My boyfriend s new car, am I angry and slamming the door too much? 30

It is understandable that women will act a little excessively, and men should also be tolerant, even if you slam the car door and he is unhappy, he will communicate with you afterwards. If he deals with it like this, it shows that he has a bad personality and is not tolerant of you enough.

You have an awkward relationship, as a girl can properly lose your temper and make a small temperament, but you should also empathize, your boyfriend just graduated and took out a loan to buy a car, which means that he likes the car very much, just like you saved money for a long time, and then took out a loan to buy a luxury bag, and then your boyfriend rubbed the bag with oil because of the awkwardness with you, maybe he didn't mean it, but he didn't control his emotions because of the trouble, but you may also feel very uncomfortable. But it's not right for your boyfriend to scold you when you accidentally slam the car door and go out, and it's the saddest thing to be scolded by the person closest to you. More communication, more tolerance, feelings can be more harmonious, I wish happiness.

It's not because the car is more important than you, it's because he feels sorry for the money, he just bought it, think about it from another perspective, just like people buy a new mobile phone or anything else they like, they are carefully protected when they first buy it. I'm afraid that I'll touch it, and it'll be fine after it, so don't be too careful, maybe he was angry with you with his unintentional language, don't care too much, he coaxes you to do it.

Well, he's a car lover. And a loan to buy a car. I especially cherish this. So you don't understand. Because the car is not easy.

First of all, in front of the things you care about very much, it is quite excessive, because others may be very precious, but they don't care in your eyes, which makes the other party unacceptable. But at the end of the year, the scolding is not so ugly, this is related to everyone.

It's just a casual swear word. You don't have to worry so much. You can't break it if you fall, how can an iron guy break so easily. It's understandable to cherish your favorite toys, just like someone else touching your makeup. Take a step back and open the sky.

It's all angry! Let's get to know each other, young people! After all, he spent the money and had to repay the loan! For those who have just graduated, this is not a small pressure.

Why crash the car door? Seriously speaking, even if you are married, the men in the family occupy the position of the cadre, the woman occupies the position, the universe is reversed, the yin and yang are unbalanced, the family will be chaotic, the light will be ruined, and the family will be ruined! Women must be gentle and kind in the family, so that they can prosper and help! Ask your child to change it.

Love your car like your life. The car is a man's second wife. It's normal to cherish. Men can skip meals, and cars should be well maintained. These things will still happen. Just pay attention next time. Invite him to dinner and apologize. That's it.

Just kidding, new car. Haven't you heard that Che is another man's wife? Cars and wives are not allowed to be borrowed. It's inevitable to get angry, and you're still arguing, and you're definitely not going to be able to beat the car at this time. When you calm down, the situation will be different.

Look at why you slammed the door.

I think girls can actually understand, as a girl, you must hope that he will consider the problem with your ideas, because you are likely to live with him for a lifetime with his marriage partner, you may be more detailed, you may be angry not because of this car, but because he has clearly discussed it with you before, and you know, and he knows that you don't like this one, or even hate it, but he still buys the car you hate the most, I think as a girl will be angry, I would even think he didn't like you very much, even though it wasn't you who bought the car.

There is no need to distinguish the Accord's car is good-looking, but **too expensive, it is estimated that the boyfriend thinks**can't bear it, so I bought other models, the car is a means of transportation, it doesn't matter if it looks good or not, as long as it is smooth to use, and it is not your own driving. So there is no need to be angry, communicate with him more, and the two of them will get along well together, with less quarrels, fewer contradictions, and more harmony.

Sometimes, men like cars from different angles than women, so if they don't buy it for you, I think we should respect his preferences.

It shows that he doesn't care too much about you. You love him more than he loves you.

Idle, he can buy whatever car he likes, you can buy what you like.

See for yourself, if the door is not loose, or tight, it will be fine.

There should be no equity between him scolding you and not loving you.

It's normal for you to hit his new car and then he scolds you: he just scolds you in a moment's heck!

If he has been very good to you, but only this time he scolded you, I suggest you never take it to heart! Otherwise, you'll regret it for the rest of your life!

Normal, how can there be no quarrel and no awkwardness. Everyone has a small temper and an inexplicable little fire. It's good to be more considerate of each other, man, take the initiative to say sorry. Next time, she won't, and she will even feel sorry for you.

Although it is his fault, you are also at fault and should not leave him.

If you leave him for a few days, you won't think about him, it proves that you really don't love him, and there is always one party to tolerate love.

Normal、The more a girl cares about that boy, the more likely she is to lose her temper。

Why are things angry? A trivial matter or a principled matter? If you always quarrel over trivial matters, both of you should reflect on it, and if neither of you can back down, or only one of you often tolerates it, I advise you to break up as soon as possible.

No matter how much you love each other, you will get tired of always arguing.

The personalities are incompatible and cannot be combined.

No! Are you more pampered and naughty by nature? You'll understand later!

Hello, you're a**!

You and whoever you are both virtuous!! No one dares to ask for you! You don't want to change your temper! You're a cove!

The one who is unhappy and still together is true love.

Whose spoon doesn't touch the edge of the pot, everyone has apologized, what do you want to do, the two of you grew up in different family environments, your views on the problem, must be different, cars and motorcycles still have a run-in period, people apologize you don't accept, you say if it's you, what would you do, of course you chose to escape, you didn't accept people's apologies, how can people follow you home, you have to spare people and spare people, the young man did a good job, if you still like him, don't be too embarrassed for him, The angels will be tired after a hundred times of returning, hoping to help you.

Boys are very face-saving, when your boyfriend apologizes to you, his self-esteem is greatly suppressed, which is very sad to be rejected by you, your boyfriend is very good to you and forgive him.

When the two of them quarrel, there is always one who bows his head first, not that the one who bows his head first must be wrong, but that he loves more, and there is no need to fight for the stumbles in the relationship, as long as you still love him, the little unspoken things are not worthy of being troubled in your relationship!

At the time, I was also angry, but then I thought about it and regretted arguing with you, who can be without fault, I think it's better to forgive him, he loves you very much, wait for you to go home and educate well, quarrel at the head of the bed and at the end of the bed.

Is the car at his disposal? If that's the case, he apologized to you just for the car.

It will haunt you after a quarrel, true love.

At the time, I was also angry, but after thinking about it and regretting it, forgive him and educate him well.

Since the men have bowed their heads first, then accept it.

Be forgiving and forgiving. Don't overdo it.

Unyielding, unyielding, indigestible ......

The first one was stunned, the second thought you would come back, the third was that she had no money to take a taxi, and the fourth she couldn't walk far with a sore foot.

Be careful, what is given to you is yours, not his.

According to his crooked reasoning, if you marry him, it will also be his, and he will drop his things if he wants to, and you will be miserable.

Isn't he afraid of scaring you by doing this?

This person may not have a good temper, you usually pay attention to whether he is more cautious or something, if so, persuade him to let him get rid of his temper tantrum and careful eyes. If you can't change it, break up.

Throwing things is a kind of venting behavior, I think it's not good to do this, it's a potential manifestation of violence, if he doesn't do it often, it's normal to vent once in a while, temper this thing, it depends on your tolerance for him, not that the person who drops things must be a bad person, and the person who doesn't drop things is not necessarily a good person, you have to feel it with your heart.

First of all, I don't know what happened. What the hell is going on? Your boyfriend's usual personality.

Did this go beyond his bottom line? Take myself as an example. There are days every month when I feel the urge to slap my girlfriend to death.

This is true. Because I love her. So I've been putting up with it.

Give her all my understanding. But sometimes things go beyond your bottom line. I still lose my temper.

Although I still confessed my mistake later. So you still have to know this. He usually treats you well.

Don't let a little misunderstanding happen sometimes. Cut off the future. Sometimes just a little bit of understanding is all it takes.

A little bit of tolerance. Maybe he's annoying about something else? Like work?

Family? These are all possible. It's a long and tiring road, but if you don't go, you'll regret it!

It's up to you, and I won't say much about it here. After all, there is a reason for it, and I don't know who is wrong and who is right, and I can't assume that it is his fault just because I fell somethingThe above is just a suggestion.

How did a small behavior mistake come to mind to break up? If the small contradiction is solved, don't want to break up with everything, be generous.

This kind of man is moody, easy to break out, and irritable, you have to think about this problem carefully, otherwise it is likely to be more serious together in the future, and even domestic violence! But even if you break up, you have to deal with it well, otherwise you are likely to be entangled! If it helps you, adopt me, thank you!

Don't be too selfish, being together will hurt you.

If so, even if he gives it to you, will it still belong to him? Love requires mutual understanding and tolerance. You can persuade him not to go on like this. To be angry is to punish oneself by doing something wrong.

Look at what he's angry about.