To what extent do kind hearted people become ruthless, and is there a way for kind hearted people to

Generally, kind-hearted people are forbearance when they encounter losses, and they are mainly forbearance when they are bullied, only if they break through his bottom line, such as bullying his family, they will be desperate, and the degree will slowly escalate, dare to ask questions, and then find other ways, and generally will not break through the moral bottom line.

If things are really too bad, they may break the moral bottom line, and they may even end up together.

Kind people, they generally rarely have a problem with others, and rarely lose their temper and argue with others. They will only smile and silently bear the bad that others treat her. They themselves are a big-hearted person who rarely cares about gains and losses with others.

But if a kind person is forced to be in a hurry, all the grievances and resentments in his heart will be infinitely magnified, and the consequences may be unimaginable. We have often heard the saying that the poor must be hateful. In fact, every bad person is not very bad at the beginning, they may have experienced everything and endured everything to become like this.

So, if you meet a very kind person, don't take his kindness for granted, we have to learn to be grateful and grateful.

Kind people get ruthless, have no scruples, and never look back.

Kind people, do you mean honest people, honest people may recognize when they are a little angry, but if they are ruthless, they will not die. So even if you bully people, you have to have a degree, don't play yourself to death.

Even I feel scared.

The so-called bullying of the soft and afraid of the hard is like this, because the vicious people will leave a shadow in people's hearts, and most people will not bully you because you are vicious, because in their hearts, you are the kind of person they can't afford to provoke, and everyone will have people who are afraid in their hearts, from the heart, because they have offended you and know that you are not easy to provoke, so they dare not provoke. But a kind person will leave a weak character, a bullying he may not have any reaction, or will always let you do what you do, but the so-called kindness in exchange for goodwill, but self-deception, because your kindness brings not kindness in return, but more bullying, everyone will have bullying the soft and afraid of the hard, this is what our nature brings.

Kindness is a strength, but it must never be allowed to become a weakness. Otherwise, kindness will also be spoken of as weakness. People are good and are bullied, don't let kindness become your weakness.

Your accommodation is rewarded with inches; Your forgiveness allows them to do whatever they want; Your heart is soft, and others are not greedy enough.

Be cruel to yourself, once you are bullied, you must resist if necessary, and do not be cowardly and kind; Be cruel to others, stay what you should keep, go what you should go, go with the flow, and don't be ignorant and kind.

It has been natural to deceive the good and fear the evil. The infatuation was tricked, and the sincerity was trampled. If you don't work hard to be an iron stone, others will treat you as a tofu block; If you don't try to be a snake, how will others know that you are inviolable.

As the saying goes, people are good at being bullied, horses are good at being ridden, and vicious words will bring people into fearful emotions.

We must establish correct values, promote good and punish evil.

In this way, society will be true, good, and beautiful.

This is the weakness of human nature. They all like to bully people who are easy to bully, and they don't dare to mess with people who are not easy to mess with. It can also be regarded as the beginning of human beings, and sex is evil. Or rather, the dark side of man. I don't think it's good, and people will look down on it. It is still necessary to be kind and reasonable.

On the question of human nature, there was Mencius in ancient times"Sex is good", and Xunzi's"Sexual evil said"；The kindness of the heart should be in line with Mencius"Sex is good"That is to say, people are born with good nature, but then why is there a difference between good and evil? It is due to the influence of comprehensive factors such as the acquired social environment and education.

A kind-hearted person becomes a ruthless person, which is a process of quantitative change to qualitative change; This process is relatively long, and it does not become all at once; In the process of growing up, a kind person is more negatively affected by all aspects, and if he is not educated and corrected in time, he may gradually slide into the root of evil, that is, become ruthless.

At present, China's education and other aspects of the mechanism are relatively perfect, and the state is also advocating"Don't let honest people suffer", the ideological propaganda work in all aspects is also relatively in place; There are very few cases of a kind-hearted person turning into a ruthless person.

Each of us should pursue a step of how to be good in our hearts, and should not aspire to how to become bad. This is the positive energy in the world. 

I think everyone's heart will change, but people with good hearts can't change, because it's innate.

Being kind-hearted is a virtue, so why be ruthless? Keep it up, and I'd rather suffer for kindness than let myself be ruthless.

In fact, everyone is kind-hearted at the beginning, and then experienced some things, some people find that kindness is always useless, and ruthlessness can always bring surprises, so slowly, some ** become more and more ruthless, and kind people always suffer over and over again.

It is only when you go through something that makes you feel the despair of kindness, and you naturally become ruthless.

However, kindness is rewarded, and an inadvertent kindness may give you a different ending.

No! Human nature is immutable and can never be changed. Even if it is hit and damaged, it can't be bad. The so-called original goodness of human beings is pure nonsense, wicked people are naturally ruthless, and good people will never be able to reach the dust!

There will be good people in the world, and there will be bad people, without which side the world is no longer cooperative, why do you have to want to become someone else, learn to learn or yourself, adhere to the heart to achieve perfection.

If you are the type of person who is naturally kind and loving, I advise you not to deliberately change yourself. Ruthless people are not without flaws and weaknesses, and everyone has their own nature. Don't deliberately change, I'm a ruthless person.

But I'm not ruthless or vicious, I'm just plain ruthless. In fact, if you don't know how to forbear, it's useless, and if you are born a kind and caring person. You can't learn at all, so don't lose yourself.

Be yourself and keep it true to yourself, and the rest can be solved by experience and hard work. If you are not perfect, you can grasp yourself well, which is the key.

There are two sides to human beings, one is good and the other is evil.

People are good and are bullied, and kind people also have times when they are ruthless. When he is bullied and unbearable, there will always be a time when he will break out, and he will be ruthless when he thinks evil and has the courage to fight back.

There is no way, if he is ruthless, he will not say that he is kind!

Good people have a safe life, and good people have good rewards.

7 ways to make kind people ruthless.

1. Psychological suggestion: This is a means in psychology, that is, to imply that he is a hard-hearted person, who can be unmoved by other things or people, manage himself first, and then take care of other people's affairs.

2. Reduce compassion: Although ruthlessness is not a good word, people who are full of compassion and kindness will always inevitably suffer losses and be wronged. So if you want to be lucky, you need to be ruthless and less compassionate.

3. Shape your appearance: Some people are very good looking, but they can shape their appearance, and even shape their own aura, so that others dare not despise you.

4. Suffering: A person who has changed from a kind character to a ruthless person must have experienced some blows, so his personality has changed greatly, and he feels indifferent, and he has never been sympathetic since then.

5. Independent personality: A ruthless person is also a relatively strong person, who does not ask for anything and has a very independent personality.

6. Read more: travel thousands of miles and read thousands of books. A person who reads more and reads good books can broaden his horizons and know that people's hearts are sinister, what kind of people are worthy of help and sympathy, and what kind of people need to be treated with our hearts.

7. Work hard: Everyone's energy is limited, and when you devote yourself to work, you will have no time to take care of these problems, and you will not be distracted by some other things, and you will find troubles. And hard work can make money, and making money will also make people feel happy and bring good luck.

The goodness of the human heart is the character of the human being, and it is innate. A kind person, he treats people and things directly, he is not so scheming, and there is no calculation, routine, digging pits, setting up situations, bullying, slickness, it is very simple; It is also enthusiastic and sincere, reliable and trustworthy; Help will be given to the weak and those in difficulty; Kind people often lose more and get less, they will not be right and wrong, sycophants, pleasing people, servile and servile, observing appearances, seeing the wind and steering the rudder, male thieves and prostitutes; Kind people: they are upright, righteous, upright, stand up to the sky, would rather die than yield, do not be traitors, understand righteousness, righteousness, rush into battle, not afraid of sacrifice, iron bones; A kind person is a life of down-to-earth and diligent fighting; Kind-hearted people are soft-hearted, affectionate, and compassionate.

People with a very good heart are also human characters, they do not suffer or suffer little in society, they are calm, tactful, ruthless, eager to add crimes, politically acute, shrewd and decisive; To sum up all of the above, I believe that there should be more kind-hearted people, the society will be warmer, and the people will be happier and happier, and the hard-hearted people should be used externally and on the right path in the world. I wish more and more kind people, more and more happiness, and more and more people are not bullied; Best wishes to the ruthless:

Be soft-hearted to the good, be ruthless to the wicked, the bad, and the enemy!

Is it better for people to be kind-hearted, or to be ruthless?

I don't think it's good or bad, different people are treated differently, people with good hearts should be treated with kindness, ruthless people should be treated in a ruthless way, or directly keep a distance from ruthless people, some people no matter how good they are to him, they take it for granted, and such people still have to put away our kindness appropriately.

There is a good saying, people are good at being bullied, horses are good at being ridden, there are many people who are kind as donkey liver and lungs, there are many people around me, you accommodate the orange and she still thinks it should be, every time you have to accommodate, which time is not accommodating or a big mistake! Ay! Sometimes I am really helpless and tired when I meet such a person, and now I am simply too lazy to deal with it, and I will stay away if I can't come!

I believe that there are still many good people in the world, and I hope that everyone can be worthy of the kindness of others, people! It's better to be more kind and less calculating! More sincerity, less routines!

More tolerance, less revenge! Then there will be more and more kind people! Hope all are treated well!

That's all for me! Hope it helps!

Is it better for people to be kind-hearted, or to be ruthless?

Treat those who are friendly with sincerity, and those who are vicious must be courteous before soldiers.

The ancients said: "You can't have the heart to harm others, and you can't have the heart to prevent people." Grievances are clear, if there is kindness, it will be reciprocated, and if there is a grievance, it can be resolved. But we must not lack a sense of self-preservation.

So I think both kindness and ruthlessness are a means. To be a man, people must be ruthless and kind, and people must be kind. If you are too cruel to ordinary people, you are a vicious person, and if you are too kind to the wicked, you are a cowardly and incompetent person.

Of course, it's a ruthless person ( °u° )

It is good to be kind to others, to be humble and courteous. But without the softness of the boundary, it will only allow the claimant to gain an inch; Unprincipled concessions will only allow the bully to do whatever he wants.

Your kindness must be a little sharp. If you are accustomed to silence, to wronging yourself, and not to rejecting everyone, you will forget that you can have an attitude, a bottom line, and a life of your own without being disturbed.

People are self-righteous because they know too little.

There is a saying: "The poorer a person is, the more inexplicable courage he has, and an inexplicable sense of pride." Because, the poorer the knowledge, the more absolute the belief belief, and it is difficult to absorb and accommodate the views that are opposed to oneself.

The significance of our encouragement to "read thousands of books and travel thousands of miles" is precisely to enrich our understanding of others and the world, to see more "differences", to understand the "complex diversity" behind the superficial surface, and not to make partial generalizations because of narrow-mindedness.

Always remember that I am still young and inexperienced, and I am cautious in my words and deeds because of the teachings of life: nothing is as simple as I imagined.

Many things, you have to learn to accept regrets.

No matter how we live life, there will be regrets, and the key lies in how we can be self-consistent and reconcile with this regret.

Accepting regret does not mean that we are not doing well enough, but it is a manifestation of intellectual maturity, that is, realizing that regret is also a part of life, it makes our growth more complete, it makes motivation lurk in our hearts at all times, and helps us recognize reality, regroup, and complete better in the "next time".

Life doesn't need to be too hard, walk slowly to see the scenery.

Under the long-term and high-intensity efforts, people's body and psychology will undergo great changes, at this time, we need to slow down, let life pause, let the soul groan.

Read some useless books, do things that are not in a hurry, and spend some time with people you like without stress. When the hour hand of life is open and galloping, and we are walking slowly, our days will never return to the true nature of life.

Anxiety and anxiety are signals released by the body and remind you to adjust your relationship with the outside world as soon as possible. Slow down, it's okay. In our own clocks, we also have the opportunity to surpass ourselves.