Should the wedding wine be done in the hometown or in the field?

There are several factors to consider when it comes to whether the wedding wine should be done in your hometown or in another place.

First of all, the wedding wine in the hometown can follow the local wedding customs, and it also makes it easier for family and friends to participate in it. Having a wedding in your hometown can also make it easier for people in your hometown to share the joy and happiness of the couple.

However, if family members and friends are scattered in different places or are unable to attend for other reasons, then having a wedding in a foreign country is also a good option. Holding a wedding in a foreign country can make it easier to invite more friends and colleagues to attend, and it can also better show the personality of the couple.

All things considered, whether to do it in your hometown or in another place needs to be decided according to the couple's personal circumstances and preferences. If the couple wants to make it easier for family and friends to participate, or if it is more in line with local wedding customs, they can choose to hold it in their hometown; If newcomers want more people to participate, or it is more convenient for them to show their personality, they can choose to do it in the field.

The wedding wine is done in your hometown, but your home is three hours away from your hometown, so if you want to invite friends and colleagues. There may be some people who have the time to attend and some who don't.

In any case, you need to arrange a vehicle to transport these colleagues and friends in advance. Or it's better to send a notification through WeChat Moments. Then the colleagues around me directly told them that everyone is welcome to participate.

Don't send someone alone to make sure that you're hard and easy to miss.

After you let everyone know, whoever wants to come can come, but I think it's best to have a banquet at the place where you work. This makes it easy for everyone to congratulate. And lest everyone waste a lot of time to eat, a six-hour round trip is equivalent to wasting a day's time.

1. Hold a banquet.

If the couple is in a different place but for budget and other considerations, only one wedding banquet, most of them are mainly in the man's house, the distance between the two is within a controllable driving range, you can consider picking up relatives from the mother's house, if the distance is particularly far, it is recommended to carry out the kissing ceremony at the hotel.

In the case of only one wedding banquet, the woman's family generally only needs to invite her parents, close relatives and close friends to attend.

2. Organize two banquets.

Most of the newlyweds in different places choose to hold two wedding banquets, that is, the main wedding banquet hosted by the man's family and the homecoming banquet of the woman's family.

The main wedding banquet includes all the ceremonies of the wedding, and the return banquet is slightly simpler, and the bride can also wear a wedding dress, but ceremonies such as exchanging rings and taking oaths are basically not needed.

The advantage of the two banquets is that they can fully take into account the relatives and friends of both the couple's families, and they will not miss the invitation and do not have to make the mother's family tired.

3. Organize three banquets.

If you have the budget, you can go back to your city for a small party after the main wedding and homecoming dinner.

Invite colleagues and friends who can't attend the first two sessions, which are smaller and are mostly a gathering of friends of the same age.

The order of the banquet for long-distance marriage.

According to the three wedding banquet methods sorted out above, except for the gathering of colleagues and friends must be held last, the order of the main wedding banquet and the homecoming banquet is actually not uniform according to local customs.

In most areas, it may be that after the main wedding banquet is held at the man's house, the man's family will have a homecoming banquet, but I understand that there are still some places where there is a saying of "marrying first and then marrying", which means that only after the woman's family has held a banquet to marry the daughter, the man's family can have a daughter-in-law to marry.

First, confirm whether both parties want it.

Do. If the woman does not do it, she can do it directly at the man's house. Second, if both parties want to do it, they will marry first and then marry according to the "marriage" method, as the name suggests, that is, the woman will do it first, and then the man.

If I heard "marry", then I can't help it. The process is like this: the woman holds a banquet and waits for the man's family to come to "pick up the kiss", and then the man comes to "kiss", and then the woman can send someone to "marry" the man, and then it is "to visit the church to get married".

According to tradition, of course, it was done at the man's house first! I've also been to many weddings, some of them from different places. I've never heard of one that was first done at the woman's house.

First the woman, then the man, because then the woman will not have to go back to the man's side, of course, if you get into trouble, you will say otherwise.

It still depends on how you two discuss, generally have a light meal at the woman's house at noon, drive the wedding car to the man's house in the afternoon, and eat the main banquet at the man's house in the evening. Now some people want to save money, in order to save money, they directly hold a dinner at the man's house, and relatives and friends from both sides come to the man's house. It depends on what the customs are like over there, and that's the case on our side anyway.

It's usually the man first, but now they're all open-minded, and they're negotiating, congratulations!

Generally, it is done at the woman's house first, and then at the man's house.

First, after the ceremony is held by the man, he chooses a day to go back to the woman's house and invite a few tables.

In different places, it doesn't matter, it's okay over there, as long as it's not the same day.

Legal analysis: Marriage certificates cannot be handled in different places. According to the laws of China, marriage must be completed by both men and women at the marriage registration authority where one of the parties has a permanent residence.

If you need to hold the shirt, you must bring your household registration booklet and ID card; I have no spouse and no direct blood relatives with the other party, and I have signed a declaration of collateral blood relationship within three generations.

Legal basis: Article 4 of the Regulations on Marriage Registration of a Mainland resident shall go through the marriage registration registration at the marriage registration authority at the place where one of the parties has a permanent residence. Where a Chinese citizen marries a foreigner in Chinese mainland, or a mainland resident marries a Hong Kong resident, Macao resident, Taiwan resident or overseas Chinese in Chinese mainland, both men and women shall jointly go to the marriage registration authority at the place where the mainland resident has a permanent household registration to complete the marriage registration.

Marriage formalities are generally not allowed in other places. According to the relevant laws and regulations, when a mainland resident marries, both the man and the woman shall jointly go to the marriage registration authority in Qingdi, Mozhou, where one of the parties has a permanent residence, to register the marriage. In addition, for those who meet the requirements for marriage, the marriage registration authority shall register them on the spot and issue a marriage certificate.

Marriage Registration Ordinance

Article 4. When a mainland resident marries, both the man and the woman shall go to the marriage registration authority at the place where one of the parties has a permanent residence to register the marriage.

Marriage Registration Ordinance

Article 5. Mainland residents who apply for marriage registration shall present the following documents and supporting materials:

1) The person's household registration booklet and ID card;

2) A signed statement that he or she has no spouse and no direct blood relatives or collateral blood relatives within three generations with the other party.

Marriage Registration Ordinance

Article 7. The marriage registration authorities shall examine the documents and supporting materials issued by the parties to the marriage registration and inquire about the relevant circumstances. Where the parties meet the requirements for marriage, they shall be registered on the spot and a marriage certificate shall be issued;

Where the parties do not meet the requirements for marriage and are not registered, the reasons shall be explained to the parties.