I have a good relationship with my girlfriend, but my parents don t get along?

My girlfriend is with me now. I'm a Cancer. I've talked to a lot of girlfriends before, but this one made me feel strongly that I wanted to settle down.

So I told my parents, and this was the first time I had told them. I talked about my girlfriend, but my parents didn't seem to be satisfied? However, the parents were not satisfied.

The main reasons are:

Her family was originally from the county seat, but later moved to the city. My home is actually a second-tier city, so it's not good. But my mom felt that the rednecks were short-sighted and that there were too many things.

I also refuted my mother on this question, but my mother's mind was too corrupt to be convinced. Besides, the situation of female ticket families is not bad. His father was in business, his mother was a housewife, and a younger brother was in high school.

But my mom thinks it's not good, and there's another, I'm a dog, a woman, I'm a chicken, a year, but a month. Older people feel that they are incompatible.

Even the women's ticket work is average, and the university is also average, three books. Parents don't think so. But it feels good to get along.

And I have a stable job now, so I have no problem raising her in the future. To sum up, I kind of look down on others, but I think the most important thing is the relationship between two people when they are in love or married. But my parents seem to be shopping for groceries.

I can understand their feelings, but I just don't know how to convince them. I still hope that my parents can support me.

Some time ago, I had a good talk with my mother and told her not to push me too much. I can still see my feelings. Don't push my rebellion out.

It's not good for anyone. Even my parents don't tell me much about us now. But I also introduce me to girls and let me know them.

Is it because I'm thinking too much? Are you making a big fuss? I want to see the girl who introduced me.

I'm afraid it will be more troublesome if the female ticket finds out. But if you don't see your parents, you'll think I'm rebelling against them. Slowly, my family also has opinions.

Drag the relationship to please and don't sell face. And now my family means anxious, early. I don't know what will happen in the future.

The relationship between the two people is about to break up, which makes me think clearly. Actually, I really hope to go down with her again. What do you think I should do?

Both men and women should communicate more with their parents. In the future, it will be a family, and the man should take the initiative to contact the woman's parents, see the old man more, and then buy gifts, in the name of his parents, to ease the relationship.

Conciliation. Because the relationship between the parents is not immutable, you and your girlfriend can say more good things in the middle and mediate.

Then you can organize a dinner and let the parents of both sides sit together, because often do not contact, do not understand will make a lot of disagreement, but after staying together to express their inner thoughts, in fact, they are also very compatible.

Then you should stop immediately, because if you continue like this, even if you get married, you will be very hurt.

First of all, you have to have a good talk with your parents, you tell your parents, if you don't marry her, you can also ask your parents why they don't agree, if your parents tell you the reasons why they don't agree, I believe it will be easy to solve.

In fact, you can only choose not to have contact with both parents, try not to let both parents have the necessary contact, or find a way to adjust.

You should let your parents know that you are happy, after all, parents want their children to be happy.

It doesn't matter whether the parents get along or not, they don't live together, as long as you have a good relationship, your parents can accept you.

A family is formed by two people and has nothing to do with both parents, and should communicate more with both parents to regulate the relationship between the two parents.

In the past, I felt that as long as we had a good relationship, my parents were okay and we didn't see each other often, but after getting married, I realized that if our parents didn't get along, it would bring great harm and impact to our marriage.

This is a very difficult thing to do, and you can do ideological work for your parents separately so that they can reach a consensus.