I can t sleep at night, thinking about my hopeless future, who can talk to me?

This article was sent by "you at this stage", I see your current feelings and unhappy, please allow me to say a few words.

1. Why do I say "at this stage", because I am also from the past. Being able to publish this text proves that you are not a person who is content with the status quo, you have your own ideas and goals, but you are now blind, stressed, and thinking too much. It's because you're demanding too much from yourself that these problems arise.

Please take it easy, and your mood will be happy (finding a job is not difficult, and being able to write this text proves that you are not the kind of person who is not high or low).

2. You are the same as me, I also studied in the fourth year of high school (I am worse than you, I also read the fourth year of junior high school), so you should have an advantage. Repetition is not inferior, I understand that the brave (because we work hard for our goals, and the same is true for repeating for a year or two, at most it means that we are born with a slightly lower talent for reading), so please regard repetition as a virtue of your own strength, and a spirit that dares to pursue your dreams the most.

3. When classmates and friends talk about their life plans, please don't get too involved, your role is a listener and an audience. Think about it, your own life, your own direction is swayed by other people's conversations, think about how pathetic you are, being an independent person, the happiest, why care about their words.

4. Whether it's three books or linguistics, how do you know that you can't find a good job? It's not even a year before you officially start working! You haven't even seen it, why are you so unconfident to draw conclusions about yourself!

You are responsible for yourself, so you shouldn't say that you can't do it before you go to the battlefield. And it's not enough to just have a good job. I'll give you a definition of what a good job is:

Good working environment, good development space, good working atmosphere, good working colleagues, good work leaders, good work treatment. That's a good job. So what senior white-collar workers, civil servants, technicians, and a few are engaged in good jobs, give me a choice.

Please: The so-called good job is not judged by what kind of profession or diploma. Rather, it is illustrated by the points I mentioned earlier.

5. As for your boyfriend, it is completely based on the misunderstanding that you are too stressed and superfluous in your own heart, since you choose to be with you, he won't care about you) To put it bluntly, even if you care about this, then there is no need to be a couple, it's not worth it.

What you said is straightforward, there are offends and inappropriate places, please forgive me (just seeing that you have written so much, I just want to say what I want to say).

Why not start a business yourself? Just thinking about working for someone.

Play to your strengths.

The line is the champion.

If you find the right direction, you will not be confused, and if you have a clear goal, you will not be afraid of no direction.

Don't keep thinking about what the world is going to do. And don't always want to get rich overnight, wash and sleep, don't think too much about children. There's a lot to do tomorrow!

What to talk about, enlighten and enlighten you.

Let me talk to you, I feel the same way, I am a sophomore dog in high school.

Do a good job, and it will always make a difference.

There must be a road before the car reaches the mountain, and I don't want to sleep too much.

I used to seem worse than you, but now it's not good.

What did you attend? Junior high school? High school?

I don't know what subject you studied? If you're in a bad mood, talk to me

Once we men fall in love with a girl.

will take yourself out of breath.

Because of the age of real material life. Let love become so vulnerable, although you feel your girlfriend's hard work. But she didn't say anything!

Don't say that giving up at this time will take a long time for us to do business in the future.

Don't rush the difficulties of this time to overwhelm your love career.

I don't even have faith in making myself.

Don't leave your girlfriend now and continue looking for your job, as for what you said, the salary is too low. Actually, it's nothing.

The wage base is not always there.

Others look at everyone's achievements and their own forces to give you corresponding rewards, first find a job that you feel you can do, and relieve it during wartime.

Continue your old work You are doing other work that will make you get rid of the original and unfamiliar efforts.

I'm 86 too! It's the same age! Some girls are very realistic and hope to marry a promising one in the future (of course, I hope to be rich!).

The girl's parents are not wrong, parents all over the world hope that their children can live a good life, and they will not have to worry about eating, drinking, and wearing anything in the future, so they will consider economic issues!! Now in the financial crisis, it is difficult to find a job, and the general unit is to lay off employees, so there is no need to add people! Let's also (Liaoning)!

So everyone wants this time to pass quickly!! When the time comes, it will be easy to find a job! Otherwise, you often buy some newspapers to read, there are recruitments on them, or you can find them on the Internet!

Find a job first, and the other party will do it! Wait for a good opportunity to change! Hehe!

Your experience is basically the same as mine, I am also experiencing opposition from my girlfriend's family now, because I also have no money, but it is better for you to find your old job if you work, because you have work experience, now looking for a job, people need work experience rather than education, money is not born with everyone, but earn it by yourself, so don't be discouraged by yourself, believe in yourself, now the financial crisis, real estate is very sluggish, there should be a great need for sales talents in this area, low wages are normalAs long as you really make what you are best at and your performance, they will naturally be impressed by you and believe that they will be able to do it.

You can grow there, but it depends on how you do it and how you choose! If you think it's good to mix in Guangdong, why don't you do it in a familiar environment?

The same is the end of the world, sympathy! But at the same time, it is also recommended that you continue to study hard, since you are not afraid of hardship and tiredness, you must not be afraid of reading, reading is not contradictory to your dreams, since you say that you have that talent, then you use your strength to prove it, in the future, take a better film and television university, now study hard, but now even the recruitment of sanitation workers has to be undergraduate, last year there were thousands of college students on TV to grab two sanitation positions. Now it's hard to move an inch without education, I'm working now, I'm very busy and hard, but I have to continue to study for undergraduate studies on my days off.

You also have to take an English test. This is called depression, at least you don't have to worry about your livelihood. Study hard, and when you become a big star in the future, you will thank your parents.

It is recommended that you persevere, after all, there are more than 3 months left, and if you feel hopeless for the undergraduate, it is recommended to specialize. At present, as long as the major is well chosen, the employment is also very good!

Here I recommend that if you are a science student, you can choose: engineering schools, such as: Shijiazhuang Railway College, Shaanxi Railway Vocational and Technical College, Changsha Railway College and other state-run engineering and technology schools.

After all, there's a good thing to stick to! ~

Believe in yourself, and at the same time, don't let down your parents' high expectations!

I suggest you still study hard (as much as you can, if you really don't like it, go and learn something else you like).

You say that you are not afraid of hardship or tiredness, because you have not experienced it, so in your imagination things are always so beautiful and as you wish, but the reality is cruel. When you know what is bitter and what is tired, now you are young and say that you are not afraid of regrets, and when you regret it, it will be difficult for you to look back.

You say you want to pursue an acting career, I think that's what most people want, not to mention how tiring it is to be an actor and an artist. Let's just say that those who graduated from film and other academies, can you say that they have no talent, and they add the hard work of their later studies, and a few of them finally succeeded.

It's true that I want to be in acting, but I think it takes hard work and opportunity. There is also a process. This can also be done for 2 days a day.

It could also be a long, long time. It's not just about being prepared, it's about being patient, and if you don't even have the patience to go to school right now, don't learn what you don't like, do you think it's possible? In fact, learning is to lay a foundation for yourself, and when you have this foundation, the rest will not be so difficult.

I don't know why I say so much)

Your parents are also young, and after so many years, there must be some truth to what they have said, and I hope you can talk to them more about something.

Finally, I wish you: good dreams come true, all wishes come true, and all the best.

Hello, I just entered my freshman year, and I have a little feeling about your situation, because when I was in junior high school, I saw that some of my classmates were "unable to get through" of their studies like you. But they are often messing around, and you are different, you have your own ideals, you are willing to fight for your ideals, and you are willing to endure hardships, which determines that you are different from them! I know that you are in the third year of junior high school, and you also know that this society is a big dye vat, and only enough ability and experience can survive in this big dye vat for a long time, although going to school is not the only way to improve your ability, but it is the smoothest way.

However, I also see your determination, and I certainly can't influence your decision. I believe that the original intention of your parents is still for your good, and they don't want you to enter society too early. We just need to understand their hard work.

You have to work hard for your dreams, and you must have a detailed plan in mind about how to do it to achieve your goals. You must persist in learning it in junior high school to draw a successful end to this stage of life. I believe that God rewards hard work!

I don't know what company you're talking about, accounting? Will it be clever to settle the plan? Since you have doubts about how the company is about when you go to the interview, you have not been to that company on the ground, so it is pointless to guess out of thin air. Good luck finding the job you want.