Why do people who once loved each other go to the point of mutual disgust?

Two people just fell in love with each other because they had a good relationship with each other. In the end, they get tired of each other because the good karma has been consumed by each other, and only the bad karma remains. I am tired of it, but I can't separate it because the bad relationship between each other has not ended.

When the good and bad karma are over, even if the fate between each other is exhausted, they will naturally separate.

Mainly because the two have been together for a long time, they know each other well enough, and then they no longer disguise their true temperament, all kinds of contradictions will be stimulated, and if the two don't love each other enough at this time, then the two will separate.

Maybe it's because you love each other too much, or maybe the other party has done something that you can't accept at all, so in the end you hate each other and turn into hate.

Because one of them is dying! The cultivation of feelings is not the contribution of one person, but the work of two people together in order to go on harmoniously. If only one person is tolerant and accommodating, the end result will be tired to the point of disgust!

Because there is no love anymore. When two people get along together, they lose their freshness and lose their former love.

Because people are more fickle, and they will get tired of the things or people they are familiar with, and when they slowly understand the shortcomings of the other person, they will gradually hate the other person.

If you don't know how to tolerate each other in life, you can't understand each other about anything, you don't have enough trust in each other, and you will slowly get tired of each other, so that you will get disgusted.

In fact, the main reason is that two people have contradictions in the process of getting along, but they don't know how to solve the contradictions, and they don't know how to tolerate each other and understand each other.

Because two people don't know how to manage this relationship, the misunderstanding between the two people is getting bigger and bigger, and the hearts of the two people are going farther and farther.

Because when love first begins, it's more about sensuality. Both people are hot-headed and just enjoy intimacy, and a lot of practical issues will be overlooked. And people at this stage generally take the initiative to show the best side of themselves to each other, and their shortcomings are not easy to expose.

Over time, the freshness of love will decrease and it will slowly return to a more rational life. At this point, we need the right wisdom to resolve the conflict and put in more effort to make up for the shortcomings. If you stay where you are, the problems will grow more and more, and that feeling will disappear faster and faster.

In the end, you'll even see each other in a new light. Of course, some people are lucky enough to meet two people who are just right, while some people can be rational at the beginning and spot potential problems. So when love comes into reality, there may be fewer contradictions.

It's just that in the beginning, when we fell in love, everything was fine. Over time, each other's shortcomings will be revealed, and if there is no feeling of falling in love at the beginning, there will be a situation where they don't like each other. Two people who love each other again will also abandon each other, because love is an art, and love is when two people grow together, which requires communication, communication and exchange in order to have a deeper love.

It may be that the shelf life of love has arrived, and you are not boring people; Because something hurts the other person too much; You have too many beautiful fantasies about love, and you feel that this is not the case; You don't know how to be humble and forgiving, but you all want to get love, but you refuse to give alms. Hehe, love is illusory, but life is plain and down-to-earth. Two people who love each other again will also abandon each other, because love is an art, and love is when two people grow together, which requires communication, communication and exchange in order to have a deeper love.

After getting along for a long time, naturally you both know each other's shortcomings, and some of them are unacceptable to you.

Over time, those shortcomings will bore you even more, and even those once good ones will make you despise. After being together for a long time, it is natural to get bored. A small parting will triumph over a new love, and a short parting will alleviate these.

Also, be tolerant, you will remember her kindness and she will not forget it. If two people have different tempers, it will lead to two people fighting all the time, and arguing is the most emotional thing, so it keeps going downhill. It's just that in the beginning, when we fell in love, everything was fine.

Over time, each other's shortcomings will be revealed, and if there is no feeling of falling in love at the beginning, there will be a situation where they don't like each other.

No longer regard each other as the closest person, no longer trust each other, disrespect each other, don't care, don't care, etc. are all reasons, maybe the main reason is that one party is not in love, and the other party is hurt very much.

The main reason is the style and attitude between them, and then there are some things about each other that make the other half feel very uncomfortable, and there is no communication, and it will become a point of hating each other after a long time.

Because of contradictions, two people live together and encounter some contradictions, so they hate each other.

Because there is no love left, and all that remains is hate, and memories are all bad things.

Why do people who once loved each other go to the point of mutual disgust? At the beginning of the relationship, it is more important to rely on emotion. Both of them are dizzy, and they only enjoy a marriage relationship, and many practical problems can be ignored.

And people in this period generally take the initiative to show their best side to the other party, and their flaws are not easy to expose. As time goes by, the freshness of the relationship decreases, and it gradually returns to a more rational daily life. At this time, we should be moderately wise in resolving the conflict and devote more time to make up for the shortcomings.

If you stop, the problem will get worse and worse, and the feeling will fade faster and faster.

Eventually, people will even look at the other side with new eyes. Naturally, some people are lucky enough to meet both of them, while others can keep their senses at the beginning and discover hidden problems. Therefore, when love comes into practice, there may be fewer differences.

It's just the beginning, when everyone is in love, everything is fine. In the long run, the defects between each other will be revealed, and there is no feeling of love at the beginning, and it is easy to be dissatisfied with each other. Two people who love each other will leave the other party behind, because love is an art, and love is a situation where two people grow together, at this time, communication is needed, and communication and communication will have deeper love.

It may be that the freshness of love has arrived, and you are not boring people; Because something hurts the other person too much; I have a lot of beautiful fantasies about relationships, but people don't think so; You never know how to be humble and tolerant, but you want to receive love, but you refuse to give. Hehehe, true love is not real, but life is plain and down-to-earth. Two people who love each other will leave the other party behind, because love is an art, and love is a situation where two people grow together, at this time, communication is needed, and communication and communication will have deeper love.

After living together for a long time, of course, everyone understands each other's shortcomings, and some of them are unacceptable to you.

Over time, these flaws will make you more tired, and even the advantages of happiness in the past will make you look down on you. After spending a long time together, it is natural to be upset. A small parting will defeat a new love, and a short parting will alleviate it.

Also, be tolerant, you can remember that she has a kind heart, and she will not forget. If the two parties have different temperaments, it will cause the two to quarrel all the time, and the quarrel is very emotionally unstable, so it has been going downhill. It's just the beginning, when everyone is in love, everything is fine.

In the long run, the defects between each other will appear, and there is no feeling of love at the beginning, and it is easy to be dissatisfied with each other.

In the beginning, you may think that the other person is very good. But as the days go by, you see through this person. It's not what you imagined, so you hate him.

Or maybe there's some misunderstanding, and neither of you likes to explain, and the other side is even more so. So, your misunderstanding is getting deeper and deeper. So, you hate him so much that you can't get enough of it.

It's not just that you're not happy with him, but even he has all sorts of opinions about you. If so, you are rapidly regressing because of these grievances. In the end, the quarrel broke up.

At that time, the love was not divided between each other, the love was dead and alive, the love was turned upside down, and the love was rotten. You have to let each other eat all your delicious food, wear all the good clothes with each other, give everything to each other, the other party is your favorite, everything about the other party is your everything, and the other party is your own life. The two of them do not distinguish between you and me, there is no defense, no distraction, single-mindedness, love is incomprehensible, and love is at the top of the list.

Ignoring love, love only two people exist, love so much that two people's bodies merge into one.

When you don't love others, no matter how angry you are, it's just a moment of anger, a moment of anger, and then you mention it lightly, even like a joke. Only if you have really given and loved, you will not be able to face the realistic results, and the manuscript will be hated because of love, and you will not be able to let go. Especially when you were desperate for love, and in the end you were exhausted from love, or even had nothing to love, it was really a stranger.

Even if you want to speak, when you talk to each other, you are mocking each other, blaming each other, hurting each other, and you don't talk more than half a sentence! Marriage has come to such a point, it is also powerless, and the once love for each other has unconsciously turned into pain and suffering for each other.

Life is just a few decades, if you are always struggling with the people you have lost and don't love you, how boring it is! Life is like a mirror, if you smile at it, it will smile at you, and if you cry at it, it will cry at you. But in the face of people who no longer love you, no one feels sorry for you when they cry, and they can't save your feelings, so don't torture yourself.

The right person who loves you will meet you sooner or later, so you have to feel sorry for yourself now and don't lose yourself. Life is not only about love, but also about many unforgettable friendships and family ties that will always accompany you. I hope you will come out of your hardships as soon as possible, don't be sad for unworthy people, on the contrary, you should be happy and happy.

Love is easy to fall in love and difficult to stay together, love is a balance under the action of hormones, and there will inevitably be friction and run-in in the process of staying together. If you can't choose a good way to manage your relationship, in the end, this unforgettable love will not last long.

Because at the beginning of a lot of things do not understand the situation, both sides have a sense of freshness, so they will love each other very much, but slowly over time, the gods of both sides will find a lot of shortcomings of each other's stupidity, and these shortcomings are sometimes unbearable for the other party, so in the long run, they may get tired of each other.

I think it may be that when we walk together, each person has a very clear understanding of his bottom line, knows his shortcomings, and begins to have disgust or intolerance and understanding in life.