When the family goes to eat a happy event in the countryside, the whole family goes to eat with a gi

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The ancients said that "it is easy to set up a banquet and it is difficult to invite guests", which means that if you set up a banquet and do not have guests, what an embarrassing and embarrassing thing.

If there are no guests, or no people in the village, it means that the family is not good, not only the face of the host, but also the face of the relatives of the bride's family.

Now, with a large number of rural people going to the city to work or live, the rural population is now mostly elderly people in their 60s and children who go to school.

Our village now has set up a red and white ritual committee, and the standard for villagers to hold banquets stipulates that the banquet is not allowed to exceed 200 yuan per table, the wine is not allowed to exceed 50 yuan, and the cigarette is not allowed to exceed 10 yuan. Many villagers invite the villagers to come to the table for dinner early, and the requirement is that the whole family must come. After all, the more you come, the more popular the main family becomes.

Some villagers usually don't help others, and they don't follow the rules too much, and when their own family has a red affair, they end up setting up a lot of banquets but no one comes to eat, which seems very faceless at this time. There was once a villager, when his son got married, there were not a few people in the village, it seemed deserted, and he couldn't see that it was a happy event at all, and even the relatives and friends who came felt that he had no face, and the people of the bride's family saw this situation and were so angry that they wanted to take the bride back.

There is no popularity in the village, which means that the family has a problem with the character or the relationship with the villagers is not handled well, think about who wants to marry their daughter into such a family.

In our village, if there is a happy event, a household is 50 yuan of gift money, but the main family is very happy, the cigarettes are constantly distributed, and the children are a lot of candy, just to be happy and happy.

Therefore, in the countryside, the old saying that it is easy to set up a banquet and difficult to entertain guests has been passed down to the present day and has not become outdated.

Everyone hopes that when a happy event is held, the whole family in the village will come to the banquet, which will be lively and more popular.

Because if you do a happy event in the countryside, everyone is more happy and quick to judge, so there is no limit to the number of people, and the cost of the banquet in the countryside is not high.

In this way, it can reflect that his popularity is relatively strong and the relationship is relatively good. The dishes at the banquet are not particularly high.

Because rural celebrations like to be lively, and they don't care about the amount of gift money, the main family will be very happy.

Because people are doing happy events, we all know that the more people there are, the better, so the more people you go, the more happy he may be, and it doesn't have much to do with how much money you have. The more people you go, the more he will feel that you will give him face, in fact, in the countryside to do happy events is to make a lively, to be happy, everyone is not for making money at all, not for this part of the money.

Doing a happy event is a very happy thing, and most rural people like to make a lot of noise. It's better to be alone than to be happy, and all the relatives and friends around you get together to drink and talk, which is a very happy thing. If you can bring your children and daughters to participate in other people's happy events, this is to give him face.

How can I be unhappy when others give me face like this? I'm doing this to let everyone know that I'm happy and let everyone be happy with me, not to be able to charge you how much money.

Because everyone knows that Li Jun's thing is a gift exchange, how much money you give me, next time your family has a happy event, I will also pay you back. So there is no question of whether to turn or not, that is, to be happy, to be happy. Think about it, if you hold a wedding or a birthday party, and you end up alone, and there are few people who go, will you be happy?

You will feel very hurt and sad about your ambitions, and feel that you are not valued at all.

On the contrary, if you have a lot of friends and relatives who fill your home, you will feel very happy, because everyone will share your joy together, and your joy will be known. And people don't just hold a wedding banquet casually, it is usually something more important, such as getting married, having a child, or the birthday of the elderly, or being admitted to a better university, in this case, it will be held, which is very happy.

Because the ability to do a happy event is a big happy event, at this time I will not care about the money of the gift, and the number of people is very lively and very festive.

The cost of banquets in the countryside is very low, and the family can't eat much, so the host family can still make some money.

Because the main family doesn't care about money, but cares about their pomp and face, they are happy.

When the family goes to eat a happy event in the countryside, the whole family goes to eat with a gift of 200 yuan, and the host family is still very happy. First of all, the banquet is basically wasteful, and you can't finish it anyway, and secondly, the happy event at home is mainly for fun, and you won't mind these. Secondly, it seems that you are a person with good popularity, a huge family, and united relatives.

We found a very strange phenomenon, some people have a happy event at home, and the guests only have 200 gifts, but their whole family goes, but the host is still very happy. In the face of this phenomenon, it is actually very easy to explain.

First of all, the banquet is basically wasteful, and you can't finish it anyway. We know that there are a lot of dishes when the banquet is set, basically there are dozens of dishes at a table, and in the end they are all wasted and cannot be eaten at all. Although some people don't have a lot of money, but the whole family goes, the host will not be angry, but happy, because they know that the table will not be eaten at all.

A few more people are fine, and not every family is like that. Often, only a few people will be like this, so they come to add a pair of dishes and chopsticks.

Secondly, the main purpose of the happy event at home is to be lively, and I don't mind these. In the past, when holding banquets, many people actually went for money, but at that time, they were relatively poor and their living conditions were not good, so everyone would be so picky. Now that the living conditions are better, a happy event is held once in a lifetime, mainly for the sake of excitement.

Many owners don't mind this, after all, it's a little money, and it's a big deal to do a happy event at home.

Secondly, it seems that you are a person with good popularity, a huge family, and united relatives. If there are a lot of guests, it will seem that you are very popular, and your family is so large, and there are many relatives and friends. These people are tantamount to coming to increase the atmosphere, and they are also here to give the master a long face.

For the owner, this day is a very special day, they will not worry about it, relatively speaking, the pattern of the owner's house is still relatively high.

The above is the reason why this situation occurs, and the owner is still very happy.

1.Although it is a rural banquet, many of them are now directly in the farmhouse, or a mobile restaurant, the host will generally set 2 more tables to prepare, but many times, not only these two tables are empty, but the number of reserved tables is also a lot of seats.

2.After all, everyone was relatively poor at that time, and there were some radishes, tofu, broad beans and the like on the banquet, and now people's living conditions are good, what they want is a lively, and it doesn't matter if they have money or not. The more people there are, the happier they are.

Because it's more lively. In the countryside, the banquet is lively, and the cost of the banquet is not high, and the whole family goes to eat at the host's house with a gift of 200 yuan.

The main reason is that unless there are people in the countryside who have a good relationship, there are generally very few gifts, and 200 yuan is already a lot of levels.

It's because there are good things in the main family, and many people can't occupy a banquet in their family, and the ** of a banquet is up to 200 yuan.

This shows that the popularity of the main family is relatively good, which can make the scene very prosperous and lively, and it is a very face-saving thing.

It's a great opportunity to communicate, and it's easy to have a party, and you can also meet your own relatives, and you will naturally have a lot of fun.

When the rural party does a happy event, the guest goes to eat with a gift of 200 yuan, and the main family is very happy, first of all, the rural party does a happy event, and the more people there are, the more lively it is. Secondly, marriage is a big deal, and everyone generally doesn't get angry because of this kind of small money. In addition, the more people, the better the popularity of the owner's family.

We will find a very strange phenomenon, rural people do happy events at home, and the guests who come here do not have much money, and the whole family comes, and the host family is still very happy. I think in the eyes of the host, more money and less money are not the most important thing on this day, the most important thing is to make this happy event lively. Specifically, I think there are three reasons.

First of all, when holding happy events in rural areas, the more people there are, the more lively they are. In the rural areas, happy events must be lively, and they must not be deserted or cold. If your relatives and friends are all out of the family, then there will be a lot of people at the wedding, and they will feel that their wedding is very grand and magnificent.

For those who are particularly particular about façade, they like to be in this situation.

Secondly, marriage is a big deal, and everyone generally doesn't get angry because of this kind of small money. Many people will think that marriage is a major event in life, and they generally do not worry about some small things on this day. If the other party doesn't have much money for gifts, it doesn't matter, people just come to drink the wedding wine, and it doesn't cost much more.

If you are calculating everything so clearly, it will seem too stingy.

In addition, the more people, the better it proves that the owner's family is only a group loss. If everyone comes to their house to eat and drink, it proves that it is to give their family face, and their family is good, so they can attract so many guests. Some invitations were sent out, but there were few guests who came to eat and drink, so it was very embarrassing.

This clearly shows that he has a poor relationship with the local people, and he has a bad relationship with his relatives in the neighboring gods, so everyone does not come to support him. Therefore, in the eyes of the hosts, this is a good opportunity to show their popularity in the local area.

The above is the reason why the whole family goes to eat and the owner is happy.

This is due to the fact that everyone is very happy in the countryside and it is a happy event, even if you don't follow the ceremony, you are also a reward to the main family, so the Otomo Oak Dan family expects you to eat their things, and does not care how much you give the gift.

Because the large number of people is more lively, everyone is lively and crowded when they do happy events.

This means that their relationships are very good, so many people are very happy.

First of all, people are in good spirits when they are happy, and they do happy things for people living in rural areas, which is a good thing for their ancestors, neighbors, relatives and friends gather together to share happiness and celebrate together. In rural China, the villagers' committee is a grass-roots administrative unit, and then subdivided into groups or teams, and the residents in the same group are more like a big family. The long-standing pattern of rural life has gradually become a local custom in the future.

There is no legal constraint, and there is no participation of **, people act spontaneously. Happy events with a toast, everyone blesses together, enjoy a few days without worrying, with the gift of 200 hearts, the main family is only to treat everyone. No matter how much money you have, it's just a symbol of reciprocal gifts, and you won't take it too seriously.

In the countryside, the popularity of the peasants is the first priority, if a person's popularity is not good, there will be no one at some happy banquets, and others will look down on and see jokes. Especially when the children in the family get married and wait for the other party's guests to come, if you see a lot of people in the main family, it is very grand, it indicates that the main family is prosperous.

If there are fewer people in the main family, this will give people the feeling that the prestige of the main family in the village is not high. Therefore, from a subjective point of view, when doing a happy event, the host family especially hopes that the more people, the better, after all, entering a well-off society today, the host family does not care about a bite of food, and the guests don't care about a bite of food, mainly because people's living standards are good, and the pursuit of some higher levels of slag. Therefore, the main reason why the host wants the whole family to come to dinner is mainly because of his own face.

After all, the more people there are, the more light they have on their faces, and the less people they have, they naturally can't hang on their faces.

Of course, in the past, rural people were still very simple, and no matter how many guests came to their own happy events, they would make everyone eat delicious and happy, and they didn't care about a small loss in the economy. But now the favor is getting thinner and thinner, and everyone is beginning to calculate the economic account, but the favor account will not be ignored, after all, it is a happy event, what is wrong with more people, of course it is happy.