I don t have any friends and no one attends my wedding when I get married, what should I do?

For a couple, it is a very sacred and happy thing to walk into the wedding hall hand in hand, the most indispensable thing to hold a wedding is to invite your good friends to attend your wedding, but not everyone has too many friends, no matter what the reason, no friends to their own wedding is a very big problem, so how to solve it, then let's give you some guidance!

1. Try a tourist wedding

Because you may not have any friends worth inviting, if you and your other half are open enough and don't care so much about the inherent wedding form, then you can try a tourist wedding, no one comes to the wedding and saves some of the wedding expenses, it is better to take this money two people to travel together, while looking at the beautiful scenery, while enjoying the good time of the two, this is also a good way to kill two birds with one stone.

Of course, instead of ordinary weddings through tourist weddings, it is best for both parties to discuss well with their respective parents, and communication is a more accurate way!

2. Try to narrow down the rules of the wedding

If you don't have too many friends around you to attend, why not try to reduce the size of the wedding and invite your closer relatives and friends to hold a small but exquisite wedding? Make the scale of the wedding a little smaller, and you can also make your expenses less large, and the exquisite and beautiful wedding will make the couples more meaningful. And getting married and holding a wedding is a thing to make yourself happy, even if you don't have any friends to attend, don't be too concerned, after all, it's not your best friend, and it's not often a good wedding to invite your relatives and friends!

Regardless of some traditional parents, reducing the size of the wedding is a not very good thing, after all, it is inevitable that the parents who marry their daughter will feel uncomfortable and feel that they may treat their daughter badly.

However, if your parents insist on holding a relatively large-scale wedding, and the result of your discussion with your parents is not good, and you can't argue, then you can go to the wedding company to try it, such as some services such as finding bridesmaids and groomsmen, and the wedding company will have such services. So this can avoid having fewer friends and no groomsmen and bridesmaids, and you can also add money to call each other more people. However, if you have few friends at the wedding, you can also ask your parents to invite their friends to participate, so that there are many people attending the wedding.

Personally, I feel that when you get married, you can call your best friend or a friend you keep in touch with, or let your friend call other friends to join you.

Don't worry too much at this time, and the wedding is an occasion for family reunions, and having more friends does not mean that the wedding scene will be particularly warm, the most important thing is the relationship between the other half.

You can go for a travel wedding so you don't need friends and relatives to come, and you won't be too embarrassed.

I just love weddings where there is no one but me and my wife.

What beans are planted and what fruits are obtained, people are sophisticated, and courtesies are exchanged, you should reflect on whether these people are friends or not? Is it a conversation at the wine table or a true friend? If it's just a so-called friend at the wine table, it's okay not to come.

If you are a sincere friend, you have to consider the environment they are in, far away from your home, or because you can't come because of work, if the person doesn't arrive, the red envelope can be reasonable. If you don't even have a red envelope, then these people are not friends.

Also, how do you treat people, whether they are colleagues or friends, if someone has something, do you also follow the gift and can participate? If you don't have either, sorry, it's normal for no one to attend your wedding, because you don't care about others, so how can others care about you?

1. When you get married, you have very few friends.

For most people, most of the people who come to get married are in the relationship between their parents. You can have one or two tables in your own relationship, and it won't affect the scene. Add in your relatives who don't know you well, and your wedding ceremony will have dozens, or even hundreds.

So without a few hundred friends, it's a relatively normal state!

2. What should I do if my friends rarely get married?

If you feel embarrassed that you have few friends, you can completely abandon the traditional wedding ceremony. You can travel and get married, and then invite a few friends and good relatives to dinner after you come back. At this time, there are no embarrassing emcees, vulgar songs, and guests who don't know each other but are still polite, and some are just people who sincerely bless you!

If you don't have a wedding ceremony and feel indebted to the bride, you can go abroad for a small and exquisite wedding, or just hold an outdoor wedding in China and only invite familiar friends. Anyway, the venue is small, and the sense of ceremony is full, which can avoid the embarrassment of having few friends.

2. What if you don't have a friend to be a bridesmaid and groomsman?

If you have few friends, and even find it difficult to choose a bridesmaid or groomsman, you may want to choose some options.

1. My husband's classmates.

If you don't have a bridesmaid on your side, you can find a classmate from your husband's side who everyone knows as a bridesmaid. In the same way, the best man can also find a friend on his wife's side.

2. Colleagues and friends destroy which slippery.

If you are not married to a colleague in the company, who is younger than you and has a good relationship, you can ask her to help be a bridesmaid.

3. Find a wedding company.

If you can't find the bridesmaids and groomsmen, you can slow down and ask the wedding company for help. They have a dedicated group of bridesmaids and groomsmen, but the service fee is more expensive.

4. Own relatives.

If you don't mind the local customs, you can find your own cousin or cousin as a bridesmaid. Not only are they close, but they are also familiar with their relatives and friends who are present.

As long as the two are married voluntarily and sincerely in love, heaven and earth can testify, and the Zheng Juji is a legal marriage. It's better than any etiquette.

It is recommended that the wedding should be held according to the opinion of the woman's family, and the wedding is not just a simple formality.

The problem that the subject is worried about is actually not to worry about at all. It's good to invite you to send it out according to the normal process, it's their business to come or not, I believe that if the person you invite still thinks that you are a friend, then it will naturally come, even if the person is not there, I believe it will be polite, if you are really worried that there are not a few people coming, then you can also explain the situation to the woman's side first, and you can barely get embarrassed.

Also, getting married is a matter of two people. Not only invite your relatives and friends, but also the woman's side to invite, maybe your relatives and friends will not come to many people, but it does not mean that the woman's side is in the same situation as you.

Again, invite you to do it, and you agree to the wedding. Don't worry about the rest, there are things that you can't decide alone. People should do things, obey the destiny of God, more of a person's attitude to do things, whether successful or not, should try first, if you worry a lot or have concerns, you can try to communicate with the other party to solve.

You can travel to get married, and if you are more open and don't want to be bound by a traditional wedding, you can get married on the way to travel. Not only does it not have many troubles from friends, but it can also reduce the tedious preparation for marriage. Traveling to get married will not only allow you to fully enjoy the world for two, but also enjoy the stunning natural scenery.

If your parents insist on holding a relatively large-scale wedding, you can go to the wedding company to find bridesmaids, groomsmen and other services. In this way, you can avoid having fewer friends and no groomsmen and bridesmaids, and you can even add money to call each other more. However, if you don't have many friends at the wedding, you can also ask your parents to invite friends.

Even if you don't have a few friends, you have to set a threshold when inviting someone to a wedding, because the cost of the wedding reception is high. If you just invite someone who has an ordinary relationship, or even doesn't chat with each other for eight lifetimes, the other party will only come to eat and drink. There is also a cost to make up the number of people, and the cost of the wedding cannot be increased because of face.

That's a bit of a strange idea. Do you choose because you don't have friends? Abandon your girlfriend and avoid marriage.

Marriage is a place to give your girlfriend a place to rely on. There aren't many classmates and friends, at least there should be relatives! Relatives cheered.

Isn't that great, too.

I'm afraid that it doesn't matter if you don't have classmates and friends, please former classmates, a little better, generally won't refuse, and colleagues such as the company, as long as you are not bad, you can also be invited, and then there are relatives and siblings such as your relatives, it is okay, how can you be afraid of not being lively, it's a big deal that colleagues and classmates don't be courteous, and invite them to dinner.

I'm now. Suddenly, there was this distress.,Closed myself for many years after graduation.,Buckle to look at the class group.,Found that a lot of people aren't friends.,Of course, it's not for gift money.,Just hope to come.,But I found out that they didn't call me when they got married.。。

You don't have any friends, your girlfriend does, and if you don't have friends, you can have no relatives, so you can have a table at your house if no one is around. People get married once, and they don't get married because you don't have any friends.

1. Downsize.

If you have a lot of relatives and friends, it will definitely be a big scene for everyone to hold a wedding, but if you don't have any friends to invite, you might as well reduce the size of your wedding when you hold a wedding. When you have a wedding, you should only invite relatives with whom you have a very good relationship.

2. Professional hiring.

In fact, there are many professional wedding directors, groomsmen and bridesmaids and the like can be hired. If you want your wedding to be lively and you don't have any friends, you might as well consult with a wedding company to see if the professionally hired groomsmen and bridesmaids can meet everyone's needs.

3. Wedding form.

If you don't have any very good friends around you, you might as well consider changing your wedding format instead of choosing the traditional wedding model. For example, you can choose to travel and get married, put aside all the greetings, and enjoy the world that is exclusive to you. At the same time, you can also consider a sacred and solemn wedding such as a church wedding, so you don't need to be noisy with friends.

I don't choose to get married because everyone around me is married. You should try to accept your state.

Because doing so will make your mind a little lighter, which will help you think about what to do next.

You said in the description that your classmates and friends are married, but you are not married, and you don't feel the object that others introduce to you, in fact, you are very likely to feel lonely, feel that you are different, and feel troubled by anyone in this state of life, so you have to try to accept your own state and understand yourself"See"The self who wants to get married but doesn't have the right partner will make you have extra energy to think about other things, otherwise your brain will be flooded with all kinds of negative emotions.

What's more, what makes you do this is in the hope that you will be able to accept yourself and promote yourself to change, which may sound contradictory, but the reality is that it is because change is built on"Allowed"does not change on the basis.

Secondly, I suggest that you look at your state rationally.

When you try to accept yourself, you will most likely have the energy to think about other things, and I suggest that you look at yourself rationally.

Looking at it rationally, I want you to do the following three things:

The first is to understand the objective and rational criteria for choosing a mate, so that it is possible to find a suitable partner.

You said in the description that you don't have a feeling of excitement for the person introduced by others, and you value good looks and height, which is the first step for you to be curious and interested, so have you ever thought about whether such a mate selection criteria are objective and rational, what are the chances of you meeting such a person, and what are the chances that the other party is willing to be with you after you meet.

In this way, it is not to say that your mate selection criteria are wrong, because there is no right or wrong mate selection criteria, but if you want to get married and want to find a suitable partner, you must formulate objective and rational mate selection criteria.

In general, people nowadays don't particularly care about the form of weddings, some people are willing to choose to get married secretly by not having a wedding, while some people choose to travel to get married, and so on. In fact, no matter how you get married, as long as two people really love each other, can share weal and woe, and grow old together, such a marriage is happy. The form of the wedding is important, but the sweet process of marriage is even more rare.

In this case, you can invite neighbors to participate together, so that you can gather the number of people and avoid the embarrassment of a small number of people.

I don't think you have to worry about that, after all, your parents also have a lot of relatives and friends, and these people can hold up the scene very well when they come, so you don't have to worry too much.

I don't think it's okay if there aren't many people participating, because marriage is a matter of two people and two families, and it doesn't have much to do with friends, so if there are fewer people, you can book a few fewer tables and get together between the two families.