Do boys mind if they are spare tires?

There is no doubt about this, as a boy, of course, I mind that I am a spare tire.

When men and women are together, they are either friends or lovers, there is no type in between, if there is, it is called a spare tire, not a friend, nor a lover.

If a man is in this position, then he must be very uncomfortable and uncomfortable. Because it's a very embarrassing situation, and it can make a man feel like he has no status and no dignity.

In fact, letting a boy be her spare tire is a manifestation of a girl's irresponsibility to the boy, and it is an extremely selfish behavior. She just thought that if this boyfriend left him now, there was still someone to entrust, and she could continue to start the life of two people, so as not to become lonely and lonely.

It's not wrong for this girl to think about herself like this, but it would be very unkind to make others sacrifice their freedom to achieve their own goals.

This girl should think about the problem from the perspective of this boy, and know how to empathize, if this girl exists as the boy's spare tire, she will know what it feels like.

As a spare tire, it is an extremely uncomfortable identity, and I can't be with the person I like, and I can't look for the next object to accompany me. Therefore, it is very embarrassing and bad to say that the identity of the spare tire is very embarrassing.

In fact, whether it is a boy or a girl, it is uncomfortable to be a spare tire.

In addition to feeling uncomfortable, there will also be sneering at other outsiders, others will look down on this kind of person who makes a spare tire, some people will say that the spare tire is a very cheap person, and some will say that the spare tire is a very contrived person, in short, there is nothing good to say, it is basically all derogatory ridicule.

Then what I experienced was not only my own inner pain, but also the gossip of outsiders.

Therefore, boys are very mindful that they are spare tires.

As a boy, I solemnly tell you that I mind, and I have asked the people around me this question, and they also mind. I don't think any boy would be that generous.

Maybe that guy likes you very much, but I hope you don't use him as a spare tire. Like someone, sometimes a look and a move are enough, but the same dislike of a person is a word or a thing. At the same time, I also hope that you will squander a person's feelings at will, and don't take a person's liking as your bragging capital.

Guys like a girl, sometimes it's crazy, it's the kind that's very fanatical, like you will hurt him deeply, it will hurt him deeply.

And I'm sure that if that boy knew that he was a spare tire, he wouldn't have seen you as good-tempered, and how should you get along with others, wouldn't you feel faceless to see him? And what would you make other guys you have a good relationship with? It's better not to think about it.

I mind it, everyone is a first-time person, why should I make you a spare tire.

I would like to call the subject's so-called backup a spare tire.

Love is a kind of emotional exchange and interaction, and everyone's needs and definitions of love may not be exactly the same. The term spare tire usually refers to someone who acts as a backup for the destruction of luck in a relationship, and when the protagonist's feelings fail or have problems, the spare tire is mobilized. The spare tire is often depicted as a character who can only temporarily fill the vacancy, rather than the main character.

As to whether a spare tire is needed, this is a matter of personal opinion. Some people may think that a spare tire is necessary for themselves because they want to be prepared and be able to fill the void in time when the protagonist's feelings go wrong. While others believe that in a healthy love relationship, there should not be a spare tire, because true love should be based on mutual trust and loyalty, rather than preparing a backup person.

However, regardless of whether it is appropriate for an individual to consider Zen Kuan as a spare tire, the most important thing in the pursuit of love is to be honest and sincere with oneself and the other person. Building a strong and healthy relationship requires mutual respect, trust, and commitment, rather than relying on a spare tire to ensure emotional stability. Everyone has the right to freely choose their own love style, as long as they respect each other's feelings and needs in the process of dating, and can treat each other sincerely, so that they can establish a truly beautiful love relationship.

Summary. Good morning, dear. The boy's willingness to be a spare tire is a sign that he knows that you are not very good to her. He is hot and cold to him, and he is as good to you as ever. For your affairs, very attentive. Do whatever you tell her to do.

Good morning, dear. The boy's willingness to make and sell a spare tire is to know that you are not very good to her. Hot and cold to him, he is as kind to you as ever. For your affairs, very attentive. You tell her to do whatever you want to do.

Well, I know, I recently talked to someone, our biggest problem is that he is not financially stable, so I broke up with him, he knows what I think, and he also asked me to go outside to see other boys, but we still get along as a couple, what do you say this means? Well, I know, I talked to a partner recently, the biggest problem between the two of us is that he is not financially stable, so I broke up with him, he knows that I want to be a friend of the cave, and he also asked me to go outside to see other boys, but we still get along as a couple.

My dear. Based on what you're talking about. Does this boy want to rely on us to feed him? Doesn't he himself actively work hard?

He agreed that I should go out and find other boys, and when I met the right boy, he quit.

I asked him to work, he wouldn't let me say, I couldn't see a change in him, he didn't have a positive heart.

My dear, such a man is indeed very good to us.

My dear, such a man is still worth associating. He loves you, but He gives you freedom.

Have more questions? My dear, there are other questions you can follow.

Well, yes, I think I still want to see the other boys, I don't want to go against my heart, teacher.

I think it's better to have a stable job.

Yes, my dear. If we are in love now. Without stable economic strength, it was time to get married. A chicken feather that will live.

Your thoughts, my dear, are correct. I'm sticking with you. is a more rational girl.

Well, I think I'm still quite rational, the reality is like this, I can't help it, as for whether I choose him or not, it's up to me to choose.

Yes, dear. Keep our rational minds up.

I guess guys won't care about you when they use you as a spare tire. In fact, sometimes what you think feels is just what you think and not as good as you think, and what you think of is true love is actually just deceiving yourself. The most direct manifestation is ambiguity, but not close to this kind of person.

He will only give you symbolic hints to make you feel like you are someone the other person cares about. However, when you really want to have a result with him, he stops. This is the typical attitude of using a gun against you and only wants you to pay.

Never willing to let you into his circle of life. All he wants is the feeling of being with you, like the feeling of being underground. He doesn't want to be **, and he doesn't want to take you to meet his relatives and friends.

If you're serious, he'll just say you don't understand. In fact, to be honest, he just uses you as a spare tire. He never wanted to have a future with you.

He is always looking for all sorts of reasons to avoid communication from your friends. For someone who loves you, he is eager to get to know your friends and will learn about your past through your friends. However, for someone who treats you as a spare tire, he just treats you as an object to pass the time, so he won't rush into your social circle.

He will break his promise to you for no reason and will never give you a clear answer. For a person who is just playing, whether you are injured or not does not affect his mood at all, and when he has something to do, he always worries about himself first and never thinks about your feelings. If a man always breaks his promises to you and can't give you an answer, then he is the most selfish person who wants to enjoy your kindness to him and drag down your youth.

He never gives you promises, he always tries his best to delay。For this kind of person, it is because you like him, so he does bad things, and because you like him, he will be unscrupulous. What he wants is always your company, which brings him short-term happiness without too many results.

This will only make you sink deeper and deeper into the spare tire without you knowing. So I don't think guys care about you when they use you as a spare tire.

Men treat you as a spare tire, and they usually have these kinds of performances, so don't be stupid and pay.

After two months together, he told me (together for half a year, and now separated) that they were in a long-distance relationship, and as soon as his partner came to him, he told me that I will give you information when he leaves tomorrow. and lost contact as soon as he got home, and he got in touch when he came back. It's especially good when it's good for you, and it's like a piece of ice when it's cold for you.

Treating you as a spare tire won't care about you.

Of course, it's the kind of life that is very happy every day.

It should be hot and cold to you.

Such a rotten person, let him roll as far as he wants.

They won't take into account any of your feelings.

Mature boys don't think like this, unless the other person's approach will cause another person to question, they will have such prejudices and have such thoughts.

All the doubts and all the ideas are not fabricated out of thin air, but because the other party has done something that has caused another person to speculate, there will be such a cognition.

If the other person's personality is suspicious, try to keep a certain distance in social aspects.

In this society, as long as he is a normal person, ordinary people will not think too much, unless the other party's behavior makes him feel bad.

If a boy always thinks that he is a spare tire, it may be a sign of low self-esteem.

Girls also always think that they are spare tires.