Emotional problems, tangled and entangled, the masters pass by to help!

Updated on psychology 2024-07-15
19 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    You care about her very much, and every time you quarrel, it ends with your almost begging to be retained, so the two quarrels are commonplace.

    I have also encountered this kind of experience, and the hearts of both of us are very tired and hard in the process. Yes, in the beginning, they all thought they were happy, and it's not surprising that every couple starts out like that. So, my friend, stop being nostalgic and let it go!

    Letting go, it's a relief for you and her, let go when you're not heartbroken, and maybe you can be friends in the future.

    The hardest part of the process is in the first week after the breakup, because you have become accustomed to having her for 3 years, in a way, like quitting smoking. At this time, the most important thing is to keep yourself busy, contact those who can find confidants and friends, invite friends to get together if they can drink, in short, force yourself to get used to a new life without her.

    In the second week, the pain will be a little less, but the important thing is to consolidate and not try any way to contact her, and if she wants to contact you too, you better refuse. Because this is the most critical period for you to find your true self, if you get through it, one possibility is that you are not suitable, letting go is the best choice for both parties, plus the breakup proposed by the other party, you don't have too much responsibility to bear. Another possibility is that the mirror is broken and reunited, but there will be an interesting reversal of the positions of the two of you, that is, you also find yourself, be yourself, like a real man, you can afford to take it and put it down.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    It's okay, you are now in the necessary stage of falling in love, I fell in love with my husband in college, and it has been five years now, we are married, and we used to be the same as you, we quarreled and quarreled, and then we worked, and we didn't spend as much time together as before, so we won't quarrel, you don't have to divide, the three-year relationship is not so easy to break. If your girlfriend really doesn't like you anymore, then you can only go with the flow, I hope you don't share!!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    First: Breaking up, both people are free, and living together at the beginning is the wrong start. If a woman says to break up, maybe she just wants you to care more about her, if she really wants to break up, she won't pay attention to your so-called retention at all, and it feels like a tragedy to be your woman.

    Second: don't break up, from now on, you should tell the opposite sex you contact, you have a girlfriend ......Don't let the ambiguity get bogged down anymore! You can chat with the opposite sex, but don't be ambiguous! This is unforgivable!

    After a long time, the appearance may be just a sheepskin ......If I were your girlfriend's friend, I would persuade her to break up with you! You don't deserve to have her loving ...... aloneFrom the moment you engage in ambiguity......

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Then you ask her very sincerely, if she wants to divide it, then divide it, if she doesn't divide it, of course it's good, it's a very simple question. I've been through it before, and it turns out that she's just making trouble, and that's when you have to ask.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Talk to her honestly, and you need to tie the bell to the bell.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    If you're sure she likes you, go tell her. It's okay if your feelings are wrong, she's ignoring you now.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    You can talk to her about it Well, if you are so suspicious, then you don't like her very much, and you should talk about it clearly, and you should let go of it, and don't hurt people.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    She has been hurt, so it is normal to be instinctively defensive and suspicious, but women are emotionally delicate and sensitive. If you really like and want to be with her, then you will continue to give it wholeheartedly, she will feel it, and after a long time, she will get used to your dedication and existence, and she will gradually accept you. You have to be patient, hehe.

    I wish you all happiness!

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Are you planning to get married? Can your family accept the conditions of the married woman? If you are sure of these two, let's talk about it, don't say anything else, as long as your family promises that you have the idea of getting married again, you can continue, otherwise it's better to forget it and end it quickly.

    Don't say anything, talk about it first, maybe there will be an explosive quarrel that day, or the same point.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I advise you to play and forget it! It's not that you want to give up, it's that you simply can't afford to live in the future.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    It doesn't matter what you do, first of all, you have to think about whether your parents agree with the girl's experience, if not, you have to think about it, if it's neutral then it's up to you, if you really love her, you won't care about anything else about him. And she's supposed to be older than you, right? Are you ready to be a father to other people's children?

    Do you know why he divorced his ex-husband? If you're all OK'Then think about it, and if something goes wrong, don't regret it. Do you want to see if he has any thoughts of marrying you?

    If not, it's easy to say.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    People will always give up dignity and friendship and even give up life for a person in this life, there is no worthiness or not, only whether you are willing or not, if you are willing, it is useless for others to say anything, if you are unwilling, you will be sorry if you like her.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    You can see that you really love her, give her some time.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Love is not about weighing the pros and cons, love is brave enough to say it.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    There is no freshness in being together every day, and only after losing it does I know that I can never live without her, I want to call it back, my lover, but my lover has been in the arms of others, and I am trying to increase the pace of chasing, but I already have him in my heart, hating myself with hatred, asking God and Buddha to ask for friends, but she has been like me smiling at the sky, leaving only innocence in the world without a following, I can only say to you that there was a sincere love in front of you, you did not cherish it, and you regretted it after the loss, The most painful thing in the world is this, if she can give you another chance, you should treat her well, if you still ignore you, you go directly to her, true love is only once, if you miss it, you can never get it back, cherish what you have now, tomorrow will be better.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Your position is inevitably a little too prominent, change it to understand her innermost thoughts, be more considerate of her Both parties should be calm when they encounter things, and let more girls go.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    If you think it's worth keeping, go to her at once, go to her, hug her, and tell her what you want to say, it's as simple as that! Do you dare to do it? If you do it, you won't regret it, so if you don't dare, continue to dwell on it.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    If you don't love it, don't force it! Look at it, and then say you've earned it. It's best to talk about it after graduation. Are there fewer examples of those who have been in love for 4 years and then left separately?!

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    If you really love her, you should chase her back, girls always have to coax and accommodate her, but there must also be a degree!

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