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To be honest, I read what you wrote, and I feel that women like you are not very good. On the one hand, it's cheap, obviously he doesn't like you, and he always wants to break up with you and still pester him. On the other hand, your temper is too big, and girls are not gentle at all.
You know you're angry when he scolds you, so how does he feel when you lose your temper with him when you see him?
He hit you, you know it's not comfortable, but you hit him first on the road, have you ever thought about his feelings? If you're slapped in the face on the street, you're going crazy! You don't have to do anything scary, you don't want to fight back when you hit someone?
You're unreasonable. Do you know how sad it is to be beaten? Then why are you still going to hit people?
Slapping people in the face is the most rude, and there is a saying that hitting people doesn't slap their faces. You slap him in the face like this, what man can stand this kind of disrespect? Since he is from the countryside and your family is from the city, he can't stand this kind of anger.
In his eyes, he thinks: You think that you are a city man who seems to be superior to him, and his dignity as a man cannot stand it. Don't think that rural people can be bullied by city girls casually.
In addition, he may have his reason for turning off his mobile phone, as soon as you see him, you should first ask him what is going on, why do you shout to him indiscriminately as soon as you come up?
I say this to you, and you have to accept it! I mean it well, because I've had this experience before, and I'm just like you. As a result, I ended up losing him.
My guy is from the countryside and doesn't have much higher education, so when I was with him, I didn't like him in many ways, and I criticized him when I was angry, and sometimes I beat him. Although he didn't fight back, his heart was very sad. Later I knew, but we broke up.
If you don't change your temper, you'll have to get a divorce even if you get married! If you don't change it, you won't be able to stand it if you find another boyfriend in the future.
Let's examine ourselves. The only thing I see here is what you wrote, and I can see what's wrong with you, and if you see what he wrote, you don't have to be so bad!
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The two of you are not suitable for being together, and you are both so angry, unless one of you changes his temper, but it is unlikely.
I beat and scolded before marriage, how do I live this day after marriage. Is this still called a relationship? I don't feel that he loves you, and I can't do that to you, even though the pressure of work will increase his temper. Although he is honest, that alone is not enough to make you soft-hearted and stay with him.
You also have to summarize your shortcomings, you also have problems.
Talk to him, and if things get better in the future, forget it. If you can't, give up early, and you'll all go crazy.
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I think you have to come to this question, why? Because others don't understand your feelings. If you are usually a pair of lovers who love each other very much, and he is considerate of you in every way, and he is deeply afraid that you will be hurt a little, it means that your boyfriend really loves you, and he hugged you and slept all night, not without ideas, but he is afraid that his impulses will hurt you, he is restraining himself, it is out of love for you, and there are not many men like this now, you have to cherish it.
But if you are usually plain, and he is also hot and cold to you, then you have to find another way out, maybe he no longer loves you. Not even the instinctive impulse of a man is gone.
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Break up with him, a man only beats a woman for the first time and then beats him a second time, read what you wrote, he really doesn't deserve you like this, the world is so big, why bother to be tired of him anymore? Find another boyfriend, find someone who loves you, don't find someone you love!
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If only one man hits a woman for the first time, there will be a second and third ......What are you still nostalgic for such a man?
You live in his shadow and think you're nothing without him, but is that really the case?
You are still studying, you are not sure about the future, and now you have to set your head early and spend your life in arguing and scolding with a man who has no future? Getting married and having children is a very happy thing for a woman, but if it is such a man, have you ever thought about what to do with children? With such a father, is he or she likely to be happy?
What about yourself, stupid woman who can't think of it, heh......
Please be kind to yourself ......
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2nd Floor I agree with what you said, this is also a man?
Women are meant to be protected and loved, not beaten like he is.
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Since you're a couple, do you care about that money? It's not all 2 people in the future.。。。
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There are many good men, why bother to hang themselves from a tree.
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I didn't know much about it when I was young, but I was sure that the man was careful.
And he hit you? I have the right for you not to be nice to him, and it is not necessary that he will be domestic violence in the future.
I support the 3rd floor after 1 play, and it may not be there!
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A pair of nerds who don't know what emotions are at all! Pathetic!
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It's not like a man.
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Find a boyfriend who loves you and you love.
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Summary. Hello, when my boyfriend said that he was really sad this time, what happened? You can reply like this:
I'm sorry, I was wrong, I said something that shouldn't have been said, it made you very sad, you told me what I can do to make up for the damage done to you, no matter what you ask, I will definitely accommodate you. When a boy and a girl fall in love, it is normal to have conflicts, but never say anything that hurts each other, and must understand and tolerate each other, so that they can get along for a long time.
When my boyfriend said that I was really sad this time.
Hello, when my boyfriend said that he was really sad this time, what happened? You can reply like this: I'm sorry, I was wrong, I said something that shouldn't have been said, it made you very sad, you tell me what I can do to make up for the damage done to you, no matter what you ask, I will definitely meet you.
When a boy and a girl fall in love, it is normal to have conflicts, but never say anything that hurts each other, and must understand and tolerate each other, so that they can get along for a long time.
The other party does not reply to messages.
Or Aries.
You can kiss him directly.
Explain it clearly in person.
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Your boyfriend always makes you feel wronged, and you naturally want to break up with each other, the person who loves you will not let you be wronged, only the person who is not loved will be cautious and suffer from gains and losses. If being wronged becomes a habit, you will become more and more humble in the relationship, and you must break up with the other person as soon as possible to find someone who is truly worth cherishing you.
Someone who loves you will not let you be wronged
In the process of love, one party feels that he has been wronged, to put it bluntly, he does not feel loved in this relationship. People who truly love will pay attention to every little detail in their lives and are eager to take care of your life properly. The people who love you will pay attention to you, every move in life, and will take care of all your feelings, and will never let you feel wronged.
For those who love you, it is more sad to see you wronged than to be wronged yourself.
If you are not loved, you will suffer from gains and losses
Some people are with you and are willing to give you the status of girlfriend, but they just don't want to cherish you. Sometimes he will be very good to you, but more often it makes you feel that you are suffering from gains and losses, even if you are wronged, he does not feel anything, but thinks you are hypocritical. Such people just use you as a tool to fill your loneliness, and they don't really want to have a future with you.
He doesn't love you enough, that's why he will let you suffer a lot of grievances, gains and losses, he only cares about himself, so he never cares about your feelings.
Good love should make each other better people
Even if you and your boyfriend are genuinely in love, in a relationship, always being wronged will only make you more and more humble. And you will become less and less confident in this relationship, and even cringe. Either way, being in love is about making each other happier and about making both of you better people.
If you are unhappy in this relationship, no matter how much you love the other person, you must separate from him. Life is short for a few decades, why do you have to wronged yourself, maybe you can find a more suitable person after leaving.
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should break up with the other party, and the other party makes him feel particularly wronged, which shows that the other party will not pay attention to his thoughts at all in life, will not care about his own affairs, and will not understand his own character.
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You can have a good talk with him, if he can recognize his mistakes and correct them in time, then don't break up, if he still goes his own way and doesn't care about your grievances, then break up as soon as possible.
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Two people are together, to be considerate of each other, to calm down and think rationally about whether it is their own glass heart, or really the other party does not love themselves, if the other party really does not love themselves, then resolutely break up, no matter whether others love themselves or not, they must love themselves, but if it is their own glass heart, you can change it yourself.
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should break up, because two people are not very suitable, so there will be such a feeling, there is no need to force it.
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<> this case, you still have to bow your head and take the initiative to admit your mistakes to him, whether it is marriage or love, everyone is equal. You can't make people too sad, from sadness to despair, and then there will be something you regret.
If you are in a bad mood, you must learn to adjust yourself, not let it develop. Your boyfriend will be the one who will accompany you for a lifetime, you can't use him as a punching bag, let him accompany him if you want him, and ruthlessly abandon him when you don't want him. It's too realistic for you to do this, after all, you advocate equality for all, and you don't feel good in your heart when you do this.
You should comfort him more when people are sad, and you won't be so disappointed if you can give him a reward in the end. If you know how to cook, it's the best, make it delicious for him by yourself, if it is I, I will also be impressed, of course, it would be best if I could give him a kiss. It's good for you to calm down in everything.
Many people tend to be impulsive again and again when they encounter things, which is obviously not right. In particular, women are often emotional and impulsive, and they do things they don't want to do when their heads are hot, and in the end they have nothing. Therefore, you should keep the negative side for yourself and the good side for others, including your boyfriend.
It's not that boyfriend and girlfriend have to be romantic when they are together, everything must be reasonable. You can talk together on weekends or other breaks, and you can express your gratitude to each other over dinner. If there is a problem, we have to find a way to solve it, rather than constantly breeding big problems.
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It is inevitable that there will be a bad mood and make your boyfriend sad, when he is cold, at this time, you can take the initiative to admit your mistakes with him, sell cute and coquettish, and engage in some fun, for example, a sentence "Husband, I was wrong" probably most boys will not be able to stand it, if it is useless to be coquettish and cute, you can invite him to dinner, buy him what he likes for a long time and please him, admit his mistake by the way, explain to him why he is cold to him, etc.
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Both parties in love should be based on emotional equality, when the woman confirms that it is her own fault, she should lower her posture appropriately, apologize, admit her mistake, and at the same time cooperate with body language, such as patting each other's shoulders and kissing each other. Adopting some more practical methods may be more reflective of your true intentions and more impressing, such as cooking for him, cooking a meal, and giving him some gifts. Take care of him and be mindful of your way of doing things so you don't hurt him again because of it.
In addition, men and women are the same, they will also be sad and sad, we should also coax, the relationship is managed by both parties, and: 1Talking and doing things should be over the brain Girls always speak more straight when they are in a bad mood, and they may often say hurtful things when they are excited in the process of quarrels or quarrels.
So every time you speak, you have to go through your brain to know what you can't say and shouldn't say. 2.Empathy If you want a healthy relationship, you must know how to empathize.
If a relationship wants to develop healthily and for a long time, it must be mutually understanding, tolerating and trusting each other in the process of getting along. If you just force the other person to follow your wishes based on your own thoughts, or do things without considering the other person's feelings, this kind of relationship will only make the other person feel suffocated.
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Adjust your mentality, give your happy side to each other, and at the same time explain the situation to your boyfriend, hoping that he can understand, so that you will be happier together in the future.
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First of all, I am a man, if I am sad, I really, I really want someone to comfort me, whether he agrees or not, you just need to let him know that you love him, he is not alone! You will accompany him, this is enough, really, the man is also fragile at this time, you care about him, he will remember you "fiercely"! I won't forget you!
Well, it's good to give him a hug, kiss him, it depends on what the situation is, just be appropriate for yourself, believe you know, well, okay, that's it, if there is any question to ask, just believe in yourself! Come on! Thank you!
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Don't be sad, for such a person, it's not worth it, there are many good men in the world, kick him away and find a new one.
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