How is the wedding banquet good? How to decide on the wedding banquet

Marriage is a major event in life. ......The wedding must be grand, festive and warm! ......Therefore, the wedding banquet should be full of friends to ......Your friends and colleagues should be among those invited to the wedding feast.

This kind of wedding is the most complete and festive!

So, ideally, at the wedding banquet on your wedding day, your friends, colleagues, your relatives and friends, all present. Everyone gather for a drink and send ......blessings to your newlywedsThat's at its best!

As for the situation where you and your husband are in a different place, and you have been working outside for a long time, and your friends and colleagues are far away from your home, ......You should hold a wedding ...... closer to your family, friends, and colleaguesAlthough this is not as satisfying as holding a wedding banquet on the wedding day or in the local area, it is also the most realistic way to ......

As for some relatives, friends and colleagues who are far away and it is inconvenient to rush over, then there is no way to ......It's hard to ...... everythingDo your best......

The question of the invitation ......Send out the ...... as soon as possibleLet friends and family get invited in advance, so they can plan their trips!

Wedding Booking Strategy 1, Confirm Attendance

In order to be able to accurately plan and prepare, the number of tables and some wedding supplies for the wedding banquet, etc., before booking the wedding banquet, it is necessary to personally confirm the number of guests attending the wedding, and personally call ** to confirm with the guests whether to attend the wedding banquet, which is not only sincere but also more direct; If the couple's own energy is not enough to take care of each guest, they can also spread the work to relatives and friends to handle it on their behalf, but the final result must be accurate, so as not to cause embarrassment and excessive waste.

Wedding Banquet Strategy 2: Accurately grasp the booking of wedding banquets

Even after confirming with the guests, a few more tables will be planned for a wedding banquet in case of emergency. Kai Zheng is not sure that you are sure that there are eighteen tables, then you can book twenty tables with the hotel. Because the general wedding banquet is arranged on a working day, there may not be many people attending the wedding banquet, and if the wedding banquet is arranged on a holiday, there will be many more guests attending the wedding banquet, so this requires the newlyweds Cong Shan to reconfirm the number of attendees in the week before the wedding banquet.

Wedding Engagement Strategy 3, The dishes of the wedding banquet do not need to be too many

It is impossible to eat all the dishes and drinks for the wedding banquet, but in order not to cause a lot of waste and the guests are already full of wine and food, it is recommended that the newlyweds book the wedding banquet dishes according to the popularity, but the number of dishes must be even numbered, and some names with good meanings can be used as the dishes of the wedding banquet, so that the guests will be very happy when they enjoy it, and it also reflects the couple's own intentions.

Wedding Engagement Strategy 4, the choice of wedding banquet price

Nowadays, there are many wedding hotels around the world, and there are endless ones of different scales and grades, so it is necessary for couples to shop around before booking, so as to find out the most suitable for themselves, and it is also the most moderate to use as their own wedding hotel, and avoid comparison and excessive waste.

Precautions for wedding banquets

1. Be sure to arrive early to attend the wedding banquet, especially if the important wedding banquet guests are late, it will not be good to affect the wedding banquet time.

2. Generally speaking, the bride wears a wedding dress in the wedding, and must not steal the limelight of the bride, the bride will generally wear both a Western-style wedding dress and a Chinese-style dress, and do not wear white or very light beige series and bright red. If the bride asks for it, it can be a different story. Women must be careful not to dress more than the bride, no matter how beautiful they are.

3. But don't dress casually, dress unneatly, because this is a major event in the life of the newcomer, and dressing neatly is the basic respect for the owner. The attire for the male guests is simple: suits, shirts and ties. Women's suits, dresses are fine.

4. Guests attending the wedding banquet are free to the host and accept the host's arrangement. In particular, some friends pay more attention to the number of seats at the banquet, and if they cannot be arranged according to the host's arrangement, it may cause unpleasantness.

Wedding banquets can be booked as follows:

1. Reservation time for banquet. Generally speaking, the wedding hotel should be booked as soon as possible, especially when the couple sets the wedding banquet on holidays or the peak period of marriage, at least 3 to 6 months in advance, otherwise it is difficult to book a suitable and satisfactory hotel.

2. Ensure that the hotel is convenient and convenient. When choosing a wedding hotel, couples should consider the geographical environment of the hotel and ensure that there is convenient transportation and enough parking space around the hotel to facilitate relatives and friends to attend the wedding reception.

3. Ask about the specific items and services included. There are many items provided by the hotel and they are also very miscellaneous, so when the newlyweds are in the wedding banquet, they must ask what are the free services provided by the hotel and what are the charging items, so as to better protect their rights and interests and avoid indiscriminate charges in the later stage.

4. Incorporate the details of the discussion into the contract. When the couple discusses the details of the wedding banquet with the hotel, they must write down the details, and when signing the contract, the discussed details will be included in the contract, so as to better protect their rights and interests in the later stage.

5. The wedding banquet is general**. Different levels of banquets have different **, therefore, the wedding banquet** also depends on the budget of the couple in this regard. The banquet is lit up in front of each table**, and there are three grades of general faith.

With so much banquet costs, in fact, many people don't make money anymore, relying on the money to collect less than 200,000 yuan. Many young people think it's not worth it, thinking that it is better to use the money for the banquet to travel and get married, or directly use it to buy a house and a car. Then, the banquet is like a clown performance I don't know why, my country's wedding, especially the city's wedding, the kind held in the hotel, the whole process is very weird, although the married couple is the protagonist, but in the process, they are like a small shed clown standing on the stage to show others, and the host will try his best to make the bride and groom cry, it seems that this is how the two are in love.

The groom wants to tell the bride and the bride's parents and even relatives and friends on the stage, and the bride is the same, it is very embarrassing to watch, and only the parties will be moved, and the guests at the bottom only think about whether they can serve the food early, and withdraw after eating, as for what is said on the stage, no one cares. For many people who are more socially phobic, holding such a wedding is simply torture, and crying on stage is even more embarrassing enough to pull out a three-bedroom living room. For this kind of clown-style wedding, more and more young people feel disgusted and don't want to do it.

Secondly, it is too tiring to hold a banquet People who have never held a wedding banquet do not know that it is actually very tiring to hold a banquet, especially a banquet held in a hotel. It is necessary to go to the hotel many days in advance to order the dishes, to set the number of tables, to arrange the seats where everyone sits, and not to exceed the budget. In order to get the beauty of the wedding chain, I have to communicate with the wedding planning company many times about what decorations to place on the spot, and many decorations even have to be purchased online.

In fact, these wedding decorations are all disposable, but in order to look good, you have to spend a lot of money to buy them. In order to make the wedding process less monotonous, you have to think about what performances to include when you get married, and even rehearse in advance. After a series of processes, it is really tiring, and in fact, the guests don't care about such a wedding, they only care about whether the money paid can be eaten back at the table.

Finally, it is easy to have contradictions when running a banquet, which requires a lot of communication between the bride and groom, which tests the patience and money of two people. There are too many details to consider in the wedding, and it is easy to have conflicts because of the different concepts of two people, such as the arrangement of seats, the procurement of on-site decorations, etc., and the tedious work will wear down people's patience. In fact, there are many couples who have to divorce because of conflicts when they are organizing weddings, and these contradictions will feel completely unnecessary in hindsight.

First, do a good job of reception It is best to roughly classify the guests, such as Xinyang's classmates and colleagues, the bride's classmates, colleagues, friends, the man's parents, the man's relatives, and the woman's relatives, and in these categories of people, find one or two in advance, before the banquet begins, come early, help to receive the guests according to their classification, so as to ensure that everyone has someone they know to receive, and at the same time, it is also to mobilize the power of the masses to do a good job in the reception work.

2. Count the guests According to the above method, after dividing the categories, the guests who can participate will be able to make a maximum number of statistics, and then book the number of banquet tables with this number, and then in the category of people who are more concentrated or relatively few people, leave pants and hail as a mobile table to ensure that when there are people can be arranged, when no one can rest the food.

3. Item management This is to mobilize relatives at home to help. Generally, near the entrance to the banquet, find a relatively conspicuous position, place this item, and in order to manage the knot items, in addition to one person guarding there to distribute the hotel waiter**, it is best to ask a Hu Fan at each table to ask if you need to add wine, at this time, you will naturally hand over the excess to them to put away.

Fourth, more tidbits During the wedding, more interactive performances or small programs should be interspersed to increase some attraction and turn diners into spectators. When the wedding is expected to end, the host should come to the door in advance to see off the guests, and when sending off the guests, you can give out some worthless souvenirs such as postcards made of children's wedding photos, or give a wedding candy or something, try to add a little auxiliary action to show goodbye.

I am. Acceptable.

1. It is a personal choice to do a banquet or not, there must be a marriage without a banquet, but now there are more and more young people who have this idea, which does not mean that this idea is wrong, everyone has their own choice, if both the couple feel that there is no problem, and the parents have no opinion, they can naturally not hold a banquet.

2. There is no explicit provision that marriage must have a banquet, so marriage can be a matter of two people, and it does not hinder the lives of others.

The reason why you won't regret not holding a banquet when you get married.

1. Will regret: Some people think that they don't hold a banquet when they get married, and they can't come back with gifts over the years. Of course, this kind of thinking is understandable, but in some places, the gift itself is relatively small, so there is not much significance in blocking it, and now there are also some places that have begun to not accept the gift, or according to the region.

2. Will regret: Another reason for regret is that for many people, they still don't understand that they don't hold a banquet when they get married, and they will inevitably be pointed at.

3. No regrets: The wedding banquet is a huge expense, and there are many more expenses for the newlyweds to form a new small family after getting married, so if you don't hold a banquet, the money saved can be used elsewhere.

4. No regrets: Nowadays, young people are busy with work, and it is difficult to find time to prepare for weddings and hold weddings.