What is it like to be a parent of a child who has a pit?

It's a very bad experience to have a pit child parents, it's terrible.

Parents compare the performance of their children:

1. I like to take advantage of small advantages.

There are still a lot of such parents in life, no matter what they do, they like to be careful in their calculations, in short, they can't suffer a little loss. Whether it's getting along with your neighbors or keeping in touch with your classmates and colleagues, you won't help if it's not beneficial.

This kind of parent seems to never suffer, because he has never done anything to suffer, but it just so happens that this kind of small pattern and small vision has affected the whole family to suffer.

First of all, will this kind of person be welcomed in life? Let's think about it from another perspective, do you like this kind of person who only takes but doesn't give? Definitely not.

In addition, under the education of such parents, most children will become such people, and it may be difficult for them to gain a foothold in society after they enter the society in the future.

2. Always complaining and full of negative emotions.

There is a kind of person, no matter how life is, anyway, he is dissatisfied with the status quo, that is, he feels that he is unhappy, he will never be happy in suffering, and he will not try to face life positively and optimistically.

This kind of parent is likely to lead their children "off track" and complain all day long. If you are not satisfied with the status quo and know that you are proactive, you are most afraid of complaining about the injustice of God while waiting for pie to fall from the sky.

In this case, it is estimated that you will only be able to do nothing in this life.

It can be seen that it is best for parents not to show these bad emotions in front of their children in life. A person with high emotional intelligence knows how to digest their negative emotions, and they are better at facing others and life with a sunny and positive attitude, making people feel comfortable and willing to associate with them, which is where their charm lies.

Let me tell you. If you have one, you still have a way to live. If the two of you are together, then congratulations, you won the most miserable experience award in your life.

My mother is extremely selfish, as the saying goes, motherhood is rigid, she should shelter her children from the wind and rain and give them a sense of security. But on the contrary, for as long as I can remember, she has been pretending to be pitiful, giving me a natural urge to protect her, and what will this bring you? Kindness, by the way, I'm not like a person, I'm kinder than God.

She takes advantage of your natural love for your mother. And then my father, who was also extremely selfish. Since childhood, he has oppressed you and made you work hard, but he can't provide you with any resources, and instilled in you from an early age that you can only rely on yourself.

He once famously said, if you can't read to death, then read to death. As a child, I am not as strong as him, so I can only let him slaughter. Then they have been together for as long as they can remember, as long as they are together, they are quarrelling, and I absorb all their stress and negative energy.

Dear friends, do you understand? Writing this, I recall that when I was a child, I liked to put my head in my pillow because I wanted to suffocate my ......All of this made my life like purgatory. If Hell has 18 floors, I'm at 28.

By the way, of course, I have depression. But the worst thing is not this, I don't have the courage to go si, but God opened his eyes and gave me this courage, and I am willing to thank him for his kindness. It's like your tormented soul falling into eternal purgatory.

The most unreliable parents I have ever seen, which are incomprehensible, and some are even outrageous, which has a great adverse impact on their children!

Quarrel and be rough in front of your child.

High school children are relatively mature in terms of observation and cognitive ability. If parents quarrel in front of their children, or quarrel with others, it will not only cause children to be highly uneasy, nervous and fearful, but also this bad behavior or attitude will directly affect the child's personality and internalize it into their own social habits. At the same time, it will make parents have no majesty in the hearts of their children.

Dedicated to work.

In order to give their children a worry-free home, some parents work hard to earn money and work overtime until late at night, and even go home for dinner. If you want to make the relationship between people more harmonious, you need to make the relationship more stable through communication and communication, and not only to establish communication, but also to spend more time with you. The work of parents is inexhaustible, and the time to accompany their children in life is limited, so parents should be more detailed and separate from work and off-duty time, and accompany their children more during off-duty hours to give their children a healthy and happy childhood life.

Too doting. It is not right to overdo it and pamper your children too much. My relative's child is spoiled by his parents, and until now he must be fed by his parents, such a child can be imagined, willful, poor self-care ability, pampered and arrogant, and vexatious.

Spoiling a child is easy to spoil the child.

Talking doesn't count.

Parents must fulfill what they say to their children, otherwise, it will not only reduce the authority of their parents' promises, but also let children develop the habit of speaking not counting over time.

Parents are unreliable, and it is the children who pit them. Parents are role models and life coaches for their children, and while educating their children, they must also blame themselves for setting an example, and they can't do something in front of their children that affects their children's growth!