After cultivating for several lifetimes, you can only be brothers and sisters in this life and this

Fate. What's going on? If we want to clarify "fate", we can't do without reincarnation, and we can't do without cause and effect between previous lives, present lives, and future lives.

The origin of the origin is narrowly speaking, the relationship mainly refers to the relationship, such as husband and wife, parents and children, brothers and sisters, etc.; Broadly speaking, fate encompasses all the people and things that you encounter in the course of life. We will meet all kinds of people in our daily life, whether it is between relatives and friends, classmates, colleagues, teachers and students, some people will be very friendly to themselves, and some people may not be good to themselves; Maybe someone you don't know has inadvertently helped you a lot.

Maybe somewhere the money was cheated out. All of this, from the perspective of samsara, has a cause.

The poet immortal Li Bai once said: "The living are passers-by, and the dead are returnees." Heaven and earth are a reverse journey, and they are sad for eternity. "Life is short, and there are many ups and downs and sorrows in life, what is all this for?

In the world of reincarnation, love is only to repay past and present lives.

of "grace" in the way. Westerners talk about "love", while Chinese talk about "love". The word "grace" speaks to the root of "love" and gives the latter connotation.

"Grace" first, "love" last, with the grace of the previous life, only to form the fate of this life, so there is a happy marriage. However, "fate" is not all good, just as there is kindness and resentment, and there is a distinction between good fate and bad fate.

The good fortune in this life is all cultivated in the previous life, and we should work hard to cultivate the blessings in this life. Do more good deeds.

Sow good because you get good results, sow evil because you get bad retribution.

Karma is not at all pleasant. It's true.

The Buddha was a wise man. Explain to us the life of the universe.

The melodious sound of the bell chime of the ancient temple is the French he speaks.

If you follow the method he taught, you will definitely have a good future. FYI: He was a man who succeeded in changing his destiny and left his methods behind, and many people changed their lives because of it.

And there will be a mage to explain it to you.

There are also many ways to change your life and the way to live happily in Buddhism.

Amitabha.

I watched the finale of "Children of the Qiao Family" a few days ago, and there are many dramas that tell better stories than this drama, but I was completely broken by the fact that "being able to be brothers and sisters is the fate of several lifetimes".

My fathers are about the same age as the children of the Qiao family, my youngest uncle has already passed the age of 40, my father is the eldest brother, his tortuous and bumpy life came to an abrupt end at the age of 42, and the three uncles continue to shine in their respective fields in our small county. The grandparents are alive, and our family is used to going to grandma's house for big festivals, as if talking about a family for so many years refers to a big family of more than a dozen of us by default.

I was the eldest child in the family, and I was only a teenager when my father left, and I was in middle school, and it was strange that when he was there, the family didn't seem to be particularly harmonious, and when he left, it seemed that the family was very close-knit. (Actually, I know that it was because of his departure that our family cherished each other more.)

Later, after she remarried, she was reluctant to interact with her grandmother's house with hatred for her mother-in-law, and the family members suddenly lost two of them, and our small family was scattered. For so many years, my sister and I have been at my grandmother's house and my three uncles' houses, and we are used to acquiescing to a family of more than a dozen of us.

Grandma is a strong person, she is a good elder, but not a good mother-in-law (this is my objective assessment from the perspective of a bystander for so many years). The family has a large population, and on the whole it is very harmonious, and every time I go back to my hometown, the neighbors are all envious, but how can the details be so smooth sailing, and I have also cried bitterly. Grandma said:

The family has a large population, and if it is not strong, this family will have been scattered a long time ago. Maybe she's right.

The uncles live close to the county, and last year the second and third uncles bought a new house in a community, and the younger uncle's family is in another community two kilometers north of their community.

After my father left, my feelings for our family became complicated, my mother instilled in me the thoughts of being opposed to the family because of her hatred for my mother-in-law, and my grandmother instilled in me the bad thoughts of my mother because she couldn't get used to my mother. Fortunately, fortunately, I have never given up reshaping my three views over the years, and while gradually forming my own three views, I also tried to find an emotional balance between my grandmother's house and my mother.

In fact, now that I think about it, I envy the brotherhood between my fathers. I have a younger sister myself, and every time it is said in the play that "being able to become brothers and sisters is the fate of several generations of cultivation", I rub my sister with my elbow with an indescribable heart, and she may be able to feel it. There are many cousins in our family, but because of the huge age difference between my uncles and their children, the age difference between me and my cousins is naturally huge.

But the more I grew up, the more I felt that the family, no matter when, should not be separated.

After reading "Children of the Qiao Family", Qiqi said to his cousin Qi Weimin that he would be a brother in the next life. Because he grew up in his cousin's house since he was a child, his cousin took care of Qiqi as his own brother, when he was a child, Qiqi had a problem with his feet and was misdiagnosed as polio, and no one wanted to care about him, and his cousin went to the best orthopedic surgeon behind his back, but fortunately it was okay later. has been like this since childhood, and my cousin has taken care of Qiqi too well, definitely doing much more than Qiqi's own brothers and sisters.

Originally, I thought that it was not a good thing to have too many brothers and sisters in the family, and a lot of care from parents could not be well balanced, after all, the children were not old enough to receive different attention. When they grow up like this, their brothers and sisters will have their own families and their own small families, and they will not be as affectionate as they were when they were children. However, after reading the children of the Qiao family, the feelings between their brothers and sisters are indeed touched, even if they grow up and start a family, they will help each other, especially the eldest brother Qiao Yicheng, who is always in the heart of the patriarch, no matter which younger brother and sister is concerned, he will help, so that he is very tired.

I think there should be such people in reality, everyone suffered together when they were children, and they did a lot of things together, so they will take care of each other when they grow up, and after reading it, I feel that it is good to have so many brothers and sisters, and when there is something, we can discuss with each other, and we can share difficulties with someone.

In fact, I also have sisters and brothers, but when I grow up, we all live in different cities, the distance is too far, and the feelings are not as close as when I was a child. After reading the children of the Qiao family, I feel that we have to cherish the family affection we have, especially now that we are all young, we have to contact more if we have anything to do, otherwise people will start to miss it after their old age, and it will be too late.

Those who can be brothers and sisters are all cultivated fate, so cherish them and contact them more, which is also what many people want to ask for.