For rural people who stay in the city all the year round, where is the best wedding banquet?

I think it's better to do it in the village, because although you stay in the city, your friends and relatives are in your hometown, so you should go back to your hometown.

I think it's better to have a banquet in the city, because you're used to staying in the city, and it's more decent to have a banquet in the city.

I think both are okay, you can discuss with your other party, in the city it may be more decent, and it will be more convenient, but ** is also relatively high, but in the countryside ** low and if you often chat with the people in the village, get together, it is still conducive to your relationship.

In the past, rural people would always invite chefs, buy ingredients, and organize their own banquets for all happy occasions. There are a lot of people, a big scene, and a lively scene. In recent years, there have been more and more rural children getting married and holding banquets in the city.

In their words, do it at home, troublesome. Is that really the case? In fact, it is more decent to hold a marriage in the city.

Generally speaking, there are three types of people who hold weddings in the city:

First, after the children have finished college, under the serious employment principle of "everyone must take the exam", they have really jumped out of the "agricultural gate" and become within the system. They moved to the city with their hukou and did official work, and the targets of the punishment were also public officials. Universities have expanded, and it is common for those who are admitted to universities to be admitted to the countryside, but there are still very few people engaged in public office.

The children's weddings were held in the city, which gave them enough face.

Second, there will always be a few people in a village who run factories, contract workers, and do business, and they have already lived in the city, but they cannot enter the city with their hukou, and they have become "urban people" who are not in the city. However, in the countryside where they live, they can be regarded as beautiful people, "successful people". Not all of their children were on business, and their weddings were not held in the city.

They will also invite neighbors from door to door, just to let everyone see that he is "different". After all, the consumption level of the hotel is not something that ordinary farmers can afford, and only they are "wealthy", which is their "confidence".

3. In recent years, the money of the rural people has been rising steadily, and there are many names, such as housewarming, going on to higher education, and even being assigned a job, all of which are "great joys." If there is "joy," they will be congratulated, and all congratulations will be accompanied by gifts. It cannot but be said that money has become a hidden burden for the peasants. Some peasants also "followed the trend" to hold weddings for their children and went to the city to charter banquets.

In the countryside and in the city, there is a big difference in the amount of money between people and people. In the village, you can take out 50 yuan, and in the city, you can get at least 100 yuan. As everyone knows, the money itself is "interchangeable", and holding a wedding in the city is really a bit of a circle of money.

Folk marriage and wine are not considered marriages. A man and a woman who wish to marry must register their marriage in person at the marriage registration office and obtain a marriage certificate, that is, establish the relationship between husband and wife. Therefore, the man and woman who have registered their marriage are considered to be married.

Legal basis: Article 1049 of the Civil Code of the People's Republic of China stipulates that a man and a woman who request marriage shall apply for marriage registration in person at the marriage registration authority. Where the provisions of this Law are met, they shall be registered and a marriage certificate shall be issued.

Marriage registration is completed, i.e., the marriage relationship is established. Where marriage registration has not been completed, the registration shall be re-registered.

Legal Analysis: Civil marriage and wine are not considered marriage. A man and a woman who wish to marry must register their marriage in person at the marriage registration office and obtain a marriage certificate, that is, establish the relationship between husband and wife. Therefore, a man and a woman who have registered their marriage are considered married.

Legal basis: Article 1049 of the Civil Code of the People's Republic of China Article 1049 A man and a woman who wish to marry shall apply for marriage registration in person at the marriage registration authority. Those who meet the requirements of the Ming Dynasty shall be registered and a marriage certificate shall be issued.

Completing the marriage registration is to establish the marriage relationship. Where marriage registration has not been completed, the registration shall be re-registered.

To get married, you need to worship heaven and earth, "one worships heaven and earth, two worships the high hall, and husband and wife worship each other", which is a marriage custom that has been passed down for thousands of years. "Gaotang" is the honorific title of parents and ancestors, and parents get married wherever they are.

1. Marriage in rural areas is not to get a marriage certificate to prove that you are married, but to hold a banquet before you get married.

Legally speaking, the two registered their marriage and got the marriage certificate to be a legal couple. However, in rural areas, it is generally called marriage when a banquet is held, and a wedding witnessed by relatives, friends, and neighbors is called. Young people in rural areas first get a marriage certificate, and then hold a banquet, and only after the banquet is held is it called marriage.

According to the traditional concept of rural areas, a woman's first time is for her husband, and only after holding a rural banquet can she enter the cave house, and the woman who enters the cave room is a man. In many rural areas, only the banquet is recognized, and the marriage certificate is not recognized. There are also cases in rural areas where a banquet is held ("married"), but the marriage certificate is not applied for until a few years later.

In some rural areas, regardless of whether you have a license or not, holding a banquet is a marriage, and you are a "legal" husband and wife.

2. I have bought a house in the city, but I have a house in my hometown in the countryside, and I usually hold a banquet in the countryside.

Nowadays, many young people in rural areas have bought houses in the cities, but they still hold banquets in their rural hometowns. Holding a banquet at home is to announce to the neighbors in the countryside that "we are married". Nowadays, many young people will also do this, holding a banquet in their rural hometown to invite relatives and friends, and will also hold a banquet in the city to invite colleagues, classmates and friends.

The purpose of the banquet is to tell friends and family that "we are married".

3. Relatives and friends in rural areas are more willing to participate in banquets held in rural hometowns.

In the local countryside of Xinrui Ecology, the wedding banquet takes three days. There is a banquet the day before the wedding. The night before the wedding, my mother's uncle was to sit at the table.

The day before the wedding was mainly attended by the mother's maiden family, with only a few tables of guests. On the day of the wedding, all family and friends attend the banquet, and there are usually dozens of tables of guests on the wedding day. Rural banquets are held at home to have a more atmosphere, more lively and festive.

Nowadays, more and more people are holding banquets directly in the hotel, only one meal. In fact, the cost of holding a banquet in a hotel is not low, and the cost of running a banquet in a hotel is similar to that of running a banquet in a rural hometown. However, eating at the hotel feels like a dinner party, and there is no lively atmosphere like a traditional wedding.

I was reluctant to attend a wedding reception in a hotel.

Conclusion: In the local countryside of Xinrui Ecology, if you have a house in your hometown in the countryside, you generally hold a banquet according to traditional customs, which is more lively and more atmospheric.