Solve problems in dealing with people and things

First of all, I personally feel that you are a very thoughtful person, and it can be said that you are one step ahead of your peers in terms of thinking, that is, future planning. If you feel that the people around you are impetuous, it should be that the people around you do not need to worry or be involved in the trivial matters of life for the time being, and they do not have a very clear idea of the future path. If you really want to do something fact, you can do it early, because age doesn't decide what a person should do.

If you're getting ready to do something and you're frequently invited by a friend to have fun, here's what you can do:

1.If you are a familiar bosom friend, you can express your attitude to him, and I believe that as a friend, he will understand you.

2.If it's just a general acquaintance, there's no need to say anything more to him, just find an appropriate excuse to prevaricate.

I believe that you will make a difference in the future, of course, proper communication is inevitable, you have to learn to meet the age of the contract at the right time, it will help to broaden your own network.

What is this, it is just a matter of personal mentality, which shows that it is more mature and knows what needs to be done in the real society.

Everyone has their own way of life, it doesn't matter if it's right or not, it's their own choice, their own life is cold and warm, there is no need to worry, just do what you think is right! Support you 1

This is the case in today's society, but for the mentality that you are built on yourself, if you have the right mentality, it doesn't matter what others do.

No one can help you, you can slowly experience and feel life by yourself.

That's good, I'm like this too, I always think that their entertainment is a waste of time, what to invite guests to dinner, night cats, chats or whatever, I don't like it, but I like to go with my family and lovers, so it's best to do things in a down-to-earth way.

You feel like you're being disturbed, it's actually that you're being excluded, not that you're rejecting the environment, and you have to learn to fit in.

How do you want to do it. There are things to ignore.

In fact, you should make more friends and participate in more social activities.

Think about everything on the side of others, it doesn't matter if you suffer a small loss, don't be too careful, sometimes you are careful, on the surface you are making a small profit, in fact, everyone knows it in their hearts, but they don't say it, and over time you will be gradually alienated.

Hehe, I think you need to think about it seriously, get along with your classmates, sometimes it's not necessarily a bad thing to suffer, maybe at other times your classmates will also suffer a little for you. To put it bluntly, suffering losses can also be said to help each other.

In school, there is no one more reasonable than the teacher, as long as you are right, it doesn't matter what he says, but you have to learn how to do it, but the atmosphere depends on whom.

Relax your mind and think twice before doing things.

More extravagance, less care, kindness-based, know how to be grateful!

Well, I think in terms of dealing with people. Drink casually and don't talk casually. Go all out to persist in your career, and the matter of right and wrong will end.

The main thing is to think about the source of drinking water.

Young people should pay attention to these three aspects and be a cultured person!

Pay attention to details when speaking and doing things, and be polite to people.

Think more about others and think more about others.

1.Be honest and sincere with others 2Be kind 3Be tolerant 4Be empathetic.

First of all, don't be too poor, you can tease, in moderation, at the right time and in the right place. Trouble comes from the mouth, try to talk less and do more. You can't have the heart to hurt others, you can't have the heart to prevent people, and it's good to have a lot of delicate thoughts, but don't think nonsense.

Your question is too general, so I need to go into more detail. For example, what problem do you have now, and how do you need to solve it?

This question is not clear in one sentence, I suggest you read Carnegie's "The Weakness of Human Nature", which is really good

You are a very thoughtful person, and you can achieve something in the language through your own efforts, that is, if you can overcome this personality problem of your own, you are likely to pursue a career in diplomacy in your future career, provided that you are interested.

I don't know what your appearance is, if you have ever had an inferiority complex, if not, then what prevents you from interacting with other people is your inner personality problem. I don't know what your personality is, but I think you should change to a new environment, to a place where no one knows you, if you are a student who is about to go to college, then you are really lucky to have such an opportunity, if not, then you can also find a way to change the environment yourself. For example, a new job.

If you don't want it, you can also talk about it, use your ability - language ability, and make him feel that this job is necessary for you, so that you have taken the first step in language communication. Why change the environment? Because when we interact with acquaintances, we will feel in our hearts that the acquaintance is someone who understands us, and knows our habits and personality, so we will subconsciously produce a situation of no language.

In the case of strangers, we often hope that they can get to know a new self, so we will try our best to show our strengths, and we can also achieve a good communication effect. When you have this habitual acquaintance, and then you are with acquaintances, I believe that your language will be excellent. Come on, you can definitely do it, believe in yourself, it's just a matter of time.

I'm the same way, I think, theory is not very useful, only practice can really change you. Are you still reading? When you are studying, you should study hard, don't think too much, study hard first, after all, you can be yourself in school.

When you graduate, train yourself in society, find a sales job, and work for two years, you will become bold and talkative.