other party an illusion, so that they will think that you do not regard him as an enemy, then he will not calculate you casually.

2. Don't make deep friends, but don't break off friends.

For the villains in the workplace, we should not have close contact with them, and it is impossible to have deep friendships. However, don't break off your friendship with them, otherwise it will only deepen their hostile relationship with you, and they are trying to frame you all the time, which is really asking for trouble.

My colleague Brother Ming recently encountered an annoyance.

He didn't know who he had offended, and his annual fare reimbursement was actually reported to the ears of the big boss. You must know that the department has an unspoken rule that each employee can be reimbursed 1,000 yuan for the fare, which is tacitly approved by the department leader, and everyone does it.

Unexpectedly, Brother Ming just submitted the reimbursement application, and he was reported after a while. Even the department leaders were embarrassed, so they had to take Brother Ming and deduct part of the bonus as a punishment, and also give a good explanation to the big boss.

Looking back now, Brother Ming has palpitations. It turned out that Brother Ming had openly opposed an old employee before, and everyone knew that the old employee had a bad heart and often framed others, he was a safe and secure villain, and no one dared to offend him.

But the upright Brother Ming didn't like it, and directly scolded him publicly, but the other party's power was too great, and he recruited a group of people to squeeze out Brother Ming, and always tried to set up a situation to frame him, which was revenge for Brother Ming.

In terms of interpersonal communication, the superficial work still needs to be done, after all, everyone works in the same environment, and there is no need to make the relationship too rigid. Therefore, when dealing with villains in the workplace, we don't have deep friendships, but we don't break off friendships, just maintain a sense of balance, and in such a relationship, because the villains don't have too much conflict with you, they won't calculate against you behind your back.

3. Improve yourself and enhance your influence.

In the mixed workplace, the emphasis is on strength and status. If you have the strength and the right to speak, the villain will not dare to touch half of your hair.

People are like to pick soft persimmons to pinch, and when you have a strong aura, extraordinary strength,

Calm self-restraint: People have different cultivation qualities, but when others are malicious to themselves, they must be calm, learn to restrain themselves, don't try to be happy for a while, or let out a bad breath, they will be angry, argue with each other, and even scold, and in the end make themselves feel worse.

Ignore and stay away from each other: Others are malicious to themselves, just know it in their hearts, as long as they are not hurt or lost, then let the other party live their mouths and ignore such people.

Find a time to talk: If the other party is malicious against you more than once, then you can't bear it anymore, you can't calm down, and then pretend to be confused.

Someone wants to kill you, then there must be some tracks, and then there is some evidence, you collect the evidence that he killed you, and then go to the public security bureau and don't call 110110 is in charge of public security, unless that person does something to you and wants to kill you, then you call 110, they have to take care of it, like this, it is best to go to the public security bureau to report the evidence when you get evidence.

You already know that someone wants to harm you, and there are many measures you can take, either hide from it, or call the police, or you know the reason why he wants to harm you, just correct it. Now is a society with a legal system, how can it be so easy to harm a person.

If someone wants to harm you, you can choose to call the police, if you don't want to call the police, then you can choose to avoid him, go to a place where he can't find it, or install monitoring at home to protect yourself.

Someone is trying to harm you. What is he trying to do to you? And how can he harm you? Psychosodic bar! There is no hatred in the world for no reason, he hates you to the core, and he wants to harm you. So, what did you do to him?

You have to calm down and think about it. If you do something sorry for others, others carry the psychology of revenge. You can apply for a writ of habeas corpus before it harms you. Of course, you need to have enough reason.

If someone wants to harm you, you can call the police in a dangerous situation, and self-defense is the right of each of us.

If someone really wants to hurt you. Words that threaten your life. The best thing to do is to call the police. Let the law protect you.

If you are sure that someone is really trying to kill you and there is enough evidence, you can choose to call the police and the police will help you.

If your situation is true, please report to the police or go to the local police station as soon as possible, just in case.

You jump out of the circle, that is, you stand outside the circle of the small interest group you are in, or even the whole society.

Lang Lang Qiankun, there are people who are bold enough to harm others, is there no royal law? So if you are suspicious, you should get the evidence as soon as possible and report it to the police. Besides, you also have to think about whether you are overly nervous and stressed, so that you can't bear it, imagine what will happen after that.

So what is going on? If it's a joke, then laugh it off, if it's a little sober threat, you have to rely on a friend to help, if it's serious. Just call the police.

Bring a tape recorder, install a monitor, and find someone to accompany you in and out.

If there is evidence, go and report it.

If it's a workplace dispute, change companies.

Rich? With a little money, buy a train ticket casually, pay attention to whether there is any tracking, and if not, find a place to rent a house and work. I feel like I'm going home after it's over.

Someone wants to harm you, you can call the police immediately if you have evidence!

Since someone wants to harm you, you just need to find good evidence and call the police for the police to deal with.

Use the law to protect yourself, and if you endanger your life, you should call the police in time, and you can't take too many actions.

Now that you know, stay away and be prepared, so you can run away at any time.

Don't do bad things, don't be afraid of ghosts knocking on the door. Why would anyone harm you? Find out why you want to do it first. It is best to be able to resolve it.

Someone wants to harm you, get the evidence and call the police immediately!

Then call the police! The police will definitely keep you safe.

You can call the police and seek legal protection, but you will only accept it if you have a basis.

As long as you have conclusive evidence, you can call the police.

Life is impermanent, you will meet all kinds of people, not everyone can be friendly to us, so do not look at everyone with kindness, and don't expect too much from them is also to protect yourself.

If someone is always targeting you, you can empathize with why others bully you, whether it is because you seem to be easier to bully, if it is because of this, you must establish your own sense of self-protection, and never tolerate things that touch the bottom line.

For others, see the following methods:

Clause. 1. Keep a distance from the villain, don't lose control of your emotions because of being provoked by the villain, smart people with high emotional intelligence will never get angry because the villain is always aimed at themselves, because these villains like to take advantage, they use some very insidious and cunning means and skills to target you and exclude you, so if you can keep your distance from the villain, they will naturally recognize the gap between themselves and you, and even begin to restrain their behavior in the future work, You can use this method to treat your colleagues and villains who are always challenging you.

Clause. Second, show the evidence so that colleagues or villains have no place to be ashamed, everyone should remember, when confronting the villain, do not compromise, because these villains always intensify their provocation of you in public places, which is inevitable, if smart people can work in the company, in public to present evidence, colleagues and leaders will also be very convinced of you, and those colleagues who are not accustomed to the villain's style will naturally argue with the villain, and those villains will naturally be embarrassed, so everyone should remember, Don't be casually lost in the company, and when you are challenged by leaders or villains, you should also make your position clear.

Clause. Third, let the villain realize that your status and rights are much higher than him, so that the villain will not think that you are a good bully of the honest man, there are many good people, and there is not enough sense of presence in the company, so the villain will take the initiative to provoke the honest man, and even clean up the honest man, resulting in the honest man isolated, but if you can get the appreciation of the leader in getting along with the leader, and even when working with colleagues, get the support of colleagues, then you will naturally respond. Many colleagues will take the initiative to compete with the villain, and your status or handling style will naturally be able to influence more other colleagues in the workplace, and those who are small will also begin to restrain their behavior.

When others want to harm you, the first thing to do is to find the right way to protect you as much as possible, and I personally think that everything in the world has a cause and effect, a person will never have anything to do with you, and there are no two people who have never known each other and want to harm you for no reason, such a problem arises, first of all, you should not be too afraid, to figure out the reason why the other party wants to harm you.

If it is caused by your own mistake or a momentary mistake, then the best way is to find a way to communicate with the other party, sincerely apologize to the other party, and get the other party's understanding, which can offset the resentment in the other party's heart for you to a large extent, and naturally this dangerous idea for you will gradually disappear, and you don't need to worry about this person continuing to harm you.

If you don't do anything to hurt the other party, but just because the other party wants to get the benefits he needs from you and other things that interest you intentionally want to harm you, and in this case, even if you want to avoid this conflict and contradiction, it is difficult to do, then what you can do is first of all to muster up the courage to build self-confidence and dare to face the other party's harm and challenges to you, on the other hand, you must also make full use of wisdom, combined with your own reality, to find the right way to deal with it, Many times, when faced with threats, we just blindly act brutely, courage alone is not enough, or we need to have a certain amount of wisdom, so that we can really solve the problem.

There are many ways, the most important thing is not to be afraid: 1, stay away from him, he will naturally restrain when he feels bored! 2, talk to him sincerely and maybe it will resolve the contradiction!

3. When he violates your principle bottom line, you have to show your attitude, and I'm angry that you do this! Learn to say no, too! 4. Don't give in in front of interests, let him understand that you are not easy to bully!

You also have principles and money! 5. Usually speak loudly, don't be alone, change yourself a little rougher! In short, don't be afraid, combine the above points and add some wisdom to deal with it!

As the saying goes, it's easy to dodge open guns and hard to defend against dark arrows, and in the workplace, you are not afraid of being in public.

Give us a trick, at least.

Those who can look for trouble openly and openly.

It's not a villain; I'm afraid of some people.

Cold arrows are put in the ground, and people and animals are harmless on the surface.

It's so good with you, turn around and it's right behind you.

Stab the knife, and the bad things are done.

1.Adhere to principles and do not make concessions in the face of interests.

Villains are often hypocritical and cunning, gentle and friendly in appearance, and very kind to others, waiting for trust to gain trust.

You can sell you for profit without hesitation, so once you find out that someone treats you like this, you don't have to be polite, insist on doing your own thing, stick to your own principles, and don't let the villain.

Take advantage, don't make concessions in front of interests, and pretend to be confused for small interests.

2.Soft-heartedness can't make a big deal, dare to fight back.

We always talk about how hateful it is to laugh at people, but in real life, it is precisely because.

Our "connivance", the little ones will.

More and more rampant.

3.If you are brave and strategic, you will plan.

Some villains still don't repent even if you have given them a chance, so you don't need to say more, just knock him down so that he has no chance to hurt you again.

We can use some small strategies, for example, if he likes to report to the leader to a small report, you will plan to release some false news, and the leader will be suspicious of him when he hears that he always reports false content, and then.

You can seize this opportunity and kill him with one blow, so that he no longer has the ability to do bad.