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Haha, your mother is somewhat similar to my mother, I have also had these thoughts of yours, and I still feel this way, her ruthlessness makes me often embarrassed, and even I have a cold war with her, but in politeness and respect, I don't want to say this to her, after all, she is my mother, I can't change, I thank her for giving me life, thank her for taking care of me, all out of gratitude, but I know that she is not as perfect as I imagined, as you said, your mother often says about you, doesn't give you face, and even hurts your self-esteem, but she must have taken care of it, you will definitely say that I am also the kind of person who says to the elders, I don't understand you, I want to say, you should tell her what you think, that is, to express to her, you are growing, you need some space, it is for your own growth, your relationship and anxiety are hindering me, I also have self-esteem and good face, I hope you can also understand my feelings, I am not a child, when I say this, it means that I am growing up, and gradually developing like you, You have to express your thoughts in objective words, you can't be too impatient, if your writing is okay, it's this to write a letter, it's good, if it doesn't work, you tell me again, I'm helping you, okay!? Say what you think as much as you can! Come on, waiting for your good news!
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You can't really think about it...
Mom is your mom after all...
She was the one who gave you this life...
You should communicate directly with your mother, both of you are holding back the conflict will intensify, try to communicate with your mother well
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You also know that this is if, you also understand that this is impossible, in short, life still has to go on like this, look at yourself so old This is her credit, without her there is no you, so no matter what she does, you have to learn to accept your fate, life is your own, live happily, why bother to make yourself unhappy because of other people's faults.
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Hello dear, in this case, there are several reasons. One, your mother often preaches to you, which makes you feel disgusted with her in your heart. In fact, she is for your good in the future.
Second, your mother may be very strict with you. You don't understand your mother, but she is actually trying to make your life perfect. Three, mom always nagging endlessly, making you feel uncomfortable.
Actually, this is the reason why the two of you don't communicate much, and Mom says it over and over again because she doesn't understand something.
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22:20 (Friday)
My nickname] cindy
My golden sentence] solve the problem when you encounter it, and escape is not the solution.
My Story] is half a good article. A good topic can attract a large number of readers for you.
Your Choice] Mother's Love.
Alternative Title 1] The little thing my mother took me to get an injection.
Alternative Title 2] My mom wasn't the best mom in the world.
Alternative Title 3: Mom made me cry, how could it.
Your favorite] My mom isn't the best mom in the world.
Reason for recommendation] It looks more attractive at first glance and can arouse the interest of readers.
Heading 2 uses words such as "best" to stimulate the reader's sense of need to read.
Title three arouses the reader's curiosity and is eager to know what is going on between us.
The original text is as follows, it was written in a hurry yesterday, and I didn't have time to change it today.
In my memory, my mother rarely greeted me in person, often seeing others, and sometimes wondering why it wasn't me.
It was a Sunday, around 3 p.m., I went home every other week, as usual, took a shower and packed up my things to get ready to go to school, I suddenly felt my ** itching, thinking about whether it would stop itching, and I was afraid of what to do if I itched badly at school.
At that time, my father was not at home, but accompanied my sister in the hospital, all the labor at home was carried by my mother, and I had been carrying it for a year, taking care of the family's farm work and providing a few of us to study, during that time I also found that I rarely talked to my mother, I felt estranged, and I felt sorry for my mother It was very hard, I didn't know how I could comfort my mother, and I was afraid to talk about sadness, so I could only silently follow behind to help my mother.
Our family is very subtle in the expression of love, I didn't understand it when I was a child, but the day I understood, gratitude, tears, and love filled my heart with warmth, and it was warm for a long, long time. Finally, I mustered up the courage to say softly, "Mom, my ** itching", and after that, I felt my voice tremble slightly, a kind of tremor to cry. Mom also said calmly, is it itchy, then go for an injection, I don't know what to do when I go to school, I'll ride a bicycle and go to you for an injection.
My eyes were already red, but I tried my best to suppress them from being discovered by my mother. So my mother went to a neighbor's house to borrow a bicycle, and I rode a relative's car, and my mother rode one, so I went to the neighboring village health center to get an injection.
At that time, we were reluctant to buy an electric car, my mother was reluctant to learn to ride my father's motorcycle, disgusted that it was too big, too heavy and noisy, and my father was not at home, so my mother had to put down her farm work and ride a bicycle to accompany me to get an injection.
Saying goodbye to my mother and going to school, my mind kept playing back my mother to me, thinking about it and crying, it turned out that my mother loved me and was good to me. Thank you Mom.
When I went home, I found that my mother had more wrinkles and was old, and I slowed down when I thought of this, and the reluctance in my heart could not resist the passage of time, and I love you too, Mom.
Think about it, in the world, how can a mother not love her children?
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If your mother didn't let you starve and freeze, and gave everything she could to love you and protect you. Then your mom is really a good mom. As long as it is good for children, they are good mothers.
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As the saying goes, the mother is not ugly, the dog is not poor, there is no one in the world who does not love her children, and the mother will always be a good mother in the heart of her son.
In fact, it is said that mother's love is the greatest, after all, your mother gave you life, some things are still necessary to endure, I don't know what your family, your father and grandparents have attitudes, and grandparents, since you are also independent, you can also not rely on your mother, just go out by yourself, what are the troubles to talk to your confidant, or have your own way of venting, in fact, I would rather believe that there is no mother who does not love her children, she looks for you after all, she has you in her heart, no matter how you say that you are also the meat that fell from her body, If there are no mistakes in principle, forgive your mother, find a way to vent that suits you, and don't quarrel with your mother. Well, personal opinion, if you really can't stand your mother, don't see it, the road is your own.
There's really no way to meet such a mother, I sympathize with you. But children do not have the right to choose their parents. Although you can't change her, but how to say that she is also your mother, you can go to college in another city, or even work... >>>More
Give her a long letter written by herself, and say what she wants to say to her; If you're already working, buy her something she likes, and if you're still a student, study hard and give her a beautiful transcript in the big exam
You shouldn't forgive, but while you don't forgive, find out why your mom did that, is it because she and your dad didn't have feelings from the beginning, and the person she was with was the one she loved? It's not surprising that women sometimes do something unreasonable for love, I think you still have to figure it out before deciding what to do, if your mother is really that excessive, I think you should leave her with your father, to know that your father is innocent, and you should also make it clear to your mother, say that she hurt you by doing that, forgive her if she repents, and leave her if she is obsessed!
Well, don't rush that now. There are some things you have to understand, he doesn't know about your plastic surgery, right? If you really marry him, if the child you give birth to is like you, it will be the same as you before (you before plastic surgery), your boyfriend doesn't mind, and it's hard to ensure that your boyfriend's mother doesn't mind, I used to see such a story, about a woman who made herself like a fairy because of her inferiority complex, and as a result, she gave birth to a child like herself, and her mother-in-law felt so strange and found out that she had plastic surgery, and it was inevitable that it would be a mother-in-law and daughter-in-law war. >>>More