Can people really be trapped by their original family for the rest of their lives?

Updated on society 2024-07-13
26 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    I don't think people will be trapped by their original family for a lifetime, because you have to be freed from the shackles of this shadow, so you have to work hard, and you can break out of your original original family.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    In fact, it really depends on one's own psychological endurance and ability to resolve, a person's original family will bring some psychological shadows to a person, if you can't resolve it yourself, then you will live with such a shadow for a lifetime! There will be no joy and happiness in this way. If you can learn to defuse it on your own, defeat it!

    Dissipate it as a puff of smoke, and you'll have a good time in the future! The original family is not very good, it's nothing, everyone will have their own family and fight for their own family life! So be optimistic!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    In my opinion, it will be an ongoing impact.

    But it doesn't have to be a bad effect.

    Of course, the pain of the original family may always haunt a person's heart.

    But how bad the family of origin is, how much energy a person will run forward.

    It's not an escape, it's a real distance from the harm and influence that the original family has brought to him or her.

    It's not about running away like running away, but really growing into the person you want to become.

    How much pain is in the original family, how strong your strength is.

    So, don't be trapped by your family of origin.

    It's not worth it. It's the pain that gets trapped, not you.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Some will, but I believe that a large number of people will come out God is fair, and in the long road of life, he will definitely meet that person or that thing who can ** him.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Some people will, but as long as you can get out of your family of origin, I believe there is nothing that you can't get stuck in.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Or maybe it can't.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Definitely, depending on her character, some people will want to escape as soon as possible even if their parents treat her badly, their parents are sick or something, they have to leave everything behind and go back to take care of them, and no matter how good their parents are to her, they will want to escape as soon as possible.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Not necessarily, there is no absolute, the influence of the original family must be very big, affecting a lifetime, but it can also be changed, self-guessing that you read more, accept yourself more, encourage yourself more, read more, listen to books, understand more about psychology, and then work hard to change, the environment is also very important, you can change the environment. Live independently on your own.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    People can't be trapped by their original family for a lifetime, and many rural children, through hard work, have been admitted to university, changed their fate, and achieved success in their careers.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    No, you have to be bold and try to go your own way, and you can't be trapped by your family for the rest of your life.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    People will be affected by their own original family, but they will not live in the world for a lifetime, as long as you want to change, as long as you want to work hard, you will definitely get out of the difficulties of the original family.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Whether you will be trapped by your original family depends on your own mentality, you can be ruthless, and the tiger can't trap you.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    In fact, not necessarily, first you have to stay away from them, then become self-reliant and self-reliant, and then be principled and ruthless.

    Stay away from the basic conditions of the Wu Ming Sail. Otherwise, Sun Huai will really be dragged or killed.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    The family of origin may really affect the normal life of the child, because many families in the original family will make people from this kind of family of origin have certain obstacles to work and deal with things.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    It is said that he was trapped by his original family for a lifetime, and his shirt potato brother said that this sentence is not lucky, it is because of love that he can live in his own family for a lifetime, in fact, it is a kind of happiness or attack, a lifetime,

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    People can really be trapped by their own family of origin. Is it ruined for a lifetime? As a lifetime of life, it is best to be trapped in a family for a lifetime, which is also very good. Why go to multiple families? I don't think that's interesting.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    For your family, you should have that kind and communicative heart, which I think will make every family activity of grinding and laughing colorful, so that you can be happy for a lifetime.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    People will be influenced by their family of origin, but they will not be trapped all the time.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Will people be bound by their original family for a lifetime? It's a bend in the situation, to see if you have a responsibility for that family? And the sail stuffiness doesn't fit in with your other half? to decide.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    There will be repercussions, but work hard to overcome them.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    A person's family relationship can really determine his life, if the family relationship is happier, then these children will be more confident, and they will also be more courageous to express themselves. If a child's family relationship is not happy, then the child must be very unconfident, and he will be timid when there are many people. As parents, you must know that when your child makes some mistakes, you generally teach your child in the right way, instead of yelling at your child.

    Children's personality is directly related to their parents, and now many parents attach great importance to their children's education, so they begin to enroll their children in various tutoring classes when they are in the first grade. It is also very inappropriate to make children burn out. The starting point of parents is good, but the foothold is also to have the correct whole process.

    There are also some children whose parents divorced when they were born, and if they don't think clearly about spending their lives with each other, don't choose to have children at this time, which is also a very irresponsible situation for children.

    Happy family relationship will make children more and more generous, many children are looking forward to parents can be happy together, if everyone is divorced when the child is born, then the child will be teased by others when he goes to school, in the long run, the child's character will become more cowardly, and will become more autistic. There are also some parents who often make a lot of noise in front of their children, which is also incorrect. In contrast, children will be very angry and helpless when their parents are making a big noise.

    Parents must understand the importance of family relationships to their children, and there are some children whose parents often quarrel, so that until they grow up, they will not choose to trust others at will, so it is very difficult to talk about a partner or get married. I hope that all parents can understand the importance of family relationships for their children, and they must give their children a happy and colorful childhood at this time. As parents, we not only need to let our children learn well, but also take care of their children's emotions.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    I think that a person's family of origin has a very great impact on life, and some people will even suffer from the pain of their family of origin, and even affect their own life.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    I think some people will really be trapped by their original family for a lifetime, the main reason is that they can't get rid of their original family, and the original family will also be attached to these people, like parasites that keep eating their flesh and drinking their blood, so that their lives will not be able to get rid of the shadow brought by the original family for the rest of their lives.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Yes, many people will be trapped by their original family for a lifetime, because we grew up in our original family, and those influences have been deeply ingrained in us and have been rooted in our bones, so they will affect us for a lifetime.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Yes, the family of origin may directly affect a person's character. will also follow for a lifetime, these things are destined, and I deeply understand it.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    My sister was almost sent away as a child daughter-in-law, and a family with a disabled son wanted to adopt my sister, but in the end she didn't send her away, and my parents threw my newly weaned sister to my grandparents to raise, and I threw my grandparents after my brother was born. Later, when I was in high school and my sister was in junior high school, I lived with my parents, and only my brother grew up with my parents, after all, it was really their lifeblood.

    When I was in college, I had to give my room to my brother as a study, and the newly bought house didn't have room for me and my sister.

    They told me very early on that I was spilling water, and my daughter was destined to be an outsider, so the family would not give me a penny, and it was no longer patriarchal to give me food. My mother also asked me to finish my brother's schooling, because it was my obligation, my obligation to eat this mouthful.

    Probably I don't have a lot of sail belts in this place, almost all my friends around me have a younger brother, one or two have an older brother, and then I only know an only daughter of a sedan chair, because her father is a ** leader.

    I still remember my high school tablemate telling me about her life, she was a left-behind child who grew up living in a relative's house in the countryside, and her younger brother lived in the city with his parents, and later he was admitted to a high school in the city.

    She was very sad when she came back from the monthly vacation, she usually stayed in school during the monthly vacation, this time she went back to her parents' house, and found that there was a family photo hanging in the living room, only her parents and younger brother in it, her mother was very happy to see her staring at ** and asked if it looked good? She said, it's pretty good. Her living expenses are only 300 yuan a month...Every time, it is the cheapest two vegetarian meals in the dining hall, she is thin and small, and she said that her father spends more money on gas every month than she spends on food.

    And a best friend in junior high school, the family is very poor and poor, she is lucky to live with her parents, I have been to her house, there are only two beds and a toilet in the house....But she didn't share two beds, one bed was slept by her parents, and the other bed was slept by her brother, who slept on the floor.

    It feels a little separated, Zhihu always seems to feel that women are greedy for money and selfish, but almost all the girls around me are such original families, they come out to work honestly, get married and have children, they have never been to bars and nightclubs in their lives, and they live an ordinary life, sometimes they will cry and complain to me because of family trivialities, and I will also complain to them, so I will live a life that is not taken seriously.

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