The older you get, the more you like simplicity

1. Character.

When he was young, he was quiet and introverted, and he didn't like to be public.

As I get older, I become more open-minded about many things""Lose the east, harvest the mulberry""The principle of doing things, make yourself more casual and comfortable.

No longer push yourself like when you were younger, and focus all your energy on interpersonal communication and career success. Talking less and not liking to go out is a return to nature.

2. Self-loss.

Some people are accustomed to being respected and treated with special courtesies because they have held important positions in the unit, and they take a back seat.

Or the contrast of retirement, not liking to talk and going out, which is a special case in the process of adaptation.

Maybe some people will be able to return to their original state of talking and laughing after this stage, and some people will live in seclusion as the norm of life from now on.

3. Personal hobbies.

Many people gave up their hobbies and majors in the process of struggle for their careers and families when they were young, and now with the stability of these two, they have begun to continue to realize their youth dreams.

Resuming some hobbies such as reading, calligraphy, painting, and playing chess, and studying hard, naturally became silent, and also reduced the energy in other aspects.

4. The network is developed.

With the advent of the Internet age, access to information has become more convenient and rapid, and the wonderful world on the Internet has not only attracted young people, but also opened a window to the world for the elderly.

Therefore, the emptiness and loneliness that they can only eliminate by chatting or going out have been replaced by fullness, and they can naturally talk less and talk less, and going out is not so necessary.

5. Physical and experience factors.

As I get older, I not only lose the vigor and drive of my youth, but also my physical fitness.

It's also declining year by year, and my physical strength can't keep up, so I naturally don't want to go out anymore.

There are also people who travel from south to north when they are young, because of their work or hobbies to read countless beautiful scenery, and as they grow older, they feel that the attraction of the outside scenery is not so great, and they just want to enjoy life quietly at home.

The older he gets, the more he becomes quiet, the older he is, the richer his life experience, the more he knows how to better make his life more qualitative, and the older he will change.

This is indeed the case, because as we grow older, our preferences may also change to a certain extent, so this is a normal psychological condition, which is also a true existence.

Yes, people will become more and more mature as they grow older, and the things they used to like may no longer like them when they grow up.

It will become, because of the more I have experienced, it will become different from before.

At the age of 31, it is not too big, but it is not too small. In recent years, as I get older, I have become more and more fond of simplicity.

I don't want to gossip about other people's private lives, I don't want to speculate about the meaning of the leader's words, and I don't want to get involved in those things that "fight openly and secretly", I just want to live a simple life.

Perhaps, people like me are "unambitious"!

No way, people's personalities determine a lot of things, if you don't like it, you don't like it, you can't pretend to be it.

I don't like that kind of life.

For me, I just want to do what I have to do and have a clear conscience.

Have more time to write, read books, exercise, and try to empty yourself so that your tired heart can have a place to rest.

Spend more time with your parents, husband and children, and don't leave yourself with too many regrets.

People live not only to live, but to live seriously and diligently, happily and healthily.

As the saying goes, one person, one world, one tree, one Bodhi.

The same is true for human character, there are no two people in the world who have exactly the same personality, even if they are twins who are siblings, the personalities are not the same.

In the past, I was an introverted and impatient person, a little little thing will make a big move, anxious face red neck thick, even thunderous, but also very nagging, love to find reasons and excuses, instead of looking for solutions, knowing that these bad characters are fatal shortcomings for me, but I want to change but I can't change it, which is also a portrayal of the easy to change nature.

In recent years, I have found that my temper has become smaller unconsciously, and some people have seen it openly, I don't do what I don't like, I don't have deep friendships with people I don't like, and some people and things are not worth worrying about with them.

Before, I didn't like to travel at all, because I was afraid of spending money, and I was afraid of being tired, and sometimes I was annoying. It is said that it is better to see the scenery than to listen to the scenery, and I have a deep understanding of this feeling. I was excited the day before the tour, and I was very happy with the scenery when I actually set off with the coach, but when I actually arrived at my destination, I was disappointed.

People who understand tourism see the connotation of scenic spots, and in my eyes, except for some flowers and plants, I feel that there is nothing rare. Especially for those places of interest, in my stupid eyes are tattered things, although the tour guide is there to explain patiently, but I don't listen to it at all, insiders watch the doorway, laymen see the excitement, and I don't even want to see the excitement. I just want him to finish quickly, get to the next destination quickly, and then go home quickly.

And now I have a different view of travel, I hope that I can walk around in the future, appreciate the great rivers and mountains of the motherland, feel the ever-changing history through the ancient and modern times, experience the meaning of life in my lifetime, listen to my inner voice, and be my true self.

These changes in personality are inseparable from the path they have traveled, the books they have read and the subtle influence of the people around them.

There is a good saying, habits can be used to change the character, character determines fate, although now older, but feel more energetic than before the trouble, healthier, more happy, the trajectory of life is also quietly developing in the direction of their own predetermined good, I believe that through their own efforts life will be better and better, thanks to their own growth.

1.Reshaping of relationships: As people age, their social circles may change.

They may place more emphasis on building deep friendships and intimate relationships with people who are meaningful to them. They may be more focused on connecting with family, partners, close friends, and realize the importance of relationships for happiness and fulfillment.

2.Increased awareness of career development: As they grow older and gain professional experience, many people pay more attention to their career beginnings.

They may pay more attention to their long-term career plans, look for jobs with challenging and development opportunities, and focus more on their professional development and value-added.

3.Health and lifestyle attention: After the age of 25, people may pay more attention to their health and lifestyle.

They are aware of the importance of maintaining good physical health and mental health and may begin to focus more on diet, exercise, rest, and mental balance to improve quality of life and long-term well-being.

This may include professional responsibilities, family responsibilities, financial responsibilities, and social and environmental responsibilities. They begin to be more mature in dealing with life's challenges and commitments, and strive to be the person they want to be.

5.Time management and goal setting: After the age of 25, people are more clear about their goals and start to pay more attention to time management. They will be more structured about their time to achieve their goals in terms of career, family, study, and personal development.

6.Self-awareness and maturity: As people age, their awareness and maturity also improve. They may be more rational, thoughtful, more aware of their strengths and weaknesses, and more aware of their life goals and values.

Yes, when he was a child, he liked it probably because he was young and had not yet formed a deep understanding of feelings and interpersonal relationships, so he was easily attracted to the superficial characteristics of the other party. In addition, the liking when you are a child may also be influenced by the family and social environment, such as the image created in TV, movies, ** and other Wenqi Ming products.

As people grow older and accumulate social experience, people's perception of feelings and relationships will also change. However, sometimes childhood likes are still deeply imprinted in our memories, why is this happening?

On the one hand, the love when I was a child was often a simple emotion, and I didn't go through the trials and tribulations of life, so it felt more pure and real. This simple emotion will be deeply engraved in people's memories.

On the other hand, the love of childhood is often a beautiful reverie that has a unique meaning for us. Even when we meet each other again when we grow up, we can't help but think of that good time, and this emotion will be unforgettable.

In short, Xiaoling's liking may be left in our memories because of pure emotions and beautiful reverie. Although age and changes in life experience can affect our perception and understanding of feelings, the love we like when we are young is still a beautiful part of our life and is worth cherishing and remembering.