Is an ignorant child an enemy in a past life?

For children who are not sensible, parents are very anxious. You are very sad about educating your children, so many people say that ignorant children are the enemies of their parents in their previous lives. As a child, parents have an obligation to educate.

Therefore, even if the child is not sensible, even if the child is not sensible, you must educate patiently.

Maybe, maybe not, it's certain that he owes him in his previous life, but he doesn't know if he owes it or not, it's a willful attitude.

An ignorant child is not an enemy of a past life.

First, there is no scientific evidence that there is any connection between a child's past life and behavior in this life. The concept of a pre-mortal is itself beyond the realm of religion or folk belief and cannot be understood as a scientific or universal concept.

Secondly, children may not be sensible because of their age, experience, knowledge, etc., which causes them to lack understanding or skills in some aspects. This does not mean that they are enemies of past lives, or that they have any negative intentions or motives.

It is the responsibility of parents or guardians to understand and educate their children, and through patience, love, and education, they can help them grow and develop. At the same time, it is also necessary to avoid confusing the child's behavior with the concept of causality in the past life, so as not to bring unnecessary stress and distress to the child and the family.

Children can't be spoiled.

I can't help it.

His temperament is nonsense.

Such a spoiled child.

When you grow up, you won't know gratitude.

Parents should learn to let go.

You can't do everything.

Children should be trained to be self-reliant.

Do your own thing.

It's okay to get it wrong.

It's a big deal, you can start all over again.

It is your doting that has caused today's karmic retribution.

You're used to it, and your mother is a loser.

The cause of reincarnation is actually very complicated, and the Buddha roughly summarized it into four points: retribution, revenge, debt repayment, and debt collection. Therefore, father and son are not necessarily enemies in their previous lives, but perhaps creditors. This is only from a general point of view, but since you have been reincarnated as a father and son, you must handle the relationship well, be filial to your father, try to guide each other to learn Buddhism, and resolve grievances and hatreds, otherwise life and life will be entangled.

The ancients: enemies in the past, father and son in this life.

The parable is that the son in this life is a debtor from his father, and in the previous life he is an enemy, and in this life he is a debtor.

Not necessarily, but there is a causal relationship. Good causes have good results, and evil causes have evil consequences. Do it and cherish it, suppress evil and promote good.

If your father often makes mistakes because of the trivial things of sesame mung beans, and he is not intentionally making mistakes, but he is forced to be helpless in life, and he bullies you, beats you and scolds you, it must be the injustice of the past and this life, and it must be the enemy.

Children are in debt to husband and wife, because they are indebted, so there is a father-son relationship, then don't care about the cause of indebtedness to each other, let go of this idea, treat relatives well, good is fate, evil is also fate, when is the time to repay each other.

There is no such thing.

The son is the heir and inheritor of the father, how can he be an enemy.

Just say that、、、 come to collect debts...

The Buddhist scriptures tell us that there are four kinds of fate between children and their parents.

The first kind of fate is to repay kindness, this child has been kind to him in his past life, and he has come to your house in this life, to be your son, to be your grandson, to repay the kindness. You must be filial to repay your kindness, and you must work very hard to make your home prosperous, this is good!

Therefore one must have a good heart, do good deeds, and treat others with kindness. How did the loser come about? He who came to avenge his grievances had hatred in his past life, but he came here in this life to take revenge, that is, to destroy your family and ruin your family, and to avenge his grievances.

So one can't hold a grudge against anyone, why? He will come to your house, to be your son and grandchild, to be your descendant, to take revenge, and you have no way to prevent him from coming to your house.

The third type is the one who pays the debt, he owes you money in the past life, and now he comes to pay the debt. Such children and grandchildren will have good material conditions for their parents, but they will not have a filial piety and will not be respectful to their parents.

Will you be raised, how much? It depends on how much you owe. If he owes you a great deal, he will give you a great deal of material support. If you owe less, you can probably barely get by. There is a cause and an effect!

And there is a man who comes to collect debts, called a debt collector, to whom you owe it. If you owe less, he will leave when he is a few years old or a teenager, and if he owes a lot, he will support him until he graduates from college, gets a doctorate, and is just right to go out and do things, and at this time he dies and dies, which is what you owe a lot.

The Buddha said that if you don't have these four kinds of conditions, you won't become a family. So there are relatives and grudges between father and son, and there are debts, and if you understand it, use the Dharma to transform him.

Treat him with sincerity, compassion, and affection, dissolve his hatred, so that he can develop a sense of respect and filial piety. This is something that education can transform.

That's why Buddhism is our method of transforming good and evil into dharma, which is good! This is the origin of bad karma, and we end it with good karma, learn the teachings of the saints, study the sutras of the Buddhas and Bodhisattvas, and change all the relationships into the best ones.

This article is excerpted from episode 214 of [Pure Land Great Sutra Note].

Not necessarily, to become a family, it is all karma.

Hello, it should be that the parents are here to repay the debts in this life, because in life, parents are re-giving, paying for their children,,, daughter is the lover of her father's previous life, without your words.

Personally, I think. Children are not the crystallization of happiness.

It's the result of iniquity!

Why are there so many parents in the world who don't care about the life or death of their children!

Daily newspapers. I'm so angry!

In their eyes...What is a child?

All I can say is that they are irresponsible.!

If I have children in the future. I'm just raising and loving him out of a responsibility and nothing else!

That's why I think children are the product of their own life's evils!

Many parents are willing to give everything for their children, according to superstition, it should be the debt owed to this person in the previous life, now come and pay him back.

Parents may only have to pay, when the child is old and you are old, all the hard work is put on the child

Because raising a child is really hard, and you have to pay off the debt in your last life.

That's not a blameless statement! How can it be said to be a debt?