My boyfriend said he would feel more relaxed if I broke up with him, what did he think, should I giv

Think about it yourself, do you still like each other now? Time is not a reason for a long-term relationship, and it is possible that they are used to each other after being together for so long. Let's communicate well.

If you really love him, do a good job, let him see your goodness, believe in him, respect him.

Two people will inevitably get aesthetically tired after being together for a long time, and I don't think what you said is sure that he doesn't love you at all. People will always like the new and hate the old, after a period of time to change the image, maybe can get unexpected results, can not change his mind to change his own actions to change his views, give him a different view ......of himselfGood luck ......May you have a good future ......

Divide it. Do you still like him like this? He obviously doesn't cherish what he gets. But you're also at fault, your boyfriend, you always suspect him, you doubt him, of course it's annoying. It would be happier to be separated from each other.

After being together for a long time, there are more contradictions, and everyone feels pressured, so it's better to be separated for a while, after all, the relationship of more than 5 years is not so easy to separate. When you first separate, you will be very heartbroken with each other, miss each other very much, and have a lot of unaccustomed life, if he really loves you, you will find a way to keep you back in the time after you leave.

Let's talk about it and let you know if there is still love in each other's hearts. If there is, try to make changes for the other party, not blindly complaining and suspicion, this is the biggest killer of feelings. I wish you happiness....

This should be rejecting you, he may be tired of it, and if he wants to redeem it, don't ask for too much.

Alas, it means that you are stressed, give up.

When your boyfriend suddenly finds you and proposes that the two of you want to have a good talk, I personally think that you don't need to be too nervous and anxious in this case, although it can be seen that there is a certain problem in the relationship between you and your boyfriend, but the reason why your boyfriend will say this is not necessarily that he wants to break up with you, it may be that he wants to solve the problems that exist in the relationship between two people by having a good talk.

We should clearly understand that in the process of getting along with lovers, it is impossible for the feelings between two people to be smooth sailing, and there will inevitably be certain estrangements and contradictions in the process of the development of the feelings of two people. In order to solve this problem between two people, it is also normal to take the initiative to talk to each other, so in this case, if your boyfriend wants to have a good talk with you, you should still choose to accept, for your boyfriend to raise some problems between the two of you in the relationship, if it can indeed cause your resonance and recognition, then both people should work hand in hand, as much as possible to correct the past, those wrong behaviors and habits to make each other better, In this way, the relationship between two people can be more lasting in the process of getting along in the future.

On the other hand, even if your boyfriend asks you to break up, in this case, you don't need to be too anxious and sad, you should ask the other party why you broke up with you, your boyfriend gives you a reason and answer, if the other party's reasons and reasons for breaking up make you unacceptable, then you should also understand that your boyfriend may have completely lost nostalgia for such a relationship, And his reasons and reasons are just an excuse, you don't need to deliberately miss and keep such feelings, because these are no longer meaningful to you, choose to adjust your mentality, let yourself accept this fact, and find a life that suits you again, maybe it is a better choice for yourself.

At this time, you should have a good talk with your boyfriend, see what he thinks, whether he still loves you, if he still loves you, he has to change, if he doesn't love you, then you don't need to waste time on him, at this time you should think about your own problems, whether you still love him, if you don't love him, don't be together, there is no need to insist on such love, if you love your boyfriend, then you have to give your boyfriend a chance to see what he thinks.

If the two sides talk well, then they can continue to be together.

If the talks between the two sides fall apart, then they really can't be together.

Maybe I want to have a good chat with you.

Hello landlord!

I think he may think you are not satisfied, because his past may have been too smooth, friends, family, and the so-called brothers, patriotic spirit, etc., but love is sometimes not better than these, saying patriotism, can it be compared to Yue Fei? But Yue Fei doesn't seem to be a love saint, saying that he values brotherhood and friendship, who is better than Guan Yu? It seems that Guan Yu has never had an unforgettable love, right?

Speaking of character, who is better than Lei Feng? But Lei Feng doesn't seem to be good at the wind and snow. Therefore, what is needed in love is emotional intelligence, another interpretation of responsibility, and another insight into loving oneself and one's lover, rather than a by-product of one and the other!

And this is especially true for someone like him who has never loved before, but he doesn't know it himself, and it reminds me of the occasional snoring while I sleep, and then the next morning, my wife tells me, 'You snored again last night, and you were noisy!' Of course, I always emphasized, 'I never snore!' Don't talk nonsense, don't blame the earth for turning fast because you can't sleep!

Besides, if I snore, why don't I know about it? In fact, when you sleep, you can't hear yourself snoring, right? Actually, your boyfriend's situation is similar, am I right?

For such a man, in fact, it is really a headache, to say that he is bad, but he is not bad, but he doesn't know much about love, but to say that he is good, but really can't figure out the good**, if you feel that you can change him, then slowly change, if you feel that you are exhausted, then it is not worth a pity to let go, even if it is a rare piece of jade, if there is no superb craftsmanship to carve, what is the difference between it and the stubborn stone?

Let's put it this way ... Your boyfriend ... It won't be the legendary Libra ...

In fact, this is the case, and the latter sentence is mainly to make you feel a little better in your heart. My personal opinion is that some people, after all, are only suitable for being friends, but as soon as they become boyfriend and girlfriend, they find it very strange. And to be honest, he has no emotional experience before, which does not mean that he has not been ambiguous.

However, it is very troublesome to start from scratch in these aspects. It's up to you. After all, if you break up, it must not be one person's fault, and both parties have problems.

You try to add value to yourself, or make yourself beautiful. In this case, your ex will be envious, jealous and hateful when he sees it

best regards

Oh, maybe he doesn't understand love.

In the final analysis, it should be that he has not met a person he wants to love from the bottom of his heart and truly loves.

Do you believe that a person who truly loves you will not know how to care for you?

Maybe it's just the wrong way! Or that your understanding is not right, sometimes everyone cares differently, you have to understand a little, you say that he has no experience in love, why don't you tolerate him? You may be measuring him now, and it will be a happy result in the future, the way you fall in love is not good enough, it should be the clearest to fall in love separately, after all, the boy who has not been in love with you, you will find that he is very immature, and many times it is not as good as you idealize.

Personally, I'm quite optimistic about your boyfriend, but it may not be reflected now, and now they have broken up, Let me tell you, you think the boy is very good at the beginning, and it may not be good in the future, I suggest that it is best to be ordinary at the beginning. Personal opinion.

That is to say, he feels a little ashamed of you, this is a man who has never been in love, and lacks experience in taking care of women, but this is also a personal character! He just doesn't care about your feelings too much, it seems that he is also sorry and guilty about losing you, but he can't do it!

If you think you still have feelings, then you can give him another chance, let him love you well, be considerate of you, if you feel that there is no need to be together again, then so be it, don't care what he says, you can only say that he is not blessed to marry you, no way, he can only pay for his own actions!

I'll try not to think about him!!

When you still like him in your heart, you will be sad and cry, but when you can't go on, you have to learn to let go!!

I wish you well! Find someone who is better for you

You have to be patient and understand such a boy! Tell him what women want to get from men, and listen to how he understands, and talk about their views! As women, we must understand the suffering of men, some men are ambitious, self-motivated, and excellent in everything, but only the relationship is a tendon, when encountering some troubles in life, trivial troubles!

LZ, please think calmly: no one in this world is perfect, no one is perfect, it is absolute, if you have any problems with yourself, you can't ask him to be too perfect! Actually, you think the other way around:

If he is trained by you to be what you think he is, then he will do that to others, and he will be in demand! It's best to sit down and talk! Tell him his shortcomings, let him tell you your shortcomings, be calm, don't quarrel, the other party makes trouble, you have to hold back, and persuade the other party to talk kindly!

If a man asks for warmth to a woman, takes the initiative to buy water, sends flowers, creates romance, etc., it can only mean that this person has experienced a lot of feelings for failure, because women are their best enlightenment teachers!

If it's not saved, it's divided, and if it's combined in the future, there will be endless anger to support you.

It shows that he still has a little conscience, but when faced with difficulties, he does not have enough courage. Such a person will make you feel insecure.

He likes you, you don't see the present, you should look forward to what your life will be like in the future.

Being a person is responsible for what you say, you often say that breaking up will make the other party very painful, at first it is to retain, and in the end it is tired and don't want to keep, my girlfriend used to be like you, but then she didn't say that I originally had a mustard for her in my heart and it was slowly gone, and we now have children. So don't say it anymore from now on, he'll get better, but you did hurt him.

My girlfriend told me once I would break up.

Trust is like rubbing paper. The relationship is like this, maybe he has someone else, get to know him well, since you are still willing to ask, it means that you still love him.

This is what he is ready to give up, but if you don't want to lose, you have to be around him more often without making noise and doing something that you often ask him to do

Reserve the space he deserves, because the relationship needs to be maintained by two people together.

When you tell him to break up, you don't really want to break up, you just want to get his attention and keep him, right?

A lot of women like to do it, and so do you.

But men think differently, for men, to say that they want to break up is to really want to break up, so when you mention breaking up with him, he will take it seriously.

Since you have mentioned it many times, it can be inferred that every time you mention breaking up with him and fighting early, he is trying his best to make amends, and you always mention it, he always does his best, and the number of times he tries is that people will feel very tired (if he is not tired, either he is not a person, or he doesn't care about you at all). So, when you want to save your relationship, don't use the trick of breaking up, the more you use this trick, the worse the effect will be, remember, remember.

When there is a problem in the relationship, look for the reason, it may be the other party's reason, or your own reason, don't stubbornly think that it is the other party's fault; At the same time, Lu Luxiang paid more attention to the other party's thoughts.

I wish you happiness....