Whether you want to be together or not, emotional problems, whether you want to be together or not

Updated on psychology 2024-07-22
16 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    Hello, Happy New Year, there are many good men such as me, the following is my point of view, pay attention to whether he is **, think about how you met, and then in the usual chat he is not showing off how he is, peace of mind at work is not going to show off, he is thirty, why is there no object in thirty? Ever thought about it? Listen to your statement that he is very practical, living in the dormitory is only temporary, maybe you still have not many men, I think you are a little bit of a high-profile look at the problem, you will want to just graduate not long before you are more beautiful than you flight attendant he did not chase after you, you will be a little proud when you talk about him when your colleagues usually chat, you are good to find a partner, and you are still young, this can not be changed, I don't agree, look at people are not good, don't chase you and talk to him about feelings, and then talk about him when he is sixteen and come out to work, and the social experience is very rich, The bad experience of the society is also very rich, usually spend one-third of the makeup time to inquire about others, understand and understand the places where he usually may have time in and out, you can also try to make him up casually and say that he found a boyfriend at home to see what his reaction is, this don't say to his face that he will see the flaws He will plan to be bad there, after all, he is very young to come out and work hard, if you really love him with all your heart, then others can't persuade you, you are also afraid that after marriage, life is not good, others laugh at you, If he quarrels with you and apologizes to you with a hippie smile on his face, it proves that he does not accommodate you, and he can't look at life with a high profile after marriage, because he also knows what your situation is, how do you think, if you are married now, it will explode, be cautious, how old you are twenty-three, I will be twenty-three years old after the New Year, when I was in elementary school, the teacher taught us a lot of knowledge, I didn't remember a few, but I can't waste it, when I write things with my heart, I should be the first to echo, there are many good men, such as me,

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    It can be seen that you are very interested in her, who can predict what will happen in the future, just be happy, no regrets, no regrets.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Since you love him, you have to pay a lot, first of all, you must be prepared to endure hardships! Besides, his conditions are not very bad! The most important thing is that he is self-motivated.

    I came out at the age of 16, and I have a lot of persistence! But he's 30 years old, so old, did you know before?

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    You have to know him, understand his plans, understand his plans, so that you can convince your parents, and more importantly, see if this man is not motivated, if he has no plans, it means that he is not interested in your affairs at all, so that you can see your position in his heart, if you choose to be with him, please get to know him well, understand him, and understand your future!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    The little fairy upstairs essay to the beginning and the end echo the score and the plot is unusual, jumping from a small to a big one reflects the complexity of society, but the rhetorical skills are still slightly lacking and needs to be improved What a good big flower of the motherland.

    In the next 10,000 points of relief, the score is not a problem, the key is not bad money

    Brother took a cloud and floated towards the madhouse Next time, I will water it I only have soy sauce at hand.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    There are two cases, depending on how sincere you are with the relationship

    First, you care very much, and you are sure that this relationship is worth your persistence, then you should find a time with him to sit down calmly and have a good talk, I have always thought that many, many misfortunes between men and women are ** in each other's distrust and all kinds of misunderstandings that cause this distrust, talk about it well, and clarify this misunderstanding. Although these things have left a mustard, this can be lifted under constant self-suggestion!

    Second, you yourself are vague, I don't know if this relationship is worth your wait, then give up decisively, in the face of an uncertain relationship that has a major crisis of trust, it is likely that you will get only harm if you hold on to it in the end. If you're not sure if the relationship is worth it, even if you can sit down and confess to each other, it's only a temporary relief from the crisis, and if a similar situation occurs in the future, it is likely to explode and get out of control.

    Finally, of course, as far as spectators are concerned, I hope that the first situation will occur, after all, comedy is better than tragedy, then the last sentence: there is nothing difficult in the world, mediocrity disturbs itself!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    In fact, everyone doesn't want to see such a thing, why do you come together, the reason is very simple, because each other has something to like, men are born with a desire to conquer and possessiveness can not be changed, for your current problems, you have to think about whether you can let go of your boyfriend, and at the same time whether you can abandon your shadow of "their story". If you still love him, I still sincerely hope that you will be happy and can happily enter the palace of marriage. If you really can't get through it, I suggest you break up peacefully.

    It's all for each other's happiness, rather than making you suspicious and making him feel that you are difficult to take care of, it will naturally become a burden.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Since there is still such a plot, let's divide it, just be decisive!

    Otherwise, you're always in trouble because of this, it's a ticking time bomb!

    If you want to be together, don't be in the past, don't talk about the past, otherwise you will simply divide up!

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    If you look at it from an outsider's point of view, of course it shouldn't.

    First, academic qualifications. The woman's bachelor's degree, the man's junior high school has not even graduated, you know, what a diploma can't represent but there is no diploma There will be a gap in many things This gap is invisible, if you tell me that the man is a junior college, then I don't think the gap is big, but the man did not graduate from junior high school The gap is too big, even if they are together in the future, their respective life pursuits, habits, and ideals will be different. You know, it's 9 years of compulsory education now, and I'm afraid that 12 years of compulsory education will be implemented in a few years.

    Second, the place of life in the future. According to you, if the woman has to work outside the home and the man has to stay at home to work, how can she get married in the future? How to have children? How to live? Is it always been a separation of two?

    Third, family background. You must know that the door is right, the door is right, this is handed down by the ancestors, in fact, it is still very reasonable.

    Fourth, feelings and feelings. The woman and the man have been in a long-distance relationship, and the time they have really been together is too short to know each other very well and figure out whether they feel or feel each other.

    Fifth, reality. The woman has not yet graduated, is not deeply involved in the world, does not understand reality, coupled with the pressure of her parents, I want to say that we live in this world, in addition to our own feelings and parents, parents have worked hard to raise girls for more than 20 years, and they are willing to make them sad. And the parents and elders are all from here, and they should still listen to what they say, there is a saying:

    If you don't listen to the old man, you will suffer in front of you.

    Sixth, male violence? Violent tendencies? Not bad for the woman? How can this be seen that he is violent but good to the woman, and is suspicious.

    Wishing happiness to be considered carefully.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Should this relationship be salvaged? Have you been together for a long time?

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    According to your description, I think this relationship is worth cherishing and persevering, why do I say that? Now in this era, there are too few loves like you, it is the kind of love that everyone desires, and you are both two, I want to encourage you to persevere until the end,,, if the other party's relatives and friends are against it, then you have to find the reason why you are opposed, and after finding the reason, it is the answer, if you love each other deeply enough, I believe you will change everything for her, and also for your own happiness.

    What is the greatest joy in life? It's to grow old with your beloved, to be honest, some people have lived a lifetime without feeling love, sad,,, I think this boy is also worthy of praise, now in this society, you see how many people are not out all day long, don't smoke, don't drink and care about girls, what is the greatest happiness of women?

    It's that someone loves and someone hurts. In fact, you are not able to pass the level of relatives and friends now, but you can't pass your own level, you have to know that the future is the two of you to live together, and not to relatives and friends, as long as you are persistent enough, live happy, they will have nothing to say, I think you have not been easy along the way, missed I am afraid it is a lifetime of regret, even if you start again, you may not be able to find the original feelings, it is difficult to buy a love from a thousand dollars, you have to come on,,, I wish you a lover to eventually become a family.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I'm a man, but I don't think you're going to get married, and you're going to fight! Really, but it's up to you, we're all a suggestion, as long as the love is deep, you don't care about anything, but love can't be eaten Don't live in imagination, be realistic!

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    One is anxious and the other is fierce, so don't be together. And the difference in academic qualifications is relatively far, will there be no problem in communication?

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    It's like this before marriage, and maybe what will become after marriage, I personally think it's better to forget it, although people say persuasion and don't persuade to separate, but it also depends on what you think in your heart.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Don't follow your own temperament in life, think more about each other;

    Buying you milk and giving you pocket money shows that he loves you very much, maybe his temper is a little big, then you let him do it, she loses her temper with you, you lose your temper with him, do you just do it?

    Do you think there is something wrong with him, tell him kindly, or tell your prospective in-laws, they can't control it?

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Should this relationship be salvaged? Have you been together for a long time?

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