The World Without Complaining and Be the Best You .

I've read both books, I think it's Kai-Fu Lee's "Be the Best of You" is a little better, you can read the introduction of the two books yourself, and then make a decision.

The World Without Complaining is a great inspirational book for the mind. This book has changed the lives of countless people! 6 million people in 80 countries around the world participated in the "No Complaints" campaign!

Today, are you still complaining? Don't complain = improve yourself and boost your team! If anyone and team wants to be successful, they should never complain, because it is better to change than to complain, to have the tolerance to accept criticism, and the ability to take action to solve problems!

Complaining is the most energy-draining and unhelpful move. Sometimes, our complaints are not only directed at people, but also at different life situations. And if we can't find someone to listen to our complaints, we complain to ourselves in our heads.

The magical "No Complaining" movement proposed by the author of "The World Without Complaining" came at the right time, and it is exactly what we modern people need most. We can look at it this way: there are only three things in the world:

My business, his business, God's business. People who complain about themselves should try to learn to accept themselves; People who complain about others should try to turn their complaints into requests; Those who complain about God, try to pray for your wishes. In this way, your life will have unimaginable changes, and your life will be more beautiful and fulfilling.

Created by Kai-Fu Lee, the former president of Google China, "Be the Best Self" uses nearly 100 real cases to illustrate how to use the "concentric circle of success" rule to choose your own values, explain how to use your own wisdom, "choose to be an international talent who integrates China and the West", and finally explain that "success is to be the best version of yourself". Among these cases, there are the successes and failures of Kai-Fu Lee, as well as the stories of prominent figures like Bill Gates.

Be the best version of yourself I've read this book, and the content upstairs has been copied to you, in fact, if your sister decides not to go on, or her grades are not good, then you can follow her, persuasion is useless!

You can only enlighten her, tell her how to behave in a person, and see the quality of people clearly!

Be the best version of yourself Kai-Fu Lee, right? I've got a copy, and it's good

Recently, I feel that I have complained a lot in my heart, and I feel a little depressed, so I revisit this book to relieve depression and rejuvenate myself!

Why do we complain and where do they come from? In English abbreviation, it is called: gripe

get attention.Seek attention. We naturally want to be noticed and feel safe. These people complain because they fear that if they don't complain, they won't be able to build relationships with others.

remove responsibilities.Pass the buck. Complaining is an attempt to justify one's incompetence by telling others that there is no hope of achieving something.

He doesn't even need to block your suggestions for improvement, he just needs you to see him as an incapable, completely helpless victim.

inspire envy.Encouraging. They complain to boast, and they complain to others as a way to show that they don't have these problems that others have.

power.Manipulative force. Complaining is an effective way to gain manipulation power. They want to have an outward, external control over others, to cover up the inner hollowness of their souls. Complaining is often a matter of recruiting and finding advocates.

excuse poor performance.Make excuses for poor performance. When someone complains to excuse poor performance, ask them how they plan to improve next time.

In fact, from understanding complaining, changing complaining is divided into four stages: unconscious inability -- conscious inability -- conscious inability -- conscious ability -- unconscious ability.

Many times, complaining becomes a part of our lives, silence and complaining, criticism and sarcasm, become the necessities and spices of our daily lives, and we don't know what these complaints will bring to our lives, let alone what we can do to improve them. Entering the second stage is to realize that complaining is not good, what is the reason to complain back to our complaints, but we are still not able to make changes. Next, you will have the consciousness and more willingness to reduce and eliminate complaints, change your attitude towards life, and gradually have the ability not to complain.

Finally, of course, this ability to be happy without complaining has become our unconscious, and happiness and positivity have become the standard of our daily life.

In fact, when we are accustomed to complaining every day, we will naturally attract and accumulate more people who like to complain, and our surroundings will also become a negative energy field. Change yourself, put an end to complaining, make yourself a positive person, and socialize more with positive people, so that you can become a happy person!

I've put on the no-complaining bracelet to take on the 21-day no-complain challenge!

With a bracelet, teach you to change your mind, slowly change your habits, so that you no longer complain, when your heart no longer complains, the world is flat, and you have the whole world!!