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If you don't have children, you won't have to be miserable when you're old, and people who don't have children are just as happy as couples, and if you're not married, as long as you're always traveling and looking for happiness with your friends, you'll not be miserable or you can go to a nursing home to find some wives when the time comes.
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People who don't have children, will they be miserable when they get old? In fact, it is not necessarily, if you have a salary, even if you have no children, you can go to some nursing homes with better conditions when you are old, and you can also spend your old age in peace.
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No, people who don't have children now will have mobile phones in the future, what do you want children to do?
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In fact, I personally think that if you don't have children, it's really more troublesome when you're old, after all, no one is with you, and no one cares about a major illness or a small pain.
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People who don't have children, when they are old, as long as they have a good attitude, they won't be miserable, and I think the most important thing is that when they get old, they will be lonely.
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Everyone has the right to choose their own life, people who like Dink, and people who have no children will also bear the corresponding lifestyle when they are old, which should not be described as miserable.
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It depends on what kind of person you are, some people are withdrawn, they feel that it is good to live alone in their lives, but they are affected by their partners, and such people are not suitable for having children. It's uncomfortable to have. And some people are afraid of loneliness and want to pass on some things, so don't have some regrets when the child is old, how to choose before the age of 40 at the latest to make a good decision.
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This is not necessarily, but in terms of probability, if you don't have children in this life, when you get old and old, there will be no one to take care of you, no one to care about, and you may be mentally lonely.
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It's not necessarily, it's just that there is no one to take care of you, there is no warmth, and it is definitely better to have children to take care of.
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People who do not have children can apply for a certificate for the elderly living alone, that is, a certificate for the elderly who live alone, and the state has relevant policies to subsidize basic living expenses.
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As long as there is money in this society, even if you don't want children, you won't be miserable, and you will still live a very happy life.
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Miserable is an abstract concept, not an accurate one. Can you start by saying how miserable you are? The state and local governments will improve the pension institutions.
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When you're old, walk alone in the alley. I saw that the friends who used to play together are now talking, laughing, and eating together with their children and grandchildren. When you are about to die, think about the world that will never leave your blood again, and that your unfinished road and unfinished dreams will no longer be fulfilled for you.
At that time, all that was left was full of regrets.
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The current nursing home is very well equipped! It's just a bit lonely.
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It's going to be a little, it's not worrying, it's a little bit of fun.
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Legal analysis: When people without children are old, one is to take care of their body, the other is to participate in endowment insurance and corresponding commercial insurance, and the third is to live in a nursing home or retirement community. At present, insurance + pension is a very scientific combination of a certain amount of insurance, and it is becoming a trend to allocate a certain amount of insurance and obtain the qualification to live in a high-end pension community.
People who don't have children should plan their lives well.
Legal basis: Law of the People's Republic of China on the Protection of the Rights and Interests of the Elderly
Article 3: The State is to ensure the rights and interests enjoyed by the elderly in accordance with law. Older persons have the right to receive material assistance from the State and society, to enjoy social services and preferential treatment, and to participate in social development and share the fruits of development. It is forbidden to discriminate, humiliate, abuse or abandon older persons.
Article 4 Actively responding to the aging of the population is a long-term strategic task of the State. The State and society shall take measures to improve the systems for protecting the rights and interests of the elderly, gradually improve the conditions for ensuring the life, health, and safety of the elderly, as well as for their participation in social development, so as to ensure that the elderly have access to care, medical care, work, learning, and enjoyment.
Article 5: The State shall establish a multi-level social security system to gradually increase the level of protection for the elderly. The State shall establish and improve a social pension service system based on the home, supported by the community, and supported by institutions. Advocate the whole society to give preferential treatment to the elderly.
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If you have children, half of the probability that you will be pitiful because of your child's unfilial piety when you get old. But if you don't have children, you will have a pitiful life when you are old.
Unless you can't wait for old age and die unexpectedly.
I've never been a supporter of the Dinks, couples who have the power but don't have children. Some people are forced to become Dinks because they can't afford to marry their daughters-in-law and children, and some people have to become Dinks because they can't have children because of physical illness.
But when you have a significant other, obviously have the ability, but do not want to have children for the sake of so-called freedom, such a person is selfish, ignorant, and even more pathetic.
No one can escape the reality of old-age care, or that sentence, unless you don't want to live to old age, or you can't live to old age.
Many people pin their hopes on nursing homes or others, thinking that they can save more money now and let the nursing home caregiver or nanny at home take care of their affairs in the future.
But if you don't even believe in your own children, how can you be confident that others will honestly support you in old age?
Do you want to gamble? Bet that caregivers and nannies are not greedy for their pension money, bet that they are all good people, and will not bully old and powerless old people like themselves.
There is no filial son in front of the bed for a long time, let alone outsiders.
However, nowadays, more and more young people do not want to have children and dare not have children.
Especially for women who are the main body of childbearing, they are faced with the fear of losing control of their lives at any time, and their sense of security is reduced to zero every minute.
The trade-off between family and career has always been a big problem for women. Once a woman has a child, she faces the risk of career interruption, no hope of promotion and salary increase, and a threat to future career development and income.
Our natural motherhood makes us feel that we should be a mother who takes care of our children with all our efforts, and the pursuit of self-worth makes it difficult for us to give up our careers. And no matter how we choose, it's hard to have both. There are also many mothers who have many postpartum sequelae, urine leakage, uterine prolapse, and yin wall bulge, which need to be repaired in time, and there are many mothers who do not have time to go to the Yi hospital, so they can move in the mobile phone, follow the matching plan on the system to do Kegel exercises, repair pelvic floor muscles, and improve the sequelae of postpartum urine leakage and bulging and prolapse.
Nowadays, young people value the quality of life and the sense of contentment, and the arrival of children has increased a lot of chagrin, so some people are reluctant to have children, feeling that this life is really too short, and they are not here for the sake of inheritance.
In my opinion, people who don't want to have children are likely to be miserable in their later lives, but different people have different miserable methods.
Especially for public figures, becoming a Dink has made many people agree, feeling that they have lived their own lives, and that they should not care about the old and worldly vision, how ridiculous and terrible.
Whoever wants to be a dink should not be proud of it; The world should not take Dink for granted.
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The person who loves two people really doesn't love us ourselves, but it is always inextricably linked with others, marriage and childbirth is a inheritance since ancient times, maybe not our obligation, but we also know that unfilial piety has three nos. So it's very contradictory, it's easy to see the essence of these questions, but we have to linger in these questions, feelings are two people's business, and everything needs to be discussed and communicated between the two of you. It's not easy to face problems together, explain your feelings to each other, explain your mind to each other, solve problems if you have them, if not, no one will regress or you will really separate.
In today's society, there are young people who don't want children, as parents want to open up, now young people's concept of life has changed a lot, and the autonomy of action is very strong, parents take the old traditional concept of asking children, children may not accept. It is a wise choice to follow the wishes of the child, otherwise not only can not solve the problem but also end up angry, parents at this age, more care about their own happiness and health is the right need. Unable to support having children financially, the idea of these people is that they want to live a life that is relatively beneficial to their children, but it is a little difficult to support themselves financially, resulting in them not daring to have children.
Intentionally or unintentionally, I may hear others say that the hardships of raising children are temporarily escaped, but realistically, if she has this kind of thought, it means that she is not really mature, and she is still full of expectations for the life in front of her and does not want to change the status quo.
Once she has a child, she will no longer have the sweet world of two people before, physical abnormalities or some kind of disease dare not dare to say, there are indeed such examples in life After checking out the physical abnormality, she didn't want to disturb her relatives, so she prevaricated on the grounds that she didn't want children. There are also some people who want to have children after conditioning their bodies belong to this reason, afraid of losing shape after giving birth, no matter from which point of view, the body will change greatly after giving birth, especially during lactation, can not wear beautiful clothes, many people do not want children more or less have this reason.
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No, so when you are young, you must have an economic foundation, and you must prepare a pension in advance, and you can also choose to go to a nursing home or a group pension in your old age.
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If you insist on not having children, it will not necessarily be pitiful when you are old, and now that the national pension mechanism is so good, there can be no pitiful situation, don't worry.
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Yes, when you get old, you will be very pitiful, and when you are old, you will have no one to love, and the family is very lonely, and there are no relatives and friends, so it is very pitiful.
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Anyway, many of the older people I met who lived alone regretted their decision. These people were inspired to be Dinks when they were young, and even in the future, they all thought about living in nursing homes, going to travel and so on.
But! If a person really leaves the collective life, not to mention that it is difficult for him to survive, even if he can survive, who can tell the pain, who will talk about happiness, and who will share happiness with?
Human beings are actually sensual and emotional animals, and as social "animals", reproduction is the basic work that should be done in order to maintain the future life. Only when everyone obeys the laws of nature to marry and have children will the whole world become endless. We're not talking about having a few more, in fact, it's enough to have one, and you can't afford to raise more.
If you don't have children when you're young, you will definitely lose a family affection in your old age, and you will definitely regret it because of a lack of emotion when you get old. A lot of Dinks say that if I don't have children, children won't be able to restrain me in the future. So ok, since the child can't bind you, how good it is to be single all the time, why do you have to find the other half, don't these Dinks know that the other half is also a bondage?
If you think about it like this, even if you don't have children and go to nursing homes in the future, the elderly in other nursing homes are discussing how cute and fun their grandchildren are, and how filial their children are. Only you can only listen to your pet holding yourself! Cannot participate.
People ask you why you didn't give birth to one when you were young, and you said: I am free and not restricted. In the end, only you know whether you regret it in your heart, and a hard mouth can't solve anything.
Only when two people have been together for a long time and this relationship turns into family affection, having a child will add a lot of interesting variables to the whole family. It is very happy to make the whole relatively regular family vibrant, and let the adults of the whole family grow up happily around the child and live a peaceful life.
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Yes. Because when you reach old age, you will be very lonely and have no one to rely on, so it is really pitiful.
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It is indeed very pitiful, and it is very lonely when we are old, because when we are old, we will yearn for the young time very much, and we will also like children very much.
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Of course not. As long as you have money when you are old, you can also have a good life, and the facilities of the nursing home are particularly well-equipped, so you will not feel pity.
Absolutely. Because they will be very lonely when they are old, and no one will want to talk to them, so it will be very desolate.
Yes. Whether it is fifty or sixty years old or seventy or eighty years old, how old is old, or sick, or unable to take care of oneself or stay in bed, if it is said that after the age of sixty is old, this age is the favorite old age group for young people, because you can help them take care of their children, you can cook for them, support their economic needs, if you are healthy at seventy, you can be with your children without being taken care of, you can help them cook and buy vegetables, young people can live freely, they don't have to work for the family, they can do whatever they want, When they want to come back, they will not dislike the elderly, they can be with their children, but when they can't move, they are sick, they can't do anything, they don't want to be with their children, they can't do anything for a long time, they can't do it for a long time, they have to live alone or have the conditions to find a nanny to take care of the best, if there is no condition, they will be resigned to fate, anyway, they are incapable, and they can go to the arrangement of their children, and it is better to die than to live, because the country will not provide for you. Let's choose, and when the time comes, we won't count.
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