Why can t you always let go of the people who make you jealous?

Because I care, I can't let it go.

If you don't care about a person, you won't be jealous because of him, just because you care about him, you will always be jealous of him, and you can't let go of him. People who never pay attention to their own goodness, and don't feel anything about them, but those who make themselves jealous can't let go. Because he loves this person too much, so this person's every move, every smile and smile will appear in front of his eyes, he is happy and he is happy, he is sad, you will be sad, all the moods are dominated by him, as if his soul is not his own, his mind is not his own, everything is controlled by him.

is such a person, but he always makes you jealous, and you will always feel that you can't let go of him. When one day he is with someone else, you will definitely be full of jealousy, and then, always miss him in the lonely night, silently shed tears.

You can't let go of him because you care too much about him, he occupies a very important place in your heart, and you don't want to lose him. He is the best in your heart for you. If he does something that makes you sad, you will be very sad, and the more sad you are, the more you want to forget him, but the more you can't forget him.

You are miserable because you know that he has no feelings for you at all, you often make you jealous, but you have no way to let go of him, he has left a deep mark on your heart, he is the whole world to you, and you are not willing to give up the whole world easily, if the whole world is gone, then what is the point of you being alone? That's why you never give up on her. always feels that he will not marry in this life.

The more capable people are of making themselves jealous, the less likely they are to be with themselves, and sometimes love is the saddest emotion. You love him very much, but he doesn't love you, how you want to be with him, but he never gives you a little warmth. The most important thing is to make you jealous or disappoint.

You've gotten used to spending every day in this endless disappointment, and you're used to the countless actions he makes you jealous of every day, even though you swear to forget him. But the more you want to forget, the more you can't forget, for you, he has taken root in your heart. No matter how hard you struggle, you can't get out of it.

You feel miserable and feel like you can't let go of the relationship.

People are like this, the more they can't get something, the more they want to get it, and when they get it, they will become very uncherished. So when a person makes you jealous, but you can't let go of him, it means that you really love him, but he always makes you jealous, it means that he has no feelings for you, why let yourself be unrequited? Let go of him and go and choose someone who loves you so that it is good for you and for him.

The person who can make himself jealous must be that person who is attractive enough to you, how can you let him go. People are like this sometimes, those who like themselves can pretend not to see him, and those who don't like themselves want to see him every day, and then they are jealous at every turn, knowing that the person may not belong to them, but they still have to keep him in their hearts.

You can't let go of a person, because that person has gone deep into your heart, in your heart you put him in a place you don't want to touch, even if you really can't have him, but you still want to put him in a place in your heart that no one knows, in your heart, he only belongs to you alone, and you don't have to be jealous.

Some people may say, you are self-inflicted, why should you do this! But if you like someone, sometimes you can't control yourself, when you meet someone you like, you will often be jealous inexplicably, even if he may not know that you are jealous, you may not know that you often pay attention to him silently alone, and secretly watch his dynamics in all aspects.

Even if you do everything you can for him, even if you want to, maybe he can't see what you do for him, you are jealous here, you tell yourself, don't do this again in the future, you are stubborn, but you can't do it in your heart, you still think about him, you still miss him. I couldn't think of him as good, but I cherished him like a treasure in my heart.

People like to do it, and if they don't do it, they won't die, and the more they make themselves jealous, the more they can't let go. Maybe this is the general psychology of people, what you can't get is always the best, even if you can't get it, you won't resent it too much, and you will still keep it in your heart as a spiritual pillar.

Because the person who makes you jealous is the person you care about the most, the person who hides in your heart, so you can't let go of him.

If you will let go of someone and have no concern for him, then you will not be jealous of that person; If you're not jealous of someone, then you won't be unable to let go of that person. Do you understand when I say that? There is only one reason why you can't let go and why you are jealous, you have a good impression of someone, or you can say that you are in love with someone and have someone in your heart, so you will be jealous and can't let go.

Only if you have this person in your heart, you will always remember him, want to stay with him, see other same-sex friends talking and laughing with him, you will be jealous, when he is not in your sight, you will not be able to let go of him, miss him. Speaking of which, you should know why you feel the way you do, you are in love with someone

I think the person who can make you jealous, then this person is more important in your mind. I don't like to be jealous, because I think everyone has everyone's rights and freedoms, we can't interfere, we can't be self-centered, everyone is a unique individual, we must have our own life, don't delay ourselves every day in order to take care of others, worry about others blindly, so it's not worth it. After all, each of us has our own life.

In my life, I also feel that the appearance of a few people is more important to me, so, in many things, I am also more helpless, I always feel that sometimes I am jealous of such a thing, although I am very reluctant to admit it, but my heart betrayed me.

My best friend of the opposite sex in college has a very good relationship with me, but after a long time, I always don't want to share him with others, I always want him to be with me all the time, the more I think like this, the more I feel that I can't let go of him, I always worry that one day he will not belong to me, every time, I see him talking and laughing with others, I really don't feel good in my heart, but I can't say anything, I know, no matter when, I must learn to respect others, learn to respect other people's choices, this is the best state. <>

Thinking about him in my heart, I always worry a lot about him, and it is painful to not let go of this feeling, or because I care, I clearly remember that once he left me and went back to the dormitory, saying that my roommate couldn't enter the door, I didn't talk to him because of such a thing, I always felt that he was running away from me, I told myself again and again, I can't be too selfish, can't be too possessive......

Later, I was able to face it with the right attitude, if I can't let it go, I can't let it go, just stay in my heart. Sometimes, things can't be forced, just let it be, superfluous thoughts are useless.

A normal person inevitably has seven emotions and six desires, so it's normal that you can't let go of him. Because you like him. It is precisely because you like it that you are jealous, and it is precisely because of your unwillingness and your own anger that it is even more difficult for you to let go.

So if you really like it, then go for it. If you really don't like it, then don't dwell on your gains and losses.

Everyone has the right to choose and be chosen, and people are born to yearn for good things and human beings. So it's normal for you to be jealous, it's just that this way doesn't solve any problems. There's no need to dwell on the events themselves.

For example, if you find that your own male god has a very good relationship with a girl, and the male god pays much better for him than for you, you are jealous at this time. So you took the stupidest way, directed a scene by yourself and felt like you were out of love, you went to KTV to cry wolf for an afternoon, and went to a bar to get drunk at night, heartbroken. Isn't that silly?

If you eat your own flying vinegar, does the other party have any effect? Did that girl have any effect? Does it affect you?

Yes! I was already hurt in my heart, and now I am not feeling well.

There are two sides to everything, and you don't need to worry about why your male god can't balance your previous relationship. You need to be a better version of yourself, and then even the male god is a better man will be attracted to you. What kind of level of people you want to meet, you need to mix to that level before you can meet them.

Your dedicated efforts are for a better tomorrow. Even if you lose this Prince Charming, there are more Golden Horse princes waiting for you. God will not let a hard-working person return in vain, but it may prolong the time of his test, so, since we are waiting for a good meal, are we afraid of being late?

Because the reason why he makes you jealous is because you like him, people are not fish, memory cannot only be wonderful, people's memories may be with a lifetime, and you may be an emotional person, so you will not be able to let go of him.

In this case, it means that you already like the other person very much, if the other person does not have a liking, then you should muster up the courage to pursue the other person, even if it is not successful, you will not leave yourself with regrets.

Because you have been jealous of such a person, this feeling will always be remembered, and you will never forget such a person.

Because as long as you like someone very much, you will make yourself jealous.

1. Communication: Communicating and communicating with the person you like is more important to alleviate jealousy, you can express your feelings and thoughts to the other party, and then listen to the other party's opinions, and at the same time consider the problem from the other party's point of view; 2. Cultivate hobbies: Sometimes if you pay too much attention to someone, you will be jealous.

In this case, it is recommended to cultivate your hobbies, such as dancing, playing badminton, jogging, etc., to make your life more fulfilling and give yourself and each other a certain amount of space.

The main thing is to be open-minded, open-minded, tolerant, and understand the needs of others. In this way, the problem of jealousy will not be cured. A person likes to be jealous because he has already put the other party in his heart and regarded it as a treasure, and if someone else gets close, he will be uncomfortable, unable to think about it, and sulking himself.

This does not solve the problem and can also cause health problems. You have to believe that what is yours must be yours, not yours, and it will slip off when you get it.

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